Fixed assets such as wedding room and RV are a very important issue, and many couples break up because they can't talk properly. After reading so many cases, I feel that it is better to negotiate happily than to be afraid of hurting feelings and embarrassed to put forward ideas, so as to avoid endless troubles.

First of all, everyone has a steelyard, try to be fair and just, and have a clear conscience. For example, it seems that it is popular in many places for men to pay the down payment and add the woman's name, but in fact this practice is not very fair, especially in first-tier cities, where the down payment is several million. The money was not blown by the wind, but accumulated by parents. Some people will say that after marrying you for so many years, isn't my youth and hard work worth a down payment? In fact, marriage is run by both parties. If you find a grandfather and husband, you can only say that you have a bad eye.

Secondly, the house is just needed, and the car is a consumable. I think we should meet the demand first. For those who can afford the full amount, there is naturally no need for more disputes, that is, the personal property of one party before marriage. The focus is on mortgage houses, and many women choose to marry cars. In fact, the car is more of a means of transportation now than a face representative in earlier years. The car is a depreciated asset, and its value lies in its use. Instead of clinging to so many mortgages, it is better for both parties to make the same payment. If it's even, sign the same name. If there is a great difference in capital contribution, indicate the proportion of capital contribution. No matter what happens in the future, the house will be owned in proportion.

In fact, as long as two people negotiate well, no one will try their best to take advantage of others, but these problems are not problems. It can be clearly planned through marital property agreement or notarization, which is not rude, but both parties are objective and rational. On the contrary, under the banner of hurting feelings, they either berate each other for not adding their names for a penny, or satirize each other for not giving their small family a car. It's really because they have ulterior motives, but it's just shattered glass.