1. It's getting harder and harder for boys to get married.
Most people are ordinary families, so it is good to get married without debt. Paying off debts after marriage is a common thing, but it has no influence on the woman's family. In the past, when people got married, the bride price might be left to their children to live a good life. But now it's a little different. The bride price has become the income of parents, and has nothing to do with children. Nowadays, many rural people have to go to the woman's house to discuss marriage, and there is really nothing they can do in the face of bride price and RV. Parents have also made great efforts to get their children married.
Now married men have no right to speak.
I often see some boys who are worried about getting married. Maybe they are better among their peers, but their families are not very superior. It is difficult for them to pay the bride price for their wedding. At this time, facing the woman's family, they can only lower their heads. Even many people ask for more money on their wedding day. If there is no money, they will not get married. At this time, let alone the dowry, it is very good to take the bride home. Dowry depends on the mood of the woman's family. If she is in a good mood, she may bring some furniture, which is good enough, and you don't need to add any bride price money.
Marriage used to be two people's expectation, but now it is two people's difficulty. The girl doesn't want to go against her family's wishes, but she doesn't want to be separated from her boyfriend and caught in the middle. The main reason is that some parents are too harsh, regardless of their children's feelings, and just want to make money by marrying their daughters. Treat marriage as a business and children as commodities.