How to judge whether a marriage is happy may be a question that many people have thought about. Although society is constantly progressing, some marriage customs left over from ancient times have not been completely abandoned, such as bride price. Society is constantly advancing, and betrothal gifts are also rising. In some places, betrothal gifts have reached a level that is unacceptable to ordinary families. The betrothal gift loan launched by a bank in Jiangxi has been a hot search among netizens. The maximum term of this kind of loan launched by this bank is one year, and the maximum limit is 300,000. The emergence of betrothal gift loans shows that betrothal gifts are indeed a heavy burden for some families, but betrothal gifts may not necessarily bring happiness. 1. It shows that the bride price in some places is indeed too high.
The bank will launch this kind of gift loan, which shows that the gift money in some places is indeed beyond the affordability of ordinary families. Many people can't afford it, so they think of this method of borrowing money from banks in exchange for the gift money. This is a kind of loan launched by a bank in Jiangxi. The borrower must have worked for more than one year. This loan can be used to pay bride price, wedding travel, purchase of gold and silver jewelry, etc. 2. Betrothal loan may not necessarily bring happiness.
The bank’s slogan for launching this kind of loan is Betrothal Loan, which lends happiness. But can you really gain happiness by paying the betrothal gift through a loan? The answer is not necessarily. Taking out a loan to pay for a high bride price, and having to repay the loan within one year of the wedding, will put some pressure on the newlywed family. For some young men and women, experiencing this kind of pressure just after getting married will cause more problems in the marriage. 3. Give betrothal gifts according to the actual situation, so as not to put too much pressure on the marriage.
The betrothal gift continues to this day, and there is a reason for its existence. In essence, the betrothal gift is a kind of protection for women. It is precisely because of this that we support the man giving the woman a bride price when getting married, but the amount of the bride price should not be too high, but should be determined based on the man's actual situation, so that the bride price does not become a burden on the newlyweds after marriage.