When I have money, I sometimes have my own relatives and friends in the mountains. Only those who have experienced it will understand this feeling. This is my personal experience in Binzhou, believe it or not.
The topic you are talking about has the same meaning as an old saying in the countryside (no one asks you if you are poor in the street, but you have money and distant relatives in the mountains). What do these two sentences mean for the cold weather in society? At the same time, it also reflects people's worship of material wealth from ancient times to the present, which also reflects the catchword material and reality? The rich have these material wealth, which is of course contrary to people's worship. And the poor have nothing, so no one will ask you. This is a realistic portrayal of human existence in nature.
First of all, I quote an ancient poem to illustrate some literal meanings. Those who wear Luo Qi are not silkworm farmers. For example, farmers raise silkworms, and the other is the rich. One is a deep mountain, and the other is a bustling downtown. Obviously, there has been a class difference between these two kinds of people, and the contradiction inevitably appears, that is, the poor will try their best to find opportunities for change from the rich, while the rich think that you are only looking for me to curry favor with me, help you get something and maximize your interests. So sometimes, if you don't help, the poor want to get rid of poverty and live a rich life, but they are also jealous of the rich, which leads to a result of helping the rich but not helping the poor. Therefore, simply cooperating with rich people will not enjoy this opportunity with a person who is nothing like himself. After all, the circle is different, so it is very similar to the present society.
Some people are greedy? Snobbish? Illness. Specifically, if you have money, they will try their best to get close to you, hoping to get some money you give away when you are happy. If you have no money, they will try their best to avoid you, fearing that you will suddenly borrow some money from them.
Among them, the money mentioned above refers not only to money, but also to political power and social power energy.
It is an eternal truth that no one asks the poor in the downtown, but there are distant relatives in the mountains. Affection, friendship and love are not as good as money. They respect the rich and abandon the poor, are immoral and lawless, and are indifferent to the world. Everything is caused by human selfish desires, and the instinct of human affection and love is lost. Blood is thicker than water, and parents and brothers are very small under the impulse of interests. Only money is omnipotent, and wealth has distant relatives in the mountains.
There is a famous saying in "Augmented Xianwen": The poor live in downtown, and no one asks the rich to have distant relatives in the mountains? .
It means: when people are poor, relatives and friends seldom come and go, and when they are rich, relatives will come to you even if they are far away.
There is a saying among the people that thin people never leave the army, and poor people never leave their relatives. . When you are poor, try not to go to relatives and friends' homes. At this time, many people are cynical and sneer at your jokes.
Chen Ming once told a story about his father in the variety show "Starting Shooting".
At that time, his father moved to the city through his own efforts, and later worked as a policeman for more than ten years, doing a good job.
Today, this relative asked if he could help arrange a job. Tomorrow, relatives said, you work in the public security bureau anyway. Help me solve the account by the way. Even relatives came to ask him for help to introduce the object.
Help, help, things are not reduced, but more and more, because relatives are all a bowl of water: if you help him, you have to help me, otherwise it is meaningless.
Later, Chen Ming's father finally got angry: I don't admit that I am a relative! ?
As a result, these relatives really haven't walked around his house for five or six years.
Lu Yao said in "Ordinary World": Friendship between people is not a relative because it is not there. When they were young, they often regarded their relatives as beautiful and important. When you grow up and start living independently, you will know that family ties are often vulgar. You try to get along with each other and roll your eyes if you don't. Even the biggest difficulties in your life are often caused by relatives. ?
The most complicated thing in the world is feelings, which are often constantly cut and confused.
Between relatives, we should also maintain appropriate limits, neither indifferent nor too close; Neither unprincipled help nor indifference.
Only by keeping a proper distance can relatives be warm for a long time.
In today's society, there are very few poor people in the real sense. Those who were originally rich, but later failed, were heavily in debt, and were surrounded by relatives and friends when they were prosperous, how many people can go bankrupt now? ! Let's take a look at the story of my friend General Qiu before and after his bankruptcy!
Mr Qiu is 45 years old. He was already rich when he was 30 years old, and he was the first one of his peers to make a fortune. Relying on the advantages of his textile graduates, in the era when he just joined the WTO, textiles and clothing have ushered in a wave of opportunities for export development. At that time, Xiaoqiu got to know a large number of salesmen of foreign trade companies by attending the Canton Fair for many times, and made a lot of profits from a steady stream of orders. I drove a luxury car at a young age, bought a commercial house, got married and built my own factory in the local industrial park. At the peak, there were more than 300 workers in this factory. Mr. Qiu has also become a veritable entrepreneur with unlimited scenery.
For more than ten years, Mr. Qiu has been living a star-studded life. Every Chinese New Year holiday, relatives, friends and classmates are scrambling to treat him. Someone at home always comes to him, even primary school students who haven't contacted for years can come to him, just to curry favor with him. If any relative doesn't have time to pay New Year greetings, he will be unhappy for a long time. As long as someone asks Qiu for help, he never refuses what he can do, and he never cares about spending money to help others, all for his own face.
Three years ago, Mr. Qiu suffered his own waterloo. Due to the sharp increase in workers' wages, his factory is under increasing pressure as a labor-intensive enterprise. Many orders are unprofitable, and the benefits are getting worse every year. At the same time, he is catching up with the tightening of bank credit policy. His enterprise got millions of loans, and unfortunately, the 3 million loans guaranteed by his friends were unable to repay because their company went bankrupt, and finally all the debts fell on him. After struggling for several months, Mr. Qiu was unable to return to heaven. Workers went on strike and made trouble, and the bank sued him for not paying interest on the loan. Other debtors followed suit and joined the ranks of debt collection. There was nothing to be done, and the enterprise that Mr. Qiu had worked so hard for many years closed down overnight.
This year's Spring Festival is the third year for his family of three to be away alone. During the festival, he could not return to his relatives and friends. The prosperity of the past is a dream for him. No one who helped him called to say hello to him for a happy New Year. In the new year, all his relatives seem to have forgotten him. Many people in the WeChat circle of friends blocked him, and the New Year was a mental torment for him.
Fortunately, the new business he opened up has improved, and after ups and downs, Mr. Qiu has also calmed down a lot.
In this era of entrepreneurship, countless people like Mr. Qiu are suffering and trying to make a comeback.
The poor are exhausted from three meals a day. No matter where they live, they don't have much time, energy and money to socialize, and there are fewer natural friends. The rich have freedom of thought and economy, and naturally they can go wherever they want.
The biggest difference between the poor and the rich is the difference in cognition and consciousness, so they look at the problem from different angles, so they can't play together without the same topic, because everyone will only attract people with similar magnetic fields. So I personally think it has nothing to do with being too poor and loving the rich.
This sentence, whether in the past or now, is realistic and has been proved by history. Moreover, in the era of vigorous economic development and abundant products, it is more representative and beyond reproach.
Power and money complement each other. The rich and the poor are naturally divided into classes, and so are the haves and the have-nots in the crowd. The poor have become poor, and they lack relatives and friends no matter where they live. This is an ancient genetic theorem. People with power and wealth must have favored assets. No matter where you live, you will live a fairy life by climbing relatives and friends. So, how many stories are hidden in this famous saying?