I think, for the sake of love and marriage, I resolutely gave up the opportunity to work hard in the workplace. I have been a prisoner bird, locked in a small world on my side for almost ten years. I don't say it's a stable job now, even if it's unstable, I like it very much.
Looking at women with stable jobs around me, I really envy them. They have stable jobs, either as teachers, civil servants or working in some large enterprises and institutions. I have fixed working hours every day, and I can play and communicate happily with my children after work. In this way, normal daily work can make your life have goals and expectations. A stable job brings them a stable income, so that they won't worry about their future livelihood. A stable job allows them to plan their careers without worrying about where their next job will be.
Women with stable jobs all have their own income. Spending money is also full of confidence. The economic base determines the superstructure. You can earn money by yourself or ignore the face of your in-laws and husband. I feel at ease when I spend some money shopping for my parents.
Women with stable jobs have regular holidays. After a busy period of time, I can relax with my children and parents and go out to travel and play this holiday. This state of life really makes us envy.