Someone hit me! This is the answer I have ever seen!

Guide children to correctly handle contradictions. It is normal for children to fight with them when they grow up, but sometimes children will have conflicts with them. As parents, we need to correctly guide our children to solve contradictions and let them learn to get along with others correctly. Today, I will share with you how parents can correctly guide their children when they are told. Many parents may tell their children after being beaten.

Children have the following views:

1. Tell the elders in an appropriate way. 2. Try to avoid confrontation. It's no big deal, just learn to suffer. 4. Call back, and so on. So what would you do?

First of all, parents need to know the truth first and deal with it calmly. Make different treatments according to the specific situation:

1. Normal conflict

Sometimes it may be a fight between children, and the front foot hits the back foot. Just finished playing, we can play together again. At this time, children can handle conflicts by themselves to exercise their communication skills, or guide them to see the conflict point and let them find ways to solve it.

Correctly handle

If the child is maliciously attacked: ① Teach the child to protect his rights and express his will to protect himself. Defending one's rights and interests is an important part of a child's interpersonal skills, because it means one's own bottom line and will stifle others' bullying in temptation. Teach children the ability and skills of self-protection. If verbal deterrence is useless, it is allowed to counterattack at an appropriate time, but the most recommended counterattack behavior is-push. Push the beating child to stop attacking. Of course, running away is also a hero, and protecting yourself is the most important thing.

The right way

Therefore, when the child tells you that you have been beaten, you can tell him: ① If someone beats you, you must respect the first will of spirit and body and resist without fear; If someone hits you, you must put on your armor and let them have nowhere to attack. If someone hits you, you must also pay attention to the discretion, so as not to let people succeed, but also not to hurt people too much. Of course, you need to tell your children that when you are hurt and helpless, mom and dad will always be your strong backing!