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1995 On New Year's Eve, the family sat around the old TV set and watched the sketch "Call me if you need anything". A young man was very excited and pointed to the actress inside and said to his mother:

Mom, my wife will be her in the future, and this is your daughter-in-law.

The mother smiled and shook her head, apparently ignoring her son's words.

Who knows that just five years later, my son really took the actress home, and my mother was so happy that she kept her mouth shut and praised her son for his skill and married a female star to go home.

This is the story of singer Sun Nan and actor Hongmei Mai. I thought that childhood obsession and years of pursuit of goals would make this relationship grow old together, but it backfired.

Hongmei Mai, 1970, was born in Pingdingshan, Henan. His parents are both Quyi workers.

Perhaps it is influenced by the environment, perhaps it is inherited from my parents' good genes. I have been able to sing and dance since I was a child, which is particularly outstanding.

Once, when she was very young, she saw her mother often see through people in military uniforms with envious eyes on TV.

In order to satisfy her mother's wish, Hongmei Mai was drafted into the army in 1984 and became a member of the Northwest Military Region Cultural and Art Troupe.

Looking at her daughter in military uniform, her mother's eyes are full of love and tears.

Once the army performed a sketch variation for a female soldier, and an actress was in poor health, so Hongmei Mai was put on the stage.

I thought the performance would be ruined, but the result was beyond the expectations of the leaders.

Although I haven't participated in the rehearsal, I have been tempered in the army and worshipped the soldiers.

Let Hongmei Mai play this role vividly, and also have a chance to be on the Spring Festival Evening.

1993' s Little Nanny, 1995' s Talk about something, and 1996' s Buy in buy buy, Xinjiang, have all appeared in the Spring Festival Evening again and again.

If this situation continues, it is not impossible to become the next Song Dandan. But the appearance of a man disturbed her acting career.

When Hongmei Mai was known by more people, Sun Nan accumulated some fame through a singing contest.

Sun Nan, whose career became more and more popular, finally came into contact with the young goddess Hongmei Mai on a program. After a few hours together, they appreciated each other more.

So when Sun Nan confessed, Hongmei Mai agreed without hesitation.

Just as Sun Nan was struggling to give her a grand wedding, Hongmei Mai, who was carried away by love, said: I have money.

In May, 2000, two people who just met went to the palace of marriage.

On the wedding day, Sun Nan just took part in an activity, but only showed up at the wedding in a hurry, leaving Hongmei Mai alone to toast and deal with the guests.

On the average girl, she might lose her temper and turn away, but Hongmei Mai didn't complain at all, and apologized to the guests again and again for her husband.

With the help of Hongmei Mai, Sun Nan quickly gained a foothold in the music industry.

It was also in this year that Hongmei Mai gave birth to their first child, Mai Baoyao. But at that time, Sun Nan was busy with her career all day and had no time to take care of her children. She can't leave her children with her elders for a long time.

In desperation, Hongmei Mai had to put off all notices and return to her family to accompany her daughter's growth wholeheartedly.

With their daughters, they also lived an enviable happy life.

For example, because of Hongmei Mai, Sun Nan hasn't eaten pork since he fell in love.

On some anniversaries, we often make some surprises, either handmade or carefully selected gifts for our wives.

Besides, I also received my parents-in-law to live together, and my attitude towards my parents made my own daughter Hongmei Mai sigh.

On one occasion, Sun Nan peeled a prawn and handed it to his father-in-law. Perhaps he had never enjoyed this kind of treatment, which made the old man panic and hide in the bedroom.

Sun Nan didn't give up. He sincerely chased prawns from the living room to the bedroom and insisted on feeding them to his father-in-law.

This move made the old man remember for a long time, and everyone praised: My daughter married the right person and my son-in-law is very good.

However, his attitude towards his wife Hongmei Mai is the opposite.

Sun Nan in life is a male chauvinist man.

Every time a couple quarrels, no matter who is right or wrong, Hongmei Mai will bow his head and apologize.

In early interviews, Hongmei Mai always said: The husband is a particularly easy-going person. As long as you give him a step, the dignified atmosphere that permeates between two people will always ease instantly.

The only topic that will cause conflict between them is Sun Nan's obsession with sports.

Go out to meet the morning glow in the morning, and then go out to socialize or get together with friends non-stop after playing golf. The next day, the process of the previous day will be repeated.

Obviously they are the closest couple, but they are like tenants sharing a house. Therefore, Hongmei Mai talked about her husband.

But for Sun Nan, everything else can be discussed, except this one. Who would have thought that one of Sun Nan's hobbies became the fuse to destroy this happy family.

In 2007, Hongmei Mai was just pregnant with her second child. While trying to resist physical discomfort, she helped her eldest daughter with her homework and took time out to do tedious housework.

That time was the hardest time for her.

Sun Nan, on the other hand, was trapped by his thriving career and one announcement after another. Every time he went home, he would lie on the sofa covered in mud, and he was impatient with Hongmei Mai's help.

Pregnant women are prone to paranoia. Sun Nan's behavior made Hongmei Mai often ask himself: Why did a person who loved me so much before marriage become like this after marriage?

Sun Nan was lying in bed puzzled: a girl who was so considerate before marriage had lost her figure, sallow skin and bad temper since she had children.

In this way, two people who have differences go further and further.

One stays at home with daily necessities, washes and cooks to take care of the children, the other goes to entertainment places to drown his sorrows, or goes to golf courses for recreation.

The endless green grass looks like the scenery over Hongmei Mai's head.

While playing golf, Sun Nan met Pan Wei, the host of the golf tournament.

Although she has had two marriages and a daughter, her chic freedom can always eliminate Sun Nan's boredom and leave ripples.

Compared with the "yellow-faced woman" who just gave birth at home, a bold idea came to Sun Nan's mind.

When I got home, I asked my wife for a divorce, which puzzled Hongmei Mai. Is it because you stayed at home for too long and lost your charm?

So I decided to go back to work.

First, I joined Dragon TV, became the host of a variety show, and then participated in a TV series.

However, can Hongmei Mai, who has returned to his old job, really keep the prodigal son's heart?

The answer is naturally no.

Some time later, in order to regain his freedom, Sun Nan used half of his assets, 30 million cash and five houses as chips to file a divorce with Hongmei Mai again.

May be aware of a man's determination, Hongmei Mai, whose heart is dying, didn't stay.

In 2009, he divorced. When a woman is in pain, a man marries Pan Wei, who has been married three times.

After the sadness, Hongmei Mai came out of the sadness of divorce and returned to work. After all, there is a school daughter and a hungry son at home.

Sun Nan seized this handle and directly took his ex-wife to court, saying that she was too busy to take care of a pair of children and asked for custody back.

This accusation directly pushed the exhausted Hongmei Mai into the abyss.

How many times did she go to the seaside alone, trying to throw herself into the sea, until the cold sea flooded her feet and a young face appeared in her mind.

If she leaves, what about the two children?

After careful consideration, Hongmei Mai patted the dust with his smile for the rest of his life and left here.

After several years of litigation, Hongmei Mai decided to settle down and raise children together.

20 1 1, she and Guo partner returned to the stage of the Spring Festival Evening, returned to the spotlight, and returned to her favorite performance before marriage.

In addition, she also participated in many TV dramas, such as Divorce Lawyer and Good Life, all of which have her figure.

However, the ex-husband Sun Nan made a moth again.

20 19, a topic named "Sun Nan sends her daughter to Durban" quickly rushed to the hot search list.

At the beginning, a so-called "national studies class" was held in Xuzhou. After discussion, Sun Nan and his wife decided to let their children learn traditional culture. Therefore, they moved from the first-tier cities to the third-tier cities: Xuzhou, which means that Meng Mu has moved three times.

However, careful netizens found something fishy.

"Be a good wife and mother, a good mother and a good wife?" Girls must aim at getting married and having children?

Now it is 2 1 century, and parents send teenage girls to learn these things, so that a group of young boys and girls can live in a room.

Everything can not help but make people sigh. Is this something that a biological father can do?

Pan Wei also preached in front of the camera: Now two children, Sun Nan and Hongmei Mai, are educated in traditional schools in Xuzhou, especially their daughter. On weekdays, in addition to learning traditional etiquette and culture, we should also learn needlework such as needlework.

Because she will be a wife and mother in the future, which will also lay the foundation for her future life.

Although there is nothing wrong with this passage on the surface, you can see the intention by reading the red thick words.

Someone is puzzled. Pan Wei sent other people's daughters to Durban to study. What about her own children?

Previously, Pan Wei's daughter attended an ordinary high school in Beijing. Even if she is ordinary, she is a hundred times stronger than the "female Durban" in Xuzhou.

Later, Pan Wei also sent her daughter to study abroad. As soon as the education of biological daughter and stepdaughter is compared, the difference comes out.

Maybe the pillow wind is blowing too hard, or maybe he is playing dumb and understanding. As a father, Sun Nan didn't feel anything wrong, and stood beside her daughter for a photo with a smile.

During that time, there were many opinions on the Internet. Sun Nan and Pan Wei, who are at the forefront, have become targets of public criticism and are ridiculed from the inside out.

At this time, the party concerned, Mai Baoyao, stood up and overthrew everyone's three views.

"I learned a lot there" is like writing a composition for a long time. Between the lines is the worship of stepmother.

At this time, some netizens came out to dismantle her platform and posted screenshots asking: Didn't you say that a few years ago?

The family experienced many twists and turns and intrigues, but the ex-wife Hongmei Mai never made a statement. On the contrary, she pays more and more attention to career development.

Look at Sun Nan. Without the blessing of the filter, the traces left by the years on his face are more and more obvious. His flabby muscles and laws make him look like a young man no longer. Besides, his career is gradually declining.

Look at Hongmei Mai again, 13 divorced, 52 years old. Although there is a window period because of the first marriage, more and more scripts have been received in the past two years.

The judges of variety shows and talent shows have a smooth career and are enviable emotionally.

While struggling for her career, she also met her current husband Sun Yulun.

After a low-key marriage, he spoiled her into a little princess. Time not only left no trace on her face, but also showed more charm than when she was young.

On social platforms, we often see photos of Hongmei Mai's family going out to play. From her expression and state, you can't see the shadow of 52 years old at all.

I still remember a sentence by Hongmei Mai: When you hate someone, the best revenge is to live a better life than him. Obviously, she did it.

Finally, I also hope that Hongmei Mai and her current husband can live together for the rest of their lives.