? (1) Relying on the leadership. How to achieve yourself by leadership? After working for 24 years, my feeling is that I am willing to accept criticism from leaders. In daily work, it is common for both old comrades and young comrades to be criticized by leaders because of problems in work attitude, work style, work efficiency and work methods. In the face of criticism, some people learn from their lessons and strive for progress, some people are depressed, and some even complain about others, which has become a prejudice against leaders. The criticism of leaders is often regarded as "giving yourself a hard time", or complaining that "the more you do, the more criticism you get". Some even think that "a leader who does not criticize himself is a good leader". Actually, it is not. Generally speaking, leaders who dare to criticize their subordinates are mostly bold, strict and determined leaders. His work standard is very high, especially for those who think training is very important. He often adopts the method of pressing the burden, being strict with requirements and "beating gongs and drums". So some criticism is that leaders hate iron and love their subordinates. As the saying goes, "Be brave after knowing shame". Leadership criticism is actually the best form of our "other provinces". The criticism of leaders is the driving force that inspires us to make progress. When we are criticized by the leaders, we should not only recognize the harm of the problems and dig deep into the causes of the problems, but more importantly, draw inferences from others, find out and rectify our own shortcomings in work, study and cultivation, redouble our efforts to do the work and tasks assigned by the leaders, and avoid making the second mistake on similar problems. I have been criticized by the leaders many times. I still remember attending the county-level open class in May of 20 13, and I won the second place because I delayed the class for more than 1 minute. The headmaster was very angry and severely criticized me, and asked all teachers at the meeting of the preparation group that anyone who missed the class in the future, no matter how good the class was, would be rated as a failed class. I made up my mind that I would never postpone class again. In the future, I will design a teaching session with time before each class, hold a mobile phone in class, record myself, listen repeatedly in my spare time, and improve the existing problems in the next class. When I participated in the city quality class competition, my teaching design was compact and the time was reasonable. With the students saying "thank you, teacher", the bell just rang and I won the first prize. Sometimes I don't work thoroughly, and President Wang has reminded me many times at the right time. For fear of being criticized, I always change the materials submitted every time. I don't trust. I will find more people to help me think it over carefully, and then ask the competent leader to check it before I dare to report it. Therefore, the materials I submitted have been well received by the higher authorities, and the leaders of the Education Bureau recommended me to participate in the editing of the local course Campus Reading. For the first time, I was the deputy editor-in-chief of a officially published publication. The director of the Education Bureau is also very relieved to give me the editing responsibility of the "Dexiao Companion Hall" arranged by the Education Bureau. It is with the "compulsion" of leaders in our work that we can overcome inertia and grow in all aspects. We can surpass ourselves and accomplish things beyond our ability. When the leader forced us, we had to face the difficulties and change ourselves, and finally the effect was getting better and better. We harvest ourselves and relax ourselves! What a good teacher is not "forced"! However, you must grasp one thing. When the leader stops criticizing you, you should seriously reflect: in the eyes of the leader, you may have become an uneducated "rotten wood". The leader's attitude towards you can only be "giving up": giving up criticism, giving up training and giving up reuse. At this point, the more mistakes you make, the less retreat you have, and your real crisis is coming.
? (2) Borrow the strength of colleagues. There are no lonely heroes in the team, and the flames are high when everyone collects firewood. In life, everyone will inevitably encounter troubles and difficulties, and the road to helping others will always be easier. Don't be as strong as you think! Give your colleagues a warm hand when they are in trouble; When colleagues have problems, try to save them; When colleagues make mistakes, take the initiative to make up for them. To help others is to help yourself. Give others roses, and there is fragrance in your hand.
20 13 in order to get good grades before going to Guazhou, I attended classes in Grade One and Grade Two of Senior High School to enhance my adaptability in class and adaptability to strange students. Yi, Li Li, Li Bo, director, Lu, principal, teacher Yin and other Chinese teachers have all given me lessons to grind, and they will also give me guidance and comments after class. When Guayvrl was in class, I planned to insert props for the performance of the textbook drama after I caught the topic. The director of my think tank and Mr. Li are buying props everywhere in the strange city of Guazhou. If not, the ingenious teacher Li Li will buy accessories and make them one by one. Props add icing on the cake to my classroom effect and make me successful in one fell swoop, so it is necessary for us to borrow the strength of handsome colleagues. We all attach great importance to the project now, but the project has been approved, and many members have followed suit. Some members complained, and the first two were recognized after evaluating their titles. What's the use of us following? Or as a member, if you do nothing, the project will be ruined. In fact, some of us don't clearly see the significance and benefits of doing projects. Even members can learn how to do projects with the help of the host in the process of participation, so as to prepare for their own projects in the future. You turned down the kindness of others to help you. Who will take you in the future? Although you are a member, you can use this condition when evaluating the backbone of the discipline, and the title of the backbone of the discipline is also a condition for evaluating the title. Therefore, we should be good at leveraging, and don't give up a great opportunity because we can't see the immediate interests. We should learn from others, make up for our own shortcomings, appreciate their Excellence and recognize their success. People often want to show themselves by discovering the shortcomings of others, but this shows their incompetence. The smarter and kinder a person is, the more virtues he sees in others; The more stupid and vicious a person is, the more shortcomings he sees in others.
? (3) borrow the power of a famous teacher. As the saying goes, birds of a feather flock together, birds of a feather flock together. A black chicken can't hide a phoenix, and a turtle loves to find a turtle. A person who likes to be a teacher will get in touch with those excellent people whenever he has the opportunity, hoping to bring some advanced ideas and practical help to himself. Taking a group photo, asking for a phone number, asking for a QQ number and asking for an email address are all things I have to do when I attend the training. I also keep some commonly used educational websites, blogs of famous teachers (Li Zhenxi, Wei Shusheng, Zhu Yongxin), telephone numbers and email addresses of editors, and remember the address of newspaper editorial department, so as to facilitate contact and conversation with them at any time, which has really played the role of seeing is believing, and achieved the goal of developing and improving myself. For example, the last time an expert from Jimo No.28 Middle School came to our school for on-site guidance, I had a very speculative chat with Teacher Song Qiuling, and she left me a phone number and WeChat. When the leader asked me to draw up the "Evaluation and Reward Method of Harmonious Mutual Assistance Strategy" in our school and answer some confused questions in the use process for the teacher, I called her or sent a text message in order to make the best plan, and she enthusiastically explained or gave me suggestions. Then, I will design the implementation method of our school according to her opinion. Therefore, if you want to be a good teacher, don't miss any chance to meet famous teachers and celebrities. I also got to know the editors of Educational Innovation, Road to Success, Growth, China Methodology and other publications through contributions. I'm afraid that the quality of the paper I wrote will not pass, so please ask them to polish it for me.
? (4) Borrow the strength of parents. When it comes to borrowing money from parents, I feel the same way. Sometimes our reputation is successful and our parents are unsuccessful. As long as we regard our parents as weathervanes, remember their phone numbers and communicate more when necessary, treat our children sincerely, treat our students like our own children, and get rid of the hateful way that their teachers treat you, you will win the support and cooperation of your parents, and they will listen to everything you say, even the class needs any material help, so the parents will be duty-bound to actively support you! This is why some teachers criticize students and even take severe measures. Parents not only understand cooperation, but also always say yes. And the same method is used on some children, and parents are also looking for trouble. You must know that I had a car accident on 20 15, and the perpetrators were my former parents. In fact, I was at fault, but during my hospitalization, this parent paid most of the medical expenses, often visited me in the hospital, and took the main responsibility, which reduced a lot of trouble for my follow-up treatment and insurance compensation. Because a long time ago, I was the teacher of his children. His children come from the countryside. They used to live on campus and studied poorly, but I never discriminated against his son. His son and my son are in the same class, a study group. My son often helps his son with his lessons. His son lives in school and has a hard time. I also ask my son to bring his son something to eat from time to time. When I have no money, I will lend him money and even give him some small money. Later, his son went to a vocational middle school. Before he left, I traded my new book for his son's old book, and I asked the bookstore to return the money to him. Although it is 30 yuan, it is also useful for hard-working farmers. Their families are very grateful to me. During my recovery, every time he came to see me, he would talk about these things before, and he would take fruit, milk and his own eggs to kill chickens and sheep to supplement my nutrition. Therefore, as teachers, what we do is to live with our conscience. Even if the students' grades are poor, we should be better and more considerate to them without any discrimination. Some people will think that I speak like a bodhisattva. Is it that good? In fact, we are not perfect. We all make mistakes, but we will treat our parents well. Even if we make any mistakes, they will forgive us. This is for our own good. Helping parents is helping yourself!
(5) Borrow the strength of students. An excellent teacher should be good at mobilizing students' enthusiasm, giving full play to their subjective initiative and grasping their advantages to promote their progress in teaching. For teachers, treating students as demons, the classroom is hell; Treating students as angels, teaching is enjoyment. This devil and angel are determined by your mentality. For example, many class teachers here are particularly good at managing classes with the help of students, and the "harmony and mutual assistance between teachers and friends" implemented by the school now relies on the help of students to ensure the common progress of students. In the autumn of 2007, I had worked in Dongxing Primary School for five years. The school district transferred me to Siqing Primary School with better conditions and convenient transportation. I can't bear to part. To tell the truth, I have paid a lot for the students who have taught for five years, and I can't bear to part with those students. But there is no way. I had to obey the arrangement and went to Siqing Primary School. I want to. Usually strict with students, bad temper. Sometimes I punish them. Let's go, my classmates must also want to escape from my clutches early. Unexpectedly, just a week after I left, the students in my class went on strike, and several teachers in Dongxing Primary School couldn't stop them. Every day at the beginning of school, they all ran to the campus of Siqing Primary School, climbed onto the windowsill of my class, surrounded the classroom door of my class and asked me to go back and give them lessons. Parents are afraid of delaying their children's study and collectively go to the school district to petition. The school district leaders had no choice but to transfer me back to Dongxing a week later until graduation. After returning, I cherish the re-established teacher-student relationship. Since then, I have become much gentler and my teaching style has changed a lot. The students also made extra efforts, and their graduation exam scores were far ahead of other schools in the school district. Then, without any suspense or effort, I was transferred to No.4 Middle School and became a middle school teacher. Sometimes our teacher's grades are often achieved by students. As long as we don't give up every student and treat them sincerely, they will support us with their own abilities, repay us and make us have unexpected gains.
The difference between an idea and a different world. My personal experience tells me that health is the most important thing: the greatest love for family, others and colleagues, and the greatest support for leaders-that is, take care of yourself and have a healthy body. When I was lying in bed without paying attention to safety, my son in high school was left unattended and my lover could not work normally. School leaders have to worry about arranging my classes, and students urgently need to adapt because of changing teachers ... Lying in bed on rest days without paying attention to exercise, their physical fitness has dropped sharply, they have to take time off for serious illness and minor illness, and they have to take time off from the office again and again. I am embarrassed to explain that there is no dignity at all. When I have urgent work and need to work overtime, I don't pay attention to adjustment, eat irregularly, feel depressed, listless, exhausted, have low tolerance, and have a bad temper. I am overdrawing my health. It's terrible to think of people who have the same experience as me. How long can this vicious circle last? A teacher in poor health is not a good teacher. Therefore, we should learn to cherish our bodies. Relieve stress, forget troubles and relax by traveling, cooking, playing chess, singing, exercising, painting, embroidery and other colorful activities.
? I said a lot, say a thousand, say ten thousand, just a little. Since you have chosen to be a teacher, you must find ways to be a teacher who satisfies you and makes you feel at ease. Perhaps, when I first chose to be a teacher, I realized my ideal. Maybe being a teacher is a helpless move. But anyway, when we had no choice, she let us have jobs. When we were unemployed, we tried to enter the teaching profession, which gave us an income. We should love it and reward this job. Facing the reality that you can't leave the teaching profession, no matter how difficult it is, you should try to overcome it. Teachers' achievements in life lie in self-awareness, self-discovery, self-development, self-creation, self-achievement, purifying the soul, experiencing the value and meaning of life, and realizing the true meaning of life, so as to make their teaching more attractive.