Generally speaking, people enter marriage to meet certain needs. Society has a great influence on any individual's mate selection criteria. Personal mate selection is not only restricted by social structure, but also affects people's mate selection behavior through huge cultural traditions and customs, which forms a strong pressure on unconventional mate selection.
Therefore, society has great restrictions on personal mate selection. Specifically, unmarried men and women should consider at least two criteria when choosing a spouse, namely, social attribute criteria and natural attribute criteria. After graduating from college, many people stayed in big cities with the idea that young people should make more breakthroughs while they are young. Most of these young people with dreams and ambitions are men. Women generally pursue stability, so in order to live a relaxed and stable life, most of them choose to return to their small towns after graduation and find a simple job with a fixed income. This kind of life is paid, not too tired, and there is plenty of vacation time. It stands to reason that there should be a lot of time to find someone and fall in love. Then why have they all become leftover women?
In fact, it is because there are too few men in the system of small counties, such as teachers. Looking around, most of them are young women and middle-aged grandfathers, and few are just young men. Then where did they all go? Traveling in a big city, of course. Men who can stay in big cities are generally reluctant to return to small counties to live a quiet life.
There are too few male compatriots in the system, and the probability of women finding boyfriends is greatly reduced. It's like a school with a large proportion of girls. Many girls are single, and a school with a balanced gender is generally targeted. Women find partners, like the principle of proximity, and like to find people around them. Only the people around can arouse the love in people's hearts, and it is not easy for women to find the other half when there are few opposite sex around them. Committed to being the one who knows the best answer.
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There is an imbalance between men and women in this system.
After graduating from college, many people stayed in big cities with the idea that young people should make more breakthroughs while they are young. Most of these young people with dreams and ambitions are men. Women generally pursue stability, so in order to live a relaxed and stable life, most of them choose to return to their small towns after graduation and find a simple job with a fixed income. This kind of life is paid, not too tired, and there is plenty of vacation time. It stands to reason that there should be a lot of time to find someone and fall in love. Then why have they all become leftover women?
In fact, it is because there are too few men in the system of small counties, such as teachers. Looking around, most of them are young women and middle-aged grandfathers, and few are just young men. Then where did they all go? Traveling in a big city, of course. Men who can stay in big cities are generally reluctant to return to small counties to live a quiet life.
There are too few male compatriots in the system, and the probability of women finding boyfriends is greatly reduced. It's like a school with a large proportion of girls. Many girls are single, and a school with a balanced gender is generally targeted. Women find partners, like the principle of proximity, and like to find people around them. Only the people around can arouse the love in people's hearts, and it is not easy for women to find the other half when there are few opposite sex around them.
Wrong view of love
Many girls in the small county system have decent wages and plenty of leisure time to educate the next generation. They are well aware of their own advantages, so it is easy for them to have high expectations in finding a partner. They think that when looking for a partner, they must find someone whose salary is higher than their own, preferably within the system. As mentioned above, there are few young men in the system, let alone high-quality young men.
Most women in small towns have immature and traditional views on love. They always think that in marriage, men's income must be higher than that of women, so many women are unwilling to find a weaker marriage partner than themselves. Women in the system do not like men outside the system and feel that life is not guaranteed. Excessive demands make many women unable to find suitable marriage partners.