Dear uncles, generally speaking, they will be taken care of very carefully, and the possibility of a generation gap will not be too great. After all, he is young. Just consider how his financial conditions are and whether he can provide a guarantee for a happy life. Not that anyone is materialistic, but that he is older than you. If there is no conditional foundation, he will grow up when you have a child. If you can't provide the foundation for a happy life, then live.