1. Action is better than action.

Anything, starting to do far more than preparing to do, will bring growth and gain to people. Many things have been thinking, but they are just doing. You may make mistakes, but at least you can constantly adjust and correct them in the process. Think too much and don't act, just stand still.

2. The ability to remain independent forever

One should be able to remain independent at all times. Only when you learn to earn money to support yourself can you survive. Only by learning to be independent can we talk about freedom. The double independence of material and spirit is the standard for you to have a good life.

3. Never stop learning

You have done one thing a hundred times and there is still room for improvement; You have written an article a hundred times, and there is still room for improvement; You have used the method a hundred times, and there is still room for improvement. Once you stop learning, people will stop learning. Only when you are never too old to learn can you continue to grow and progress.

It is better to change than to complain.

It is neither desirable nor meaningful to always complain about other people's faults. Complaining blindly can't solve any problems, but it will make your state worse and worse. Try to change your mind. A positive and optimistic attitude can help you get out of the current predicament.

Don't care too much about other people's comments.

Everyone has their own unique life. Don't let other people's voices affect your choice, and don't let other people's comments interfere with your decision. When you encounter a problem, you can listen to other people's advice, but you can only make a decision. Each of us is responsible for our own life.

6. Don't have too many negative emotions.

Everyone's life is not smooth sailing. We all have moments of fatigue, depression and even disappointment, but don't indulge in negative emotions for too long. The more you give up on yourself, the less things will get better. Too many bad emotions will only become a stumbling block on your way forward.

7. Don't embarrass others or yourself.

Getting along with others is actually mutual tolerance and understanding. In any relationship, getting along comfortably is the most important thing. Don't always try to change each other. A comfortable relationship can accept each other's advantages and disadvantages.

8. Not taking advantage is basic education.

There is a saying: "not taking advantage is self-cultivation, and reciprocity is self-cultivation." The more greedy, the worse. No one wants to get along with a person who haggles over every ounce, and no one wants to get along with a person who does everything he can. Once you get into the habit of taking advantage of others, you will only narrow your own path.

9. Reliability is a person's best card.

When you get along with others, you shouldn't break your word. Since you have promised others, you must keep your word. Don't be careless about even the smallest thing. Everything must be explained, everything must have an end, and everything must have an echo. If one's words and deeds are different, he will not only lose the trust of others, but also miss many opportunities.