But the one I'm going to talk about below is really smart enough not to admit his mistake. He carefully designed a scam, but I didn't expect mantis to catch cicadas and yellowbirds.
0 1. thomas lee and Liu Yun are the most enviable couple in Friends. They have been together for more than three years and have always had a good relationship. Thomas lee works as a salesman in a pharmaceutical company. To put it mildly, he is a medical representative. Liu Yun is a nurse in the hospital. She is very busy every day, and her income is good. After all, she is a big city.
However, it is really difficult for two people to settle here. House prices have been rising, but the income is still so much. In a blink of an eye, both of them are going to be senior three, and their families are rushing to get married. They can work as hard as they want.
In this way, they discussed it and decided to go back to their hometown to get married first, and the two families met. After all, the wedding event has to go through parents, and this matter on the agenda can no longer be delayed, so they went back to their hometown respectively.
A few days later, Li Tong brought his parents to propose marriage. After the parents met, they exchanged a few simple pleasantries and began to talk about their two children.
Thomas lee's parents said, "Look, the two children have been together for several years, and it's time to get married. Today, I also want to end this matter. Do you have any requirements so that we can go back and prepare? "
Li Yun's parents said: "Our bride price starts at 300,000 yuan, and we don't want too much. That's the money. I'll use it later when my children get married. This is theirs, too. As for the house, the house price in big cities is too high, and we are all rural people and can't afford it. Let's buy one in our hometown county. "
Hearing this, thomas lee's parents said that 300,000 yuan was not a lion's mouth. It's like selling out your daughter. He was very unhappy and said, "We have 50,000 yuan over there, all of which are rural bungalows. I can't afford a house in the county. "
Liu Yun's parents don't want this bride price. Not for myself, but for the children. Let me be honest. Are we daughters or are we married far away? If we go to your house to suffer in the future, our life will be very bad. After having children, she will suffer in the end. What will your son lose?
If this doesn't work, there's nothing to talk about. Go home. Thomas lee and lee woon-jae laughed outside, but the room was already stiff. One is called a son, the other is called a daughter, and finally it broke up.
In fact, this matter can still be discussed. Li is so tough on his parents, that is, he saw going to his house before and was very attached to his son. He felt that it would not cost too much to get married in the future.
The next series of things were destroyed by thomas lee himself.
It is said that Li is a sales expert, and his brain is not for nothing. Although he is very kind to Liu Yun at ordinary times, he actually has his own little thoughts in his heart.
Li Tongchang is so-so. Liu Yun is a great beauty. At the beginning, thomas lee's colleagues first fell in love with Liu Yun. Because of his shyness, he found thomas lee. Because he has a glib tongue and a smart mind, he met Liu Yun.
Seeing the first side, I was fascinated by Liu Yun's beauty. I thought my colleagues' character and performance were not so good. I don't deserve such a girl. He was careful not to mention his colleagues. Instead, he slowly got along with her. Invite him to dinner today, give him a gift tomorrow and go to the movies the day after tomorrow.
In this way, Liu Yun had a good impression on thomas lee. When colleagues asked, they said I was slowly infiltrating. What's your hurry?
He felt that Liu Yun had fallen in love with himself. That day, they had dinner and walked by the lake. Thomas lee said, "If there are two boys standing in front of you now, one is me and the other is my colleague, who would you choose?"
Liu Yun is a little confused. Why did another colleague come out? He said, "My colleague and I like you almost at the same time, but he asked me to be a middleman to fix you up. I want to tell you every time, but I swallowed my words and said that love is selfish. Actually, I also want to fight for it. If you really don't like me, then I will resign. "
With these, thomas lee looked at Liu Yun's reaction out of the corner of his eye. Liu Yun thought for a moment and said, "Although I have only been with you for two months, you should know whether I have you in my heart. I'm sorry if you give me away as an item. Let's break up. "
When Li saw it, he immediately said that it was not what you thought. I just clarified this matter to you. Later, I didn't want you to know that I thought there was something wrong with my personality, and even my daughter-in-law was stolen from my colleagues.
Girl, I wish I could coax you. As for his colleagues, he told people, I'm sorry, man. I was supposed to promote you, but this girl said she didn't like you.
Hearing this, my colleagues forget it. It is expected that he didn't read it. Don't blame yourself too much. He went on in shame: "I'm going to resign."
Why?
This has made me look in the mirror, and I am not a person inside and outside.
What the hell is going on?
To tell the truth, this girl said that she has a crush on me, but I can't accept her. They say a friend's wife can't be bullied. Although she is not married, I won't dig corners. Forget it. I really can't get rid of jumping in the Yellow River.
My colleague is an honest man. When I heard this, I felt I was to blame. Thomas lee wouldn't have caused such a thing if he hadn't asked for help. He said he was good or bad. Finally, he blessed thomas lee and Liu Yun. He didn't have any luck and asked thomas lee to take good care of it.
It is said that this man is too smart, which is not a good thing. If he is too clever, he will suffer a big loss.
When thomas lee and his parents got home, they were in no hurry. Instead, the family cooked a good table and the father and daughter drank wine. His father said, "Son, you are my pride. Are you fair to this girl? " Your mother and I did it for your own good. There are so many betrothal gifts. What should we do if something goes wrong in the future?
Thomas lee smiled and said, "Dad, it's okay. Don't worry about it. I will satisfy you. "
Liu Yun is discussing with her parents. You see, thomas lee has always been very kind to me and very self-motivated. If it really doesn't work, pay less attention, as long as she has a good personality.
Her father said, "Daughter, it's not that I want so much, but that I want to see how they do it? If they go back, they don't care if they borrow it or not, even if they don't get together that much, it means that my husband's family values you. If you continue to argue like this, don't worry, just because Li Tong is too smart, I'm not at ease. You should also stare. "
When sleeping at night, Li Yunma conveyed what she had discussed with her father. As long as Liu Yun does it, the marriage can be solved simply and smoothly.
Liu Yun thinks that the old man may have thought too much about her father's worries, but she still listens to her parents' opinions and sits tight.
Thomas lee returned to the company in a few days, and then Liu Yun went back to work. They haven't met for 10 days. On this day, Li Tong asked Liu Yun out for dinner, and then went to thomas lee's residence as usual.
The couple slept together normally. After more than a month, Liu Yun told thomas lee that her period had never come. What should I do if I am afraid of being pregnant? Thomas lee said quietly, don't be afraid, I'm here. If you have me, you must. Anyway, you work in a hospital. Go and see it again in a few days.
Half a month later, Liu Yun told thomas lee that she was really pregnant. Thomas lee called his father in ecstasy and told him that the business was done. The bride price didn't cost him a penny, so she told him about it. The old man was happy from ear to ear.
Liu Yun urged both parents to meet again and soon decided on the marriage. But thomas lee was in no hurry to say that it was all right, and the money was raised at home. It is not easy for your parents to raise you so much, so there is no bride price. Liu Yun was very moved after hearing this, and felt that he really didn't see the wrong person.
In this way, two months have passed, and there is still no movement in Li Tonggu. Liu Yun asked thomas lee if he was not married, so he wouldn't get married with a big belly, would he?
Thomas lee felt that the time had come, so he told his parents to take a trip to Li Yungu. When he went, he told her parents that the bride price was not ordered. Now that your daughter is pregnant, you can marry or not. If you feel inappropriate, you can break up.
Liu Yun's father has been smoking and not talking. Thomas lee's father was even more excited to see this situation. I said in-laws, don't think too much. What age is it now? Just let the children be willing. You have to give a bride price, as long as they live well.
Liu Yun's father picked up the phone and dialed his daughter's phone, asking thomas lee's father to tell her that Liu Yun also kept silent and hung up the phone. She found thomas lee and asked him if this was the result of your keeping me waiting.
Thomas lee was aggrieved and said, "Liu Yun, that's not what I meant. My father made his own decision. All the money earned outside for so many years is still there. I have no money. I don't know what to do now. If it really doesn't work, we can't get married first, and will I give you all the money I earn in the future? "
At that moment, Liu Yun finally understood that the man who looked at himself with his father's good intentions turned out to be a wolf in human skin. Under his gentle and considerate eyes, there is hypocrisy and deception.
She is glad that she can see this man clearly at this moment, not after marriage. That night, Liu Yun's mother told her: "Daughter, it is said that older girls are not allowed to stay. My mother came from you at this time, but people at that time were not as open as you are now, and there was no cohabitation trial marriage. My parents agreed to get married almost immediately.
Besides, your generation is different, so your father and I have discussed it. We don't want to get married with a bride price, but you have to promise your mother to take the thomas lee exam. If he passes the test, you will get married. If you fail the test, you may suffer, and then you will understand our intention.
Pretend to be pregnant once and see how he and his family behave, and you will understand that you must obey. "
Although Liu Yun is very painful, everything will pass. After thomas lee learned about the fake pregnancy, she didn't accuse Liu Yun, but left without saying a word, and never appeared in front of Liu Yun again.
Bride price is a custom handed down from ancient times in China, and it is also a kind of etiquette. On behalf of the man's respect for the woman, I thank my parents for raising my daughter. From the moment of marriage, the daughter belongs to her husband's family.
This is a kind of gratitude and gratitude, so the custom of bride price will remain until today.
Nowadays, most places are sky-high bride price. When you say he sells his daughter, he will say it's for her own good. If a man abandons him one day, he will have nothing.
But everything must be measured. Once it is beyond the tolerance of the other party, marriage is meaningless. Although love is not bought with money, it is unrealistic to love without any economic foundation.
It is good for everyone to control the bride price moderately and give each other a chance to breathe. If you are dealing with a man like thomas lee, it is a bit unorthodox to make a bride price.
The so-called mantis catching cicadas and yellowbird is behind, and there are not a few men who have the same psychology as him. They think that if they get their girlfriend pregnant, they can escape the bride price. In fact, this will directly hurt each other's feelings.
In my opinion, we should talk about it. Break up without talking. No man wants to lose everything to marry a woman, and no woman wants to be threatened by her husband's family because of pregnancy.
Only by being honest with each other and cherishing each other can we come together hand in hand.