In this respect, Chen Hui encountered such problems because he did not treat them rationally before marrying his wife. In other words, Chen Hui's love for his wife must be true love. His wife not only loves Chen Hui, but also sees Chen Hui's career and the huge wealth behind him. Obviously, if Chen Hui had raised this question and made his position clear before marriage, his wife would not have raised such a difficult problem after marriage! There is a simple reason. Because from the wife's point of view, she hopes that the children will live better in the future. It is reasonable for your children to get rid of these things at home and hope that Chen Hui can help.
But from Chen Hui's point of view, the child has nothing to do with him, so he will not easily agree to such a thing, especially because he is not related by blood. Moreover, buying a suite in China's first tier cities is no small matter, and it may even cost half of the property in Chen Hui. Obviously, the problem facing Chen Hui is just an accident. In fact, for most divorced couples, if they can't be fully rational before marriage, don't ask the problems that may arise after marriage, and can't reach an agreement, then these problems may become the factors that affect their marital disharmony after marriage. Therefore, for men and women now, if they want to divorce after divorce, they must maintain a certain rationality and do not underestimate the practical problems that will affect the harmony of marriage. Otherwise, this marriage will become meaningless.
No help, no help, from the heart. Therefore, if we are irrational before marriage, we can communicate with each other about the problems we will face after our second marriage. So, like Cheng Hui, what should I do if I ask my wife to buy a suite for her and her ex-husband's children? Obviously, in this case, from Chen Hui's point of view, he can totally refuse or respond to his wife's request. Chen Hui wants what he wants. But if his wife threatens Chen Hui, Chen Hui refuses to buy a house and divorces Chen Hui, the best choice is to refuse. Through such a trivial matter, we can see that his wife's love for Chen Hui is completely false. Because of the support of his ex-wife's son, Chen Hui has to bear certain responsibilities.