The expression of post-review is flexible and diverse, which basically belongs to the category of discussion, but the writing is different from that of general argumentative essays, because it must be based on watching. The following is my review of the 2022 Open Class of Family Education, which I hope can be provided for your reference.
Comments on the Open Class of Family Education in 2022 (1) Parents are the first teachers of children, and good family education is of vital significance to the growth of children. The following are some experiences that a parent talked about.
From the initial enlightenment education of my parents to educating my daughter now, my life experience tells me that family education is as important to children as school education, and even determines their development direction, affecting their life. Now on the issue of family education, talk about my experience.
Adults are the target. Learning to be a man is the foundation of a child, and the child will benefit for life. Educate children to have a healthy psychology and a sound personality, and never let them become people who are knowledgeable and eccentric, have no feelings for their parents and are indifferent to others and society. We should treat our children as independent people, fully respect and understand them, and reason with them no matter how much mistakes they make. I have always adhered to this educational principle for children, so that they can get all-round development in all aspects such as morality, intelligence, physique, beauty and labor from childhood under the education of schools, society and families, and at least they should become qualified citizens who are beneficial to society and adapt to modern society.
Parents are mirrors. "Genius" can't be created, but as long as parents seize the opportunity to discover, cultivate and develop their children's talents, and follow the life path they pursue with their own hard work, their children are likely to succeed. Parents are not only natural teachers, but also guardians, partners, friends and role models. Children's words and deeds all reflect parents' ideology. It is not easy to be a parent, and it is even more difficult to be a good parent. That's true. How to be a good parent, I think, first of all, try to "learn to care". Parents should set an example, care for the society, the country, others, friends, colleagues, etc., so that they can respect the old and love the young, help each other with humility, be tolerant and generous, and be kind to others. Secondly, we should strengthen our self-cultivation. Parents should adhere to moral education, abide by the law, and consciously demonstrate practical activities to improve their moral quality to their children in accordance with socialist moral principles and norms. Thirdly, we should create a harmonious environment. The quality of educational environment is a thermometer for children's growth. To build a harmonious family and society, the subtle influence of family life atmosphere can not be ignored, and the moral spirit of family elders can not be underestimated. If children live with proper praise and encouragement, they will learn self-esteem and self-confidence. Living in humiliation, he will learn to feel inferior; Living in equality, he will learn justice; Living with quarrels, complaints, preferences and lack of warmth, he will learn sophistry, blame, jealousy and indifference ... This reality is "teaching without words". Not alarmist.
Children are teachers. Parents should be good at learning from their children's strengths. Children have many "lovely shortcomings" that adults should learn from. Such as vigorous vitality, a good attitude towards learning; Not conservative, good at accepting the characteristics of new things; Less sophisticated, sincere and straightforward to people and things; Parents should learn from the unknown knowledge such as new technology and new toys, and the ability to play with them as soon as possible. This advantage of children, as parents, should be fully affirmed, encouraged and praised, and should not be ignored, accused, suppressed or even stifled.
Respecting teachers is the key. Teachers are the main body of the trinity system education of school, society and family, the engineers of human soul, the founders of children's happiness, the comforters and healers of the soul. For me, I have a deep understanding. My child is in a single-parent family, and his feelings of respecting teachers and relatives are weak, and his academic foundation is not stable enough. However, his teacher has injected a lot of sincere love and tried his best to strengthen school education with a strong sense of responsibility and dedication, so that my child has achieved a more comprehensive development in morality, intelligence and body, making up for the shortcomings of our family education. Such teachers are highly respected by me, children and society.
In the future, I am determined to actively cooperate with the school to educate my children and make them become useful talents who can adapt to modern society. The above experience is just my opinion.
Comments on the Open Class of Family Education in 2022 (2) Speaking of children, probably every parent has endless topics. The growth of children has devoted too much effort and love to us, and of course, children have brought us countless joys. Children are growing up day by day, from babbling, toddlers to today's little children, and their changes bring us surprises one by one. In fact, the growth process of children is also the growth process of our parents, and we are constantly learning and making progress in the school of parents. I really don't know whether we taught our children or the children taught us.
The birth of a child means the beginning of education, which can be divided into family education, social education and school education. Parents can't just care about their children's intellectual development and academic performance. In my opinion, parents should pay attention to: children's physical and mental health education; Emotional education; Social morality; The education of non-intellectual factors such as will quality is family education. Knowledge teaching and intellectual development must be completed by school education. Even if parents know this knowledge, they may not know how to solve problems, and even contradict the methods of professional teachers, so as long as parents do a good job in family education, they will support the work of teachers. Below, I will talk about some of my experiences on children's education.
My 8-year-old son is studying in the third grade of No.2 Primary School. He has something to be proud of: his child has a comprehensive development, and his progress in learning is very obvious. He has certain independent ability and can take the initiative to learn; Have a certain sense of responsibility and love, be considerate and respectful of parents, live in harmony with children, know the hardships of labor and have strong communication skills. But there are also many problems, such as carelessness, love to play computer games, and being slow in doing things.
When it comes to educating children, I don't think there is any success. However, the child has grown from a hungry baby to a child who knows a little about personnel. This process is indeed a condensation of our parents' hard work. There is also a lot of confusion. Let me talk about some educational ideas and experiences of our family.
First, the word "strict" takes the lead and grasps the critical period of primary school.
Hu Shi, a great scholar, once said: "When a person is young, it is most important. In the future, he will become a great sage, a great hero and a great hero, or a great traitor, a thief and a thief, all of which are separated from this family education." Nowadays, there are more only children in society, the family conditions are better, and there are more phenomena of discipline from generation to generation, and even asking others to discipline their children. In the process of children's growth, many parents often ignore their children's strict education, "love" and "spoil" their children, and spoil them badly. If they are rude to others, their parents and grandparents should do things for them themselves, and talk while doing their homework, or ask adults to accompany them to do their homework. For example, among the college students and high school students I know, there have been incidents of asking parents to give me a meal. We should never think that it is a trivial matter. I call it an event because I think such children are spoiled, selfish and self-centered. No sympathy, no self-care ability, no will to overcome difficulties.
The purpose of my family's education for children is to ask children to know reason and virtue, and to become a sincere and sincere person. When everything is done, everything should be guided correctly, and children should develop the habit of understanding and attaching importance to morality. Children should be trained to think more about the public and try to get rid of selfish thoughts. Children are required to have love, love the country, love their parents and love the society, and they must honor their parents and respect their teachers. Study hard and don't slack off. Strive to be a student with excellent moral, intellectual and physical abilities.
My family's habit of cultivating children is to be strict in hours and broad in hours. In kindergarten and primary school, children were obedient, easy to discipline and easy to form good habits. At this time, I was strict with my son. As long as children form good habits when they are young, they will not be out of line if they are a little looser when they are older. This is the critical period, and any education has a critical period. It is most effective to cultivate children's behavior habits at this age. If this kind of education is carried out after this age, the effect may be much worse. In primary school, it is the most critical period to establish routine and cultivate good study habits. It is most effective to cultivate all kinds of good habits at this stage. Grasping this link is equivalent to grasping the child's future.
Second, cultivate independent consciousness, so that children do not have dependent thoughts.
Children grow up day by day, but no matter how long they grow, they will always be children in the eyes of their parents. We always feel that they can't do this or that, and they need our help everywhere. In fact, children's abilities are often beyond our imagination. The key is whether we will let them do it. Probably we all have this experience. It seems that a child will do something overnight that we have never specifically called him. We will be surprised: How did he learn it? This is the child. As long as we let him take the first step, they will give us a big surprise! Maybe sometimes we think it is not as easy for them to do it themselves, but children will do it twice or three times at a time, and one day they will do it well! If you don't let him do it, I'm afraid he will never do it well. At home, we try to let our children do what they can, such as serving meals, pouring tea and sweeping the floor for adults. Communication skills in modern society are also very important, and we should also pay attention to training. On the one hand, we encourage children to communicate with others, and on the other hand, we give them some communication skills.
Third, pay attention to the growth of children, communicate with children more, be kind parents, answer questions in time, and guide children correctly.
Our family is harmonious and happy, which provides a good family environment for the healthy growth of children. Family disharmony is often more harmful to children than adults, which will make children lose their sense of security, easily form bad personality and psychology, and lack sense of responsibility and love. A good family environment can provide the necessary fertile soil for children's healthy growth. At the same time, my family attaches great importance to moral education, and we can only do things if we can be human. Moral education mainly starts with such trivial things as asking our son not to lie, not to take other people's things, and not to litter. The content of moral education also changes with the growth of children. Of course, what parents ask their children to do, we do it first. Teaching by example is more important than teaching by words, as Confucius said: "His body is upright and he does it without orders". The influence of parents' words and deeds on children is subtle. In addition, parents should not condescend to moral education for their children, but should do it in a democratic and equal atmosphere; In addition, children's education is a step-by-step process, which cannot be achieved overnight. We usually take a little time every day to pay attention to the growth of our children: how is the homework done and how is the study going smoothly? What's new? Are you unhappy? Especially when children are confused, frustrated and make mistakes, communicate with them in time, give them correct guidance and adjust their mentality. At the same time, from the people and things around us in daily life, children are subtly educated in outlook on life and values, so that children can establish lofty ideals from an early age, thus arousing endless motivation in the depths of their hearts. At the same time, it is children's nature to love to play, and we never deprive children of their right to play without too much extracurricular training.
Fourth, often contact the teacher to understand the child's learning status and performance at school.
Families and schools should always keep in touch and be consistent. Parents should take the initiative to visit teachers at school, reflect their children's learning situation and ideological attitude at home, and ask their children about their learning attitude at school, whether they are serious in attending classes and whether they are active in speaking. If their children are insufficient in some aspects, they can educate them in a targeted way after returning home. We haven't done very well in this respect. Fortunately, the teacher contacted us in time to avoid detours in educating children and the formation of some bad habits for children.
Family education is a complex systematic project. My family's education for children is still not enough, and some methods are still being explored. We will continue to work hard to learn from the successful experience of other people's family education and discuss with teachers and parents, so that children can develop in an all-round way, become an excellent student with all-round development in morality, intelligence and physique, and serve the motherland and the people in the future, and be a wise, virtuous and conscious person.
Parents, who want their children and grandchildren, don't dye bad habits. It is necessary to educate children to study hard and hard, and they will become pillars of our country in the future. Benefit the people; First of all, we should educate our children on morality, know reason and virtue, and educate them to become a sincere and sincere person.
Greed and laziness are the main causes of human depravity. In all cases, we should guide everything correctly, cultivate children's habit of understanding and valuing morality, cultivate children to think of everything for the public, and make them get rid of all selfish thoughts. Children are required to have love, love the country, love their parents, love the society, love all people and things, and respect their parents and teachers. Study hard and don't slack off. Strive to be a student with excellent moral, intellectual and physical abilities. Step into society in the future, not for yourself, for the benefit of the people.
Educate children to aim high. People can't achieve great things without ambition. Ambition is a person's goal. Therefore, our family often urges children to be clear about their goals. Ask children to aim high. Clear the direction and study hard. Diligent, at home, ask children to do "parents call, should be a sentence;" Parents, don't be lazy. " At school, children are required to "respect teachers and listen to their teachings." Listen carefully in class, finish all the homework assigned by the teacher on time, unite the students, and learn from each other's strengths; Try to do more things that are beneficial to the public at school. Strictly abide by the school rules, educate children to strive to be an excellent student with all-round development in morality, intelligence and physique, to serve the motherland and the people in the future, and to be a wise, virtuous and conscious person. This is our family's expectation and educational program for children.
Comments on 2022 Open Class of Family Education (III) 1, Pay attention to the consistency of family education.
Suhomlinski, an educator in the former Soviet Union, once said, "The two educators, the school and the family, should not only act in concert and make the same demands on their children, but also share the same interests, hold the same belief, always proceed from the same principle, and never disagree on the purpose, process or means of education." Therefore, we must pay attention to the consistency of family education when educating children. For example, the school requires children to wear school uniforms. When we don't bring snacks and toys to school, we must closely cooperate with the school to let the children know that parents support the school work, and the teacher's words are beyond doubt. If we don't understand anything about school education, we must remember not to talk or complain in front of children, so as not to cause children's distrust of school education.
2. Pay attention to "diligence"
Go through the children's textbooks frequently and check their homework; Communicate more with your child (the child is growing up, recommend more good things you see, tell your child what is happening around you, let him feel your wisdom and attitude towards life, so that the child has no sense of distance from you); Observe the changes of children's language and behavior frequently (for example, who has interacted with most recently and know his friends); Keep in touch. Call the teacher regularly to find out about the children's study at school and give feedback on their performance at home.
3. Cultivate children's sense of responsibility
(1) remember homework on time;
② Finish the homework on time;
(3) Remind parents to do their duty to dictate, listen to read and sign on time;
(4) Correct mistakes in homework on time;
⑤ Prepare all kinds of stationery materials for study on time, such as exercise books, pens, erasers, handmade materials, and check and arrange schoolbags;
6. Bring a red scarf every day.
⑦ Do some housework as much as you can, such as putting dirty clothes on the washing machine, washing dishes and chopsticks, cleaning tables, taking out garbage and taking newspapers;
When the child is at school, his parents should teach him to be a duty student and a class cadre to do his duty.
Parents can refer to the text message sent by the teacher or call the teacher in person when the child is not well prepared, urge the child to do well, and conscientiously complete their own tasks and implement their children's homework. Children should be praised and encouraged in time when they do it. If necessary, reward with children's pocket money.
4. Emphasis on persuasion education.
Usually, guide children to read some books that are suitable for children, such as good habits, good quality, first aid and excellent fairy tales. When encountering problems, think from the child's point of view, compare stories and reason, so that children can understand why they can't do this and what should they do? Why do you do this?
5. Pay attention to parents' words and deeds and set an example.
Whether parents are tall or not in children's minds is directly proportional to the educational effect. Because we love reading very much, our son imperceptibly likes the books we bought for him. When he sees words, he asks and studies. At present, he knows a lot of words. Now I'm typing this article on the computer, and he's reading it. If he doesn't understand, he asks. It's a good feeling. For example, if you keep your word, you will correct it when you know your mistake. Never make a scene in front of the children, make confrontation, work together, show their parents' respective advantages and set an example for the children.
6. Pay attention to creating a learning atmosphere.
Children's books are concentrated on the bookshelf, which is convenient for children to browse; Homework should be done in a designated place, and parents should accompany them to learn. On the one hand, they should help their children explain some words, on the other hand, they should concentrate on demonstrating their study time, and they should not be interrupted casually. Learning and playing should never be mixed together. Generally, I don't watch TV. If I watch it, I also watch children's channels or scientific explorations and other programs suitable for children. In view of my work, I sometimes prepare lessons at home and write lesson plans, or watch an encyclopedia to learn about health care knowledge and apply it to my relatives, so as to create a useful theory for children.
7. Pay attention to children's "education"
Children usually like to read 100,000 popular science books such as the mysteries of life and the mysteries of the universe, and often ask us some strange questions from time to time. When we know, we will answer them positively, and sometimes we will humbly ask him, can you tell us? Mom and dad also want to know why. At this time, the child will say, "Haha, you don't know"? Then he will be happy to tell us what he just read in the book, and we will give a thumbs-up and praise the child for being great! A smile with a sense of accomplishment will be raised on the child's face. The child knows that you are really interested in his small achievements, and he will work harder next time to win your praise. When we accidentally run a red light and throw away the garbage in our hands, the children will also educate us with the tone of the teacher. We will apologize seriously and say that we must correct it. At this time, the child is our parents' teacher. We attach importance to children's "education" and children will attach importance to our education.
The above is just the opinion of one family. If there is anything wrong, please criticize and correct it from teachers and parents. thank you
Comments on 2022 Open Class of Family Education (IV) Family education is an important part of education and the foundation of school education and social education. Children are in primary school, and family education after middle school is a supplement and extension of school education, which plays an important role in children's life. As a parent, I deeply feel the importance of family education. Family education affects children's future growth, which has produced some experiences on children's education.
First, the renewal of the concept of family education
The traditional concept of moral education must be changed, for example, children must obey their parents unconditionally (even if it is wrong), parents often criticize their children condescendingly, and always want to let their children get ahead, honor their ancestors and so on. We should focus on cultivating children's innovative spirit and practical ability, cultivate children's spirit of self-reliance, self-improvement, unity and hard work, attach importance to the cultivation of good psychological quality and the development of interpersonal coordination ability, and cultivate children into builders and successors of socialist cause with ideals, morality, culture and discipline, and all-round development of morality, intelligence, physique and beauty, so as to adapt to the life of the future society.
Second, the basic principles of family education
1 Parents should have the same attitude towards their children's education. It should be consistent and unified with school education.
2. Combining teaching students in accordance with their aptitude with all-round development. We should not only attach importance to the development of children's personality and specialty, but also attach importance to the coordinated development of all aspects of quality. 3. Parents should set an example. Parents' words and deeds have a profound impact on children; Parents should do what their children are asked to do first.
4, often discuss various issues with children. Strengthen the communication and exchange of thoughts and feelings between the two sides, understand the children's thoughts and practices, encourage them correctly, and guide and correct them wrongly. When criticizing children, children should be allowed to defend and refute.
5. I am full of hope for my children at all times. Always encourage children, cultivate their self-confidence, and let them experience the happiness of learning and life ...
Third, exchange family education information and experience
Listen to more lectures by family education experts, read more books and periodicals on family education, communicate with schools, teachers and parents, and learn about family education in many ways, so as to accomplish the task of cultivating high-quality new people.
In a word, family education is a long-term, complicated and arduous task, which needs our parents' commitment, and we hope our children will be useful talents to society.
Comments on Open Class of Family Education in 2022 (V) Family education is very important for children. As a mother, I spend the most time with my children. I have to manage both their lives and their studies, so in this process, I also have a lot of experience in family education. So now I will sum up my educational experience in the family:
First, cultivate children's hobbies and open their horizons.
As parents, we must not restrict the development of children's hobbies. Children have their own interests, which can make them develop in a more comprehensive way. I know that many parents only pay attention to their children's learning. In their children's learning stage, they don't let their children touch what they like. They think it is a waste of time, so they stop their children from developing hobbies. This is actually a wrong way of education. I think a good way to educate children is to better agree with the development of children's interests and hobbies, to cultivate their development in this respect, and to open up a vision for children as much as possible. Cultivating their interests from an early age will help them find their own goals in life when they grow up, and it is also a driving force to push their children forward. Learning is important, but it is not a dead study, but a living study. Besides, interest is within the scope of learning. With interest, how can you not be willing to study?
Second, cultivate children's habit of loving labor
Labor is very important, especially for children. It can cultivate children's sense of responsibility in the process of labor, which can make children more pity their parents and understand their hardships. Proper labor at home plays a great role in the healthy growth of children. Many great achievements of human beings are produced from labor. Therefore, by cultivating children's labor habits, children will learn to be independent, be responsible for their own lives, and let them feel the joy of labor. A person who loves labor, its sense of responsibility is definitely not bad, and it will also help children grow up in the process of growing up.
Third, reward and punishment for children should be clear.
In a family, the most taboo is to spoil the child too much. Spoiling will only ruin the child. A good education means that the reward and punishment are clear. If the child has made a mistake, let the child realize that he has made a mistake, know how to admit his mistake and correct it. When children do the right thing, they should also be rewarded and praised. Children who grow up with praise will be more self-motivated. They understand that if they succeed in doing things right, they will be praised by others, which is a kind of affirmation for them, and that child will become confident and diligent. Like at home, if my child does something wrong, I will guide him to admit his mistake and apologize, so he will take responsibility for his mistakes. So now he is more and more measured, will try his best to help me with housework and will take the initiative to take charge of his own affairs.
Family education is of great help to children's growth, so family education must be good to cultivate good children.