Hey, I'll give you a format to express your understanding in retrospect. I just became an adult that year, and then 18-year-old sky was free. Then after years of study, I gradually became an adult, and finally, through ups and downs.
Success requires you to walk steadily step by step. Although the opportunity is very important, if you are not prepared, even if the opportunity comes, you can only watch it pass by.
You can tell one or two successful examples, and then talk about how we should look at it and learn from it.
People, Success and Success
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About adults
The meaning of "success" in "adult" here is not "adulthood" or "maturity", but "growth". Therefore, "adult" means "growing up as a person". There is no uniform standard for how to grow into a human being. From the specific social role of contemporary college students in China, they should at least have the following three elements: a sound personality, a high sense of social responsibility and a strong spirit of innovation.
How can you grow into a person? Growing up is not based on individuals, but on society. For contemporary college students in China, it is necessary to link their personal growth with the future of the motherland, national rejuvenation and collective honor consciousness, so as to truly grow into people.
First of all, the national spirit cannot be broken. After five thousand years of historical precipitation, our Chinese nation has formed a national spirit of unity, peace-loving, hard-working, brave and self-improvement with patriotism as the core. At the same time, during the revolution and socialist construction in China, our Party led the people all over the country to form the spirit of Jinggangshan, Yan 'an, Lei Feng, "two bombs and one satellite", "flood fighting" and "space flight", which greatly enriched and developed the connotation of the national spirit. At present, we should firmly establish and actively practice the socialist concept of honor and disgrace as an important task to carry forward the national spirit. Party committees in colleges and universities should carry out the education of socialist concept of honor and disgrace in various effective ways, so that college students can know the difference between honor and disgrace, do what they should do and refuse to do what they are ashamed of, firmly establish the socialist concept of honor and disgrace, and strive to become an example of practicing the socialist concept of honor and disgrace.
Secondly, the tradition of hard work cannot be lost. Most of today's college students are only children born in the mid-1980s. Due to the excessive care and care of the only child by society and family, some college students lack ideals and beliefs, care little about the future and destiny of the country, and lack dedication; Lack of willingness to study hard and endure loneliness in study; In life, I am greedy for pleasure, waste money, wear famous brands, talk about ostentation and extravagance, and my consumption level is beyond my family's economic capacity. The most important thing to write letters and call home is to ask my parents for money. In the choice of employment, they are too bitter, too tired, too low-paid, too fond of pleasure and enjoy the success. Nowadays, hard work is advocated. Some people may say that people struggle hard for a better life, and thrift is the initial accumulation stage for survival. Once living conditions are superior, there is no need to struggle hard. Perhaps some college students will hold the view that only by promoting consumption can economic development be promoted. In fact, hard work is people's spiritual motivation. It's hard to get something without knowing it, but it's hard to get it Even if you live at home, you should understand the truth that "starting a family is like picking dirt, and losing a family is like pushing sand." Therefore, the spirit of hard work is not only out of date, but also of great significance to China, which is in the primary stage of socialism. In the new century, hard work and thrift have new connotations. It is not only manifested in diligent study and frugality in consumption, but more importantly, it forms the values, internal motivation and behavior style of life on this basis.
Third, the consciousness of unity and cooperation cannot be weak. Unity and cooperation are people's way of life, moral norms and character cultivation. A sense of unity and cooperation is an important quality of modern people. Modern society is a highly complex organism, and modern mass production and fast-paced social life require people's high sense of cooperation and team spirit. With the development of human science and technology to this day, the infiltration and integration of disciplines determines that it is difficult for individuals to achieve the other side of success alone. Unity is strength, and cooperation is ability. The success of manned spaceflight project is the best example. The whole project has gathered hundreds of thousands of scientific and technical personnel from more than 3,000 units in more than 0/00 industries in China. To enhance the sense of unity and cooperation, we must start from our daily study and life. Students should often exchange ideas, help and learn from each other, learn the correct "struggle" and respectable "concession", and experience the urgency of cooperation in * * *.
In short, if college students learn to be human, they must learn to be indifferent, tolerant, persistent and self-disciplined.
About becoming a talent
To become a talent, you must learn to learn. As far as the contemporary society in China is concerned, it has moved from an academic society and an identity society to a capable society. College students are in an important stage of life growth, and all have the potential to become talents. But you can't think that you have become a talent just because you are a college student. College students are only a basic condition for future success.
(1) Clear orientation.
The orientation of college students' success is based on adapting to social needs, giving full play to their own advantages and making use of realistic conditions. Only by combining these three factors can success become possible.
(2) improve their own quality.
Opportunities are only given to those who are prepared. The main task of college students is learning, and the content of learning is not only book knowledge, but also practical knowledge. The study of these two kinds of knowledge is the improvement of one's own quality and the preparation for future success.
First, we must lay a solid cultural foundation. Cultural knowledge is the foundation and condition for the growth of talents, and plays a key role in the process of college students' success. This includes solid and generous basic knowledge, profound professional knowledge and comprehensive knowledge.
Second, we should strengthen practical exercise. Nowadays, college students' social practice activities have changed from organization to autonomy, from centralization to decentralization, from gratuitousness to compensation, from professionalism to sociality, and from singleness to pluralism. These changes are the reflection of the progress of the times and the result of social development.
Third, we must maintain a healthy psychology. At present, a popular word on campus is "depressed". "I didn't do well in the exam and I was depressed", "I was depressed when I met difficulties in life" and "I was depressed when I didn't handle the relationship with my classmates well"; "The election of student cadres was unsuccessful and depressing"; "I want to find a job soon after graduation, and I am depressed", and so on. "Depression" is like a mirror, which expresses many college students' wandering and hazy emotional confusion. If this kind of depression is not solved and released for a long time, it will affect mental health, resulting in mental illness. Judging from the current situation, the common psychological diseases among college students are as follows: neurasthenia, depression, anxiety and psychological emergency-suicide. Among them, the incidence of neurasthenia among college students is about 8.5%. Therefore, it is very important for contemporary college students to constantly improve their mental health, adjust their mentality and have a healthy psychology. Time is a good painkiller to cure mental illness and adjust mentality. Learn to forget and endure, and life will be sunny and happy. In study and life, don't give up your right to be happy, and keep discovering happiness, creating happiness and enjoying happiness. When self-regulation fails, we should turn to psychological counseling, make full use of psychological hotline, group counseling, consultation mailbox, mutual communication and other psychological counseling channels, and accept external help and guidance, so as to effectively maintain mental health, optimize psychological quality and promote personality perfection.
About success
Success is learning to do things. In today's society, success has become the most striking topic in this era, and we are even more familiar with the stories of one successful person after another. Everyone is eager for success, and college students want to succeed in their careers. So, how can we succeed? We must first understand what success is, and then go all out to succeed.
(1) Grasp the connotation of success.
Success is a kind of spirit. Zhang Shangyun, a member of the State Taxation Bureau of Henan Province, is the candidate for the16th National Top Ten Outstanding Youth, and is a graduate of Changchun Taxation College. He worked behind his mother's back to study. In the past five years, he not only worked to earn money for his mother to seek medical treatment and abide by filial piety, but also used a little time to study hard, won a scholarship for five semesters, successfully completed his studies, and won the first place in the comprehensive score of written interview in Henan Province in the 2005 national tax system recruitment civil service examination, and was admitted by the State Taxation Bureau of Henan Province. It is precisely because of this perseverance and spirit of perseverance, enduring hardship, tenacious struggle and never giving up until the goal is reached that he finally succeeded in his study and employment.
Success is a sublimation. When Lu Jianguo of Hubei won the second "China Youth Entrepreneurship Award", the award speech introduced him as follows: "From poor rural migrant workers to private entrepreneurs with hundreds of millions of assets, Lu Jianguo has made a rural baby's' myth of getting rich'". How was Lu Jianguo's myth of getting rich written? He began to sell clothes, and later he ran as a passenger. Despite all his hard work and mental efforts, he failed again and again. When he started again from another business-collecting waste products, he finally took the first successful step, which laid a solid foundation for him to become the chairman of Hubei Longfa Iron and Steel Industry and Trade Co., Ltd. in the future. Failure is both the negation of success and the foundation of success. It is worth noting that success is not a simple accumulation of failure, but a profound understanding and continuous transcendence of failure. It is a sublimation of wisdom and rationality. Learn from failure and accumulate wisdom, so that failure is not "in vain".
Third, success is a process. A young employee is usually lazy at work. One month before becoming a regular employee, he asked his boss, "If I work hard for a month, can I become a regular employee?" The boss replied: "a thermometer in a cold room, if you cover it with hot hands, can make the temperature on the meter rise, but the room will not be warm at all." Success is a hard practical process, and it is a process of piling up one goal after another, and each goal is a step. The real success is to integrate diligence and hard work into daily study and life and into daily work practice.
(2) Choose the right road to success.
For college students, there is a common goal during their study at school, that is, to achieve good academic performance and improve their overall quality. And when graduation is coming, everyone is facing different life choices and moving towards different life paths. Generally speaking, after graduation, college students will be faced with the choices of further study, employment and self-employment. So, which way can you choose to succeed?
Continue to study. There may be two main mentalities for college students to take the postgraduate entrance examination. One is to have a strong interest in learning or scientific research, and the other is to get a better job. I believe that there are not a few college students with a second mentality. Because of this, the number of applicants for graduate students has increased year by year. According to the statistics of the education department, in 2006, the number of graduate students applying for master's degree in China exceeded1200,000, which was more than100,000 compared with last year. This situation shows that the competition in the postgraduate entrance examination is becoming more and more fierce. Therefore, I hope you'd better find out what you really think before you walk into the examination room.
Employment work. Employment is the foundation of people's livelihood. At present, the employment market for college graduates is structurally weak, especially the unbalanced flow of employment, which is concentrated in big cities and units with better conditions, aggravating the structural imbalance of employment. At present, the key to solve the employment problem of college students is to establish a long-term mechanism for the employment of college graduates. First, adapting to the socialist market economic system is a prerequisite. Under the traditional planned economy system, higher education is "elite education", and graduation equals employment. Under the socialist market economy system, higher education has entered the stage of "popularization", and the fundamental way out for college graduates' employment depends on the market. On the one hand, it is necessary to strengthen the publicity and education of outlook on life, values and employment; on the other hand, it is necessary to pay attention to the normal material interests of talents and give them reasonable material returns, that is to say, good conditions should be created, such as personnel relations agency, household registration management, entrepreneurial concessions, salary standards, job title evaluation, living allowance, and civil servant recruitment, and there should be operational material incentive policies to guide and encourage more college graduates to work flexibly at the grassroots level. Secondly, improving the level and quality of running a university is the guarantee. As for the employment of college graduates, it is necessary to combine the employment rate with the employment situation to reflect the complete employment. Employment rate is the amount of employment, and the final result of education and teaching reform is first reflected in students' employability.
The third is self-employment. William Hewlett, known as the "father of Silicon Valley" in the United States, set up Hewlett-Packard Company with a loan of 1000 USD as soon as he graduated from Stanford University. Bill Gates even went out to start his own business before finishing college. This shows that in today's era of knowledge economy and market economy, the possibility of directly transforming "intellectual capital" into "capital" is greatly increasing. For college students who have just left school, starting a business is not something that can be done at once, but must have certain conditions. At present, college students are facing a good environment for starting their own businesses. From the central government to the local governments and universities, college students are warmly encouraged and supported to start their own businesses after graduation. Jilin Province regards college graduates' self-employment as an important force to promote the construction of tertiary industry, non-public enterprises and small towns, and adopts corresponding preferential policies to continuously increase support. For qualified college students, self-employment already has a rare opportunity. Like the generation of any new thing, the process of college graduates' self-employment is full of expectations and also full of bitterness and bumps. But there is a saying, "reaching for the stars may not be as you wish, but it won't get your hands dirty." Today, entrepreneurship has become a trend of the times, and with the improvement of various environmental conditions, it is only possible to make the success of star-picking even greater.
Finally, I hope that students will make two "friends" during their college years. One is the sports ground, where they can exercise and strengthen their physique, and the other is the library, where they can read extensively and enrich themselves. I am willing to eat two "things", one is to suffer, and I am not afraid of suffering, and the other is to suffer and do things without fear of suffering; Growth depends on "two realities", one is honesty, being honest, and the other is solid and doing things solidly. Real aspiring young people must have a high sense of responsibility, generous knowledge, persistent spirit and healthy body and mind to pursue adulthood, success and success.