Advantages and disadvantages of girls studying in Germany

As the world's second largest foreign trade power, the largest exporter and the largest trade surplus country, Germany has highlighted its position as the number one economic power in the European Union. In recent years, the cooperation between China and Germany in the fields of economy, politics and education has changed with each passing day, and more and more China students choose Germany as their ideal gold-plated country.

The following are the pros and cons of girls studying in Germany. Welcome to refer to them!

How a girl feels when she first came to Germany to study

From boarding the CA931 of Air China from Beijing to frankfurt to writing her feelings, I have only been in Germany for 5 days! If in normal times, five days is nothing, but for me, these five days have given me a brand-new understanding of the future life in Germany!

On the afternoon of April 6th, I finally got a visa from FREIBURG, and I was so excited that I wanted to hug everyone. After all, one year's preparation had yielded results, and going to Germany no longer made my dream come true. The following days are joyful and noisy. Booking air tickets and preparing those chaotic but indispensable things will inevitably lead to the expectation of future life?

On April 17th, at 18: 5 German time, I walked out of the customs smoothly (without asking me any questions at all), and I was anxious to meet my friend, but finally I saw my figure, and I was relieved! Next, I picked up my luggage and took an ICE ride for three hours to FREIBURG. At this time, it was already nightfall in freiburg, and I hadn't slept for nearly 2 hours. My mind had begun to get confused, and I didn't feel a little excited. I only knew to follow my friends until I went to my sister China's house where I was going to stay temporarily. Elder sister is gentle and kind, and has already prepared a simple and warm dinner for us. At that time, she was very warm and moved and grateful! Then I reported my parents' peace. It was already 5: 15 in the morning in China. I knew very well that my parents didn't wait for my call, and this night was sleepless. As their daughter, I once wished I could stay with them forever, but the reality was cruel, and my parents broke their hearts for ! Because I just arrived, I ate almost nothing for dinner except water. My friend confessed a few words and left in a hurry. Because he is studying in BONN now, he can only stay at other students' homes for one night. It's late at night, lying in bed, I, trouble sleeping, don't seem to think that I have arrived in Germany, but just in an unfamiliar place, and then I fell asleep unconsciously?

On the morning of April 18th, my friend called me to wake me up. Although I was still sleepy, I set off with great energy! When I go out, I feel that the air in freiburg is very fresh, just like it has just rained, and it still smells of earth, but the sun is very bright. Today, my friends mainly show me the environment here. The first stop is the language school where I will take classes in the future, and the second stop is the city center. Because it is Sunday, all kaufhaus are closed, but through the window, we can see the brand zero. esprit. nivea. Nike ~ ~ ~ which we often see in China, and it seems to be no stranger! It's quiet and beautiful, surrounded by medieval houses, and the clear spring water flows quietly in the sink along the road ~ ~ ~ It's different from the prosperity of Beijing, the tall buildings in the forest, the noisy vehicles and the crowds, but it's so quiet and peaceful that my heart is flat. At noon, my friend took me to see the house, took a 1-minute S-BAHN ride, met a China girl who arrived in Germany one month earlier than me, had a simple chat, and then I had to wait for her to give me an answer as soon as possible! Maybe I was in a hurry, so I was not hungry, but my friend was hungry enough. He took me to an Italian restaurant that he liked very much. He asked for a pizaa and bier for himself and a spaogti and wasser for me. The taste was ok, but to be honest, I still like China rice! Because it's already 3 pm, there aren't too many guests in the store, so we talked while eating. Because he has been in Germany for 4.5 years, of course, he wants to tell me a lot of things, and he will meet BONN soon, so he has been telling me. At 8: 3 p.m., the night came again. My friend had already boarded the EC returning to BONN, and my elder sister packed wonton. I wonder if I can wait until the house calls tomorrow, and DB is going, too?

at 9: on April 19th, my elder sister accompanied me to unfreeze my account in DB, but DB wanted me to apply for an account first. Alas, the house really became a top priority! Elder sister has a lot of homework because she is studying docter, and then I am really alone. First, I went to the language school to report it, and then I explained that I would take the grading exam next Monday because of the house. Because of my poor oral English, SEKRETAERIN said it many times, and I barely understood a little, not to mention my own words. Then I took the map and turned around the place where my friend took me yesterday again. On the way, a kind German FRAU looked at me with the map and offered to tell me how to get there. Although I didn't understand much, I was very happy until I was sure I wouldn't get lost, so I went to Unibibulotek to study by myself!

the deepest speed: my German is so poor that I can't communicate with a German normally. On the first day, I was taken by a friend, but now I'm all on my own. Once I encounter a problem, I'm absolutely dumb, and the most important thing is that I can't understand it. Now I know the importance of learning German well in China! To tell the truth, before I came to Germany, I thought it was very kind for China people in Germany to meet each other, but the truth was just the opposite! FREIBURG itself is very small. On the way, I can see at least 1 faces of China people every day. At first, my eyes were so eager to say hello to them, but every time they looked at my smiling face one by one, or didn't even look at me, I was silent! Is this the people of our country? When you smile at a German, you will be greeted with a polite smile and HELLO. What about being from China? Why is this happening? On the first day, I thought the person I met was wrong, but on the second day and the third day, I realized that this was the truth, that is, my friend told me to keep it? Keep a low profile? ! I don't understand that China people have met China people but haven't met foreigners' enthusiasm and courtesy! I don't understand! I heard that China people are not United and don't believe in it, but today I deeply realize this, and I never treat myself as a person of the same nation at all, because there is no intimacy and pride of a nation! I feel sad for this, at the same time, I feel sad for the China students studying in Germany like me! Why is this happening? Even German language classes in Beijing are not like this.

On April 21st, the troublesome thing finally came. The China girl who arrived in Germany before me no longer contacted me, and my house was lost! My elder sister's husband will come back soon, and I have to move out and walk on the path of SEEPARK. I feel so helpless for the first time. My friend has a lot of homework this semester and is in BONN, and he is trying his best to help me. What else can I ask? I let myself try not to worry as much as possible, and listen to the news everywhere, hoping that another miracle will appear and wait?

On April 22nd, it was another sunny morning. I stood on the footbridge and watched the scenery of FREIBURG, like a dynamic oil painting! I'm worried about the house, but I'm constantly encouraging myself. I must learn German well, so that I can communicate with others, so that I can live completely independently. There is still a long way to go?

The feelings of German girls studying abroad

Those who think that they can be rich as long as they go abroad should wake up, because nothing has changed at any level in China and abroad.

1. From tourists to international students: the change of mentality

The initial yearning for Germany comes from the handsome and heroic German football team (which did not win the World Cup in that year), the fantasy of European customs, and the conscious need to learn from the meticulous Germanic nation, so I came to Germany with a box. In the first month, everything was fresh, clean air, classical European architecture in Nande, quiet and quiet streets, clean subway trains on time, large tracts of greening, never having to worry about traffic jams, unlimited highways (although there were no cars) and slow pace of life. I only feel, ah, evil capitalism.

It was not until a month later that my locked bicycle was dismantled and stolen, leaving only one wheel and lock lying lonely in the carport. Then take the train SLR bag and put it on the seat, then turn around and be taken away. It seems that this country is not so perfect.

after a little while, I found that it is nonsense for foreigners to obey the traffic lights, and the traffic lights at the exit street of the downtown railway station are always furnishings. It is good for drivers to let pedestrians go, but it is not voluntary but legal, and it is often accompanied by impatient horns. It is good that every family in a small villa will have a beautiful small garden, but that is stipulated by the government. There will be a special person to regularly check the construction of garden vegetation, and whoever has overgrown gardens will be fined. In my opinion, German? Rigorous? Most of them are bound by German law; Reading books on the subway instead of watching mobile phones is because there is no signal on the subway; It's normal to be ten minutes late for the meeting. Who says Germans are very punctual? What about the trust between people?

So far, I have found that human nature may be the same, regardless of nationality. It's just that western culture pays more attention to doing well outside, which Chinese education has relatively ignored. For example, foreigners like to get up in the morning, wash their hair, take a shower and go out in the scenery, while China people prefer to go home, take a shower and sleep comfortably at night, which is the difference in personal habits caused by culture. This is the change of my impression of Germany from a tourist to a student. In the eyes of tourists, Germany is neat, orderly, friendly, elegant and a beer garden in summer. As students, there are more high transportation costs, universities that are difficult to graduate, long winters and rare sunshine.

2. Is hard work equal to reward?

Next, let's talk about the question that everyone is most concerned about. Can Chinese struggling in Germany easily reach the middle class? Most students studying in Dehua are admirable people who strive for self-reliance and self-reliance. Most of them stayed in Germany after studying abroad. For some people who do scientific research, foreign countries have much better resources and environment, and avoid the unique interference factors in China. Although there is controversy about brain drain, scientific research is to contribute to all mankind in the world. Let's propose a toast to you. Except for this small number of scientific research talents, most of them are people who fall and roll in the enterprise. The average wage level in Germany is about 2,3 euros before tax, and about 1,5 euros after tax (German tax is quite high). The monthly food, clothing, housing and transportation add up to at least 1 euros, not counting the cost of travel. German young people, like the drifters in Beishangguang, live a frugal life. What about the middle class and the high-income class? Let's take a look at the annual income of 6, euros before tax (it is already the Top level in Munich with the highest salary level), and it is about 3, euros after tax.

As Asians, although there is no obvious superficial discrimination now, the deep superiority of Germans, or whites, is still deeply rooted. (For example, in "Bankrupt Sisters", all ethnic groups are used to make jokes. The status is much lower than that of black people. Many people are going to jump out and say that you are only incompetent when you encounter discrimination; Some people say that all the foreigners they meet are nice. Naturally, people must be friendly in an environment where there is no competition, such as traveling or studying abroad. People's nature will only show its dark side when it is threatened. In the workplace, when you rob others of their jobs, how can they not crowd you out? Do you think foreigners are so noble that two villages next door can crowd out? Look at Britain and France. The French refuse to learn English now, and the British despise the United States and Britain. People are all the same.

Some people say that European income of 2, euros and RMB income of 2, yuan are not at the same level of life at all. First of all, this sentence itself is a concept stealing. Assuming an after-tax income of 2, euros, this is already a very good income for young people. It is no doubt that such people get 2, euros in first-tier cities in China. Being able to get a good salary abroad means that their ability is definitely excellent. These people are relatively smooth at first, but when they reach a certain position, they will find that they have met the ceiling. The tax bureau's strict investigation, all kinds of red tape paper work, and intrigue in the workplace are no less than those in China. Especially in the middle and high levels of highly competitive fields such as law, medicine and business, Asians are extremely rare. So, if you have the ability, why put up with the unfair treatment you encounter abroad? The domestic development is changing with each passing day, and the opportunity is booming. It has the ability to get 2 euros after tax in Germany, and the domestic 2, RMB is definitely no problem. There is still a chance to develop steadily, so that the annual salary of executives is one million, or the future of starting your own business as CEO is even more boundless. Just a few decades of life, why waste it on getting approval from unrelated people? As for the people who are bound by various hidden rules at home and can easily blend into the middle class abroad, you can't get along well at home without pressure from social relations and language, and dare to say that you can get along well abroad? You can sit in front of the computer and be a keyboard player now. Do you think it's because of your poor tax? Loser is a loser everywhere, which has nothing to do with the system.

3. Whether to marry a foreigner is a winner in life

There is another topic that girls are very concerned about. Marry a handsome guy from Europe and America and have a beautiful mixed-race baby. Fortunately, I have seen many real people and stories in this respect. In fact, unlike most people's imagination that marrying a foreigner is equivalent to buying a beautiful villa in the suburbs and living a middle-class life, these women have similar starting points, but their married lives are worlds apart.

The most legendary is a strong woman who started her own company and lived in the core business district of Munich. Her husband reached the level of mother tongue in Chinese (she could write poems and send short messages in classical Chinese) and also started a company. Love is very. But she gets up at five o'clock every morning, goes to work in a nearby city (where the company is located), and then goes home after eleven o'clock in the evening, sometimes sleeping in the company. The children are all taken care of by nannies.

a woman of the same age lives in a small villa in a rich area a little far from the city, and her husband is a Siemens executive. She can speak no more than ten sentences of German, and her English is quite average. The children have already left home to work, and she can only communicate with her husband in a few simple English. She does housework and cleans up flowers and plants every day. The biggest expectation is that the children will come home. I was lucky enough to visit several times. Every time I left, she called me to come back next time, and I was deeply lonely in my eyes. I still feel unbearable in retrospect. For more than 2 years, I watched the same scenery from morning till night every day, few people communicated with each other, and the connection with China had long been out of touch. The children were also influenced by different cultures and did not speak the same language. The appearance is really glamorous, but other people's opinions are so important that they can be eaten? Life is her own. What is the meaning of her life?