When I married you, I should have considered your married life. There will be no love, so passion and returning to a dull life after marriage are also a very inevitable process. When you feel depressed about your married life, it must be because your expectations of marriage are too high, which leads to estrangement.

I don't think the present marriage is what I expected, so happiness is not my ideal marriage state. This is definitely the inevitable result. When you feel depressed and unhappy, you should think of your other half, find an opportunity to calm down and talk, find out the reasons that make you feel depressed and unhappy, and then correct it. I'm sure you all want to keep this marriage.

2. Be independent and mentally independent.

After marriage, you should remain independent, not only economically but also spiritually. You can't completely lose yourself, don't know what you should do, have fun, and have your own friends and circles, so that you won't feel lonely and lost.

With a certain economic strength and circle of friends, you can start investing in yourself, so that even if you end up in this family, you will not lose your job and be unable to support yourself after marriage. You must know how to invest in yourself. Economic independence can gain dignity and recognition, and economically independent women can use their own money to buy what they like, whether it is food or clothes.

3. Communicate with each other more and don't suppress yourself.

Depression after marriage shows that there is too little communication between two people. They always feel wronged and feel that the other party doesn't understand and doesn't love themselves. At this time, they should communicate more with each other and don't think about themselves. After I got married, I felt very depressed. Life is depressing. Everyone is busy. Don't attribute the sense of loss to the other person just because you are bored and idle. Put yourself in others' shoes, and don't complain and complain too much.

Try to understand the pressure of marriage and family and share it appropriately. Let yourself integrate into the family, or pay attention to relaxation. Now that I am married, my husband still has a recommendation. Communicate well when things go wrong, so that you can regain happiness for this marriage. In each other's marriage, we must understand each other more, tolerate each other more, and communicate well when problems arise, so that your's feelings will last long.