Women in China get married mainly for material security, not for love. Women in the United States, Japan and Europe do not lack material things, but only pursue love and live themselves! When a man's economy and health go wrong, China women run away, while western women look at each other and share life and death. Great love is common in western countries.
I don't like it when you say that. We women in China have low standards for men in Europe, America and Japan! Sometimes we post it backwards!
It's not that people's requirements are low, but that China's requirements are too high, such as housing, car, savings, education, income, family background and so on. When they set out and where they went, they didn't know.
1, the law protects women more.
Divorced women in most western countries get alimony, and so does Japan.
Germany is half the salary of the ex-husband. Moreover, the western credit system is relatively perfect and law enforcement is strong. There is no possibility of hiding property and not giving money.
Japanese widows don't have to pay their mortgages. That is, the husband and wife have a mortgage, the man dies, and the widow doesn't have to pay the mortgage.
So they won't face the situation of divorce and the sky is falling! Moreover, if men cheat and divorce, then they "harvest" more!
2. Westerners have a heavy family concept, and Japan is similar.
For example, on family day on weekends, men take part in raising children and don't go out to socialize. Pay more attention to family and so on! It's already mainstream culture! There are many fathers, and women are relatively widowed, which is more relaxed.
Social welfare and father's parental leave and so on. These Europeans do better.
3. Westerners are relatively independent and have no conservative culture.
Nowadays, Chinese-style marriage, asking for a house, a car and a bride price, is basically a matter for parents. Boys have no personal pressure! Like girls, they gnaw at their parents' dowry and then ask boys for it, and boys gnaw at their parents.
Westerners may not say 18 is self-reliant, but at least they will regard independence as a normal state. In America, if a boy is an adult and still lives with his parents, he will be laughed at and no one will value blind date.
Japan imposes high taxes to control the old age and let parents buy a house. The tax is not as good as buying it themselves. Moreover, after the Meiji Restoration, Japan became more westernized and children became more independent.
Therefore, objectively, whether in the West or Japan, the "risks" of women's marriage and childbirth are borne by national laws, and men and women are more equal in culture and respect girls. Marriage is not a big obligation for girls.
Japan's recognition and respect for women is not as good as that of the West. However, the Meiji Restoration westernized Japan and improved the status of women. The law also fills the weakness of women in marriage as much as possible.
It can't be said that western and Japanese girls have low standards for choosing a spouse. On the contrary, their requirements are higher!
It's not that they don't pay attention to men's economic foundation, but that they pay more attention to men's personal skills, because family background is an existing objective fact, and they can see it without blindness. No PK bride price, just staring at the boys' own skills and feelings.
For example, in Japan, my mother-in-law doesn't stare at the house because the taxes given by my parents are too high, and she doesn't stare at the car because there is no parking space. She focuses on the academic qualifications and work of boys, graduating from prestigious schools and working in big companies. This is the lighthouse!
In short, western and Japanese girls, besides looking at their family circumstances, also need excellent boys and love ... It seems that girls who marry China and have a house and a car are much more demanding, and we can still get a wife for the bride price!
After all, all problems that money can solve are easy to solve!
In fact, European, American and Japanese women's mate selection standards are not low, but there is no bride price.
After marriage, Japanese women usually want to be housewives. Therefore, men should have a house and earn money. In the past, housewives had to cook and clean up the housework. Nowadays, more and more Japanese women, even housewives, are reluctant to cook and clean up the housework.
Women in Europe and America are more sensitive. They can live without a house or rent a house, but they will have other needs, such as traveling and shopping.
Europe and America belong to developed countries. The salary is not low, but the price is not low. If you have some money, you will spend it on traveling and shopping. Don't give a bride price. When you're done, spend all your money and find a new home.
Women in Europe, America and Japan are all hedonistic. As long as possible, they are willing to do nothing and let you raise them, but we women in China will share joys and sorrows with you.
Therefore, don't always look down on the superior, everything has advantages and disadvantages, and what suits you is the best.
Marrying a foreigner does not require a bride price, because it is in line with international standards. Because of the traditional customs, marrying China people requires a bride price.
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Europe, America and Japan have low standards of mate selection, because legal protection is in place and women's contribution to the family is recognized! If the man is at fault in marriage, the man will be miserable in divorce! Not only do you have to pay alimony (including your wife and children), but you can't get custody, and you can get very little property! If the woman is at fault, she will give priority to women's contribution to the family and get more property! Even if the man is not at fault, half of his property will be taken away, and even half of his pension will be given to his wife, and it will be counted from the day you work, not from the day you get married! There are many subsidies in countries where single mothers take care of their children, such as education and life, so the pressure on single mothers to take care of their children alone is not great! So they are not afraid of divorce.
This is a beautiful misunderstanding. There is no bride price garage in Europe and America, but the standard of mate selection is not low. Once married, it will be a lifelong burden. Even if divorced, alimony will be given. Because of this, many celebrities and rich people are eager to have girlfriends, and they have several children. They are still best friends, so they don't get married. For example, Ronaldo, who got married last year, didn't get married last year and had a baby long ago.
Japan is similar to Europe and America, and it also needs alimony. What is even more frightening is that it is said that if a Japanese husband buys a house with a loan and accidentally hangs up after marriage, his wife can completely inherit her husband's house without paying back the bank loan!
Seeing this, do you feel that when your neck is cold, there is a feeling that the liquid in your bladder is flowing downwards?
Summary:
As the ancients said, it is basically impossible to get a big beauty and a little babysitter for nothing.
My wife is good to you, provided that you are good to her. Is it really stupid to cut leeks unilaterally as a wife?
By the same token, if you want to be a good husband, you must be a man, not gentle and virtuous, not earning money to support your family, but also avoiding housework. Did your husband pay the Buddha to come back for you?
Everyone has to have an AC number!