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Parents all over the world love their children. Many boys have been pampered since childhood. When they grow up and reach the age of dating, for some reason many boys cannot find girlfriends. At this time, what you are more worried about than the boy is his parents. , their parents will be worried about his marriage.

If a boy finds a suitable girlfriend, the boy's parents will try their best to coax the girl. They are really afraid that the girl will leave their son.

After getting married, no matter how much a boy’s parents put in, they don’t want their child’s marriage to break up. No matter how many grievances they suffer from their son and daughter-in-law, they have no complaints.

Sons and daughters-in-law, please don’t do it. If you do it too much, your parents will no longer tolerate you.

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Li Qian and Li Shuai are brothers and sisters. Li Shuai is the elder brother and Li Qian is the younger sister. They are only one year apart.

After the two grew up, Li Qian's love journey went very smoothly. He easily found the boy he liked, and that boy was named Liu Qiang. Liu Qiang likes Li Qian very much, and he treats Li Qian very well. I remember one time when the two of them were out playing, Li Qian suddenly had a stomachache. Liu Qiang actually sat next to her and patiently helped her feel her stomachache for half an hour.

Compared with Li Qian, Li Shuai's love journey is too bumpy. He made seven or eight girlfriends, but these seven or eight girls finally broke up with Li Shuai. This situation occurs mainly due to two reasons.

First of all, it is not easy for boys to find girlfriends nowadays. Girls nowadays are very demanding. They require boys to have a high income, a house and a car, and Must be purchased in full, no loan required. Li Shuai's family conditions are average and he cannot meet the requirements of those girls.

Another reason is that Li Shuai is very lazy. His income is not high, but he is very decadent and not aggressive at all. Li Shuai's sister Li Qian can earn seven to eight thousand yuan a month, but Li Shuai can only earn four to five thousand yuan a month. Although he earns little money, he spends money generously. Sometimes the four or five thousand yuan he earns is not enough to spend on himself. Li Shuai never thought about changing jobs to earn more money.

Li Shuai’s parents were particularly worried about Li Shuai’s marriage, and they frowned all day long. They really paid too much for Li Shuai's marriage. They took out all their savings, paid half of the down payment for Li Shuai, bought a house for Li Shuai, and then they borrowed it from relatives. They bought Li Shuai a car for 100,000 yuan. They really hoped that Li Shuai could find a girlfriend.

When boys grow up, they cannot rely solely on their parents. They must be proactive themselves.

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Later, under the introduction of a relative, Li Shuai met a girl named Chen Ling. The two felt that each other was good, and they fell in love. Because Li Shuai already had a house and a car at this time, Chen Ling didn't say much about Li Shuai's family conditions.

When Chen Ling went to Li Shuai's house for the first time, she actually said to Li Shuai's parents, "It's okay for me to marry Li Shuai, but there is a prerequisite, which is that you have to repay the house loan." , we can’t let Li Shuai and I return.”

Li Shuai’s parents didn’t think too much. They quickly nodded in agreement, “We will pay back the money, you don’t have to pay back.”

Later, Li Shuai and Chen Ling got married. After the marriage, Li Shuai’s parents paid off the monthly mortgage, and Li Shuai never paid back a penny. Not only was Li Shuai inconsiderate of his parents, but he and Chen Ling often bullied his parents.

Li Shuai and Chen Ling had all their dirty clothes washed by Li Shuai’s parents. They did not do any housework at home, leaving it all to Li Shuai's parents.

Li Shuai said to his parents, "Dad, Mom, you have to give me 2,000 yuan every month from now on, or we don't have enough to spend. If you don't give it, Chen Ling will give me 2,000 yuan." Divorced”. Whenever there is a New Year or a holiday, Chen Ling will ask her parents-in-law for thousands of dollars. "We need to spend money during the New Year and the holidays. Please give us a few thousand dollars quickly. If you don't give it, Li Shuai and I will divorce".

Li Shuai's parents agreed to these unreasonable demands of Li Shuai and Chen Ling, because Li Shuai's parents were really afraid that the two of them would divorce. Li Shuai and Chen Ling kept doing this, and they bullied the old man for three years.

After Li Shuai and Chen Ling returned home from a trip, they felt very tired. After Chen Ling sat on the sofa, she actually said to her mother-in-law, "Mom, wash my feet." Well, I'm really tired. If you don't wash it, I will divorce Li Shuai."

Li Shuai's mother was completely angry and said, "Just leave." Li Shuai's parents no longer accommodated the two of them, and later they really divorced.

Li Qian sighed, "My brother and sister-in-law have finally divorced, and our family is about to regain peace."

Some young couples have no sense of gratitude towards their parents. They will do very excessive things to their parents. They will threaten their divorce, and then they will continue to bully their parents and make very excessive demands on their parents. When the accumulated anger of parents reaches the extreme, they will no longer be condescending to their sons and daughter-in-law. At this time, it is often the young couple who are hurt.

Young people should be more considerate of their parents’ difficulties and never use their kindness to blackmail them.