I have to say that my husband is really a very filial person, both to his parents and to his mother-in-law. My father-in-law died the year before last, and my husband and I had already planned to go out and buy a house. Although living in my hometown is not bad and the transportation is not very convenient, my husband is not at ease with her mother-in-law living alone. Although my husband has a younger brother, who is the son of his mother-in-law's father-in-law, his brother-in-law is very unreliable, and he is in his twenties.
Because of these factors, my husband finally decided to live with her mother-in-law, which is also convenient to take care of her. Although the husband is very filial to his mother-in-law, her mother-in-law still treats her husband and brother-in-law differently. After all, one is a stepson and the other is a biological son, and the mother-in-law is better for her brother-in-law. Brother-in-law, under 28 years old, is getting married. She even asked her mother-in-law for money to buy clothes for her girlfriend, but asked her husband for this stepson.
My husband has done his utmost to his brother-in-law and brother. My brother-in-law is getting married. As a brother, my husband also gave him the greatest help. Buying him a house for100000, of course, is not the full amount, because there will be a little money from the sister-in-law's family, so the sum of the money of the two families is enough to pay the down payment. As for the latter loan, my brother-in-law will pay it himself. This is also to put some pressure on my brother-in-law, so that his brother-in-law is no longer as irresponsible as before.
In this way, the 28-year-old brother-in-law got married smoothly. After her brother-in-law got married, she also worked honestly. Not long after the marriage, my sister-in-law became pregnant. It may be that pregnant women have a little temper, so they often quarrel. Sister-in-law mainly means that her brother-in-law has no husband's ability and earns less money than her husband's. Brother-in-law, where did you hear that? So she often quarreled with her sister-in-law, who always wanted to buy a car.
Brother-in-law has been married for two years, and his feelings with younger siblings are getting worse and worse. The couple quarreled over money, and the brother-in-law wanted to buy a car. He had no money, so he asked his mother-in-law for it again. It costs hundreds of thousands to buy an ordinary car now. Mother-in-law has so much money, she has no choice but to ask her husband for it. This time, her husband naturally refused to give me money to buy a car. After all, when my brother-in-law got married, my husband had bought a house of100000 for him.
I don't agree with my husband buying a car for his brother-in-law. Brother-in-law is at least a father. How can he depend on others for everything? My mother-in-law saw that my husband and I refused to buy a car for my brother-in-law, so she cried at home and said that we were inhuman and didn't know how to take care of our younger brother. My mother-in-law is even angry and wants to kick me and my husband out. Although it is true that my mother-in-law is my father-in-law's wife, my father-in-law said that this house was reserved for my husband. Anyway, it's not her turn to kick us out!
But my husband doesn't want to argue with his mother-in-law. Although it rains heavily, he will move in the rain. The husband said that he had done his utmost to his mother-in-law and brother-in-law. If we continue to live in that house, brother-in-law will be the hole to fill our dissatisfaction in the future, so we would rather move out than help brother-in-law fill this hole! Do people say that husband's escape like this can really solve the fundamental problem?