It depends on what friends he is, how much he borrows, and what he borrows. You can't just borrow money.

If there is a problem with your cash flow, will you choose to borrow money from your friends or yourself?

I will choose my own loan and try not to have too much money with my friends.

Everyone has their own circle of friends, and it is normal for friends to help each other. But with money between friends, friendship will become different from before. Although it's hard to tell the difference clearly, you can clearly feel that there is something more in your's friendship.

Friendship can hardly stand the test of money. Don't try to test human nature.

I have a friend whom I have known for many years. Two years ago, he asked me for money and I lent it to him without hesitation. But for more than two years, he never talked about paying back the money, and after borrowing the money, our contact in life became less and less. I don't know when he will pay back the money. I was embarrassed to ask for it before, but now I don't want it back. This is undoubtedly a sad thing, and it is also considered that people and money are empty.

In fact, in real life, everyone has their own life trajectory. Even the best friends, when it comes to money, their psychology will change. Some friendships may stand the test of money, but this is at the expense of one party's willingness to suffer. After this test, this friendship is not what it was.

I will choose my own loan, solve my own problems and try not to cause trouble to my friends.

As a married person with children, most of my friends are married and their family situation is not very good. If my cash flow is really problematic, I may be able to borrow money from my friends, but this will have a great impact on my friends' lives, and I don't want my friends to suffer. Of course, I can't borrow money for nothing. But if you give interest to your friends and owe them, I don't think it is necessary.

I don't have a big circle of friends around me, and I don't want to test my friendship with money, so I don't want my friends to say whether my own loan can solve the problem. After all, their life is not too rich, so it will be embarrassing if they open their mouths. After borrowing money, they always feel uncomfortable getting along. Might as well not borrow it in the first place.

In fact, there are too many softwares that are consumed in advance in life. Small problems can be solved by themselves, but big problems cannot be solved by friends. I think this is the most fundamental reason why I don't want to borrow money from my friends.

Friends talk as little as possible about money, and friendship can go further.

Will you lend money to your colleagues or friends?

I may lend him money, but only if the amount is not very large and within my acceptable range, and the most important thing is that we have a good relationship, otherwise I won't borrow money easily.

1, not talking about leadership

Don't talk about leaders behind their backs or colleagues in front of them. Don't point out the quality of leadership behind your colleagues' backs. Don't show your attitude easily even if your colleagues scold your leader for being bad. You know, one day, what you said will reach the ears of the leaders.

2. Treat your vanity correctly.

Everyone has vanity, but it is helpful for you to make rapid progress in your work if you treat vanity correctly and use it as a propeller properly. Improper use of vanity as a fire extinguisher will douse your enthusiasm or dilute your enthusiasm in your work. Some leaders may not necessarily affirm the achievements made by their subordinates in person, but they will affirm your work when communicating with others in private. Doing a good job is actually your duty and can also show your ability. A discerning person can understand without saying anything, and sometimes he doesn't need a leader to pierce this paper for you.

3. Communicate with your boss in time.

There are always some problems at work or some misunderstandings in daily life. Only effective communication can solve and eliminate problems. Good communication can bring you closer to your boss, and you can get along more happily.

4. Keep your promise

If the work you promised is not fulfilled, he will doubt whether you can keep your promise. If you are really incompetent, explain it to him as soon as possible. Although he will be temporarily unhappy, it is much better than the dissatisfaction he will have when he is finally disappointed.

Step 5 respect your colleagues

There is a saying that respect is mutual. For example, if your colleagues don't know how to ask you questions, please don't feel superior, ignore others or even deliberately embarrass them. We are colleagues and partners in the struggle together. Respect is necessary and the first condition for getting along, so we need mutual understanding and joint efforts!

Will you lend money to a friend you have always trusted?

I'll borrow it. Since we are trustworthy friends, I'm sure the relationship between the two people is extraordinary. Although friends should not talk about money, they are afraid that talking about money will hurt their feelings. However, in one's life, there must be several close friends. There are not many such friends. Help them if you can, but be careful. If you don't grasp the degree, it's easy to turn your back on money.

First of all, trustworthy friends are hard to find.

Lending money to a trusted friend today is actually saving money in disguise. I put our money into the emotional bank account. The more money in this account, the closer the relationship between the two parties. Today, I lent money to my friend. If I need to borrow money in the future, I think my friends will lend it to me.

Second, good friends can talk about money.

Although talking about money hurts feelings. But if a friend's feelings turn bad when he talks about money, then such a friend is certainly not trustworthy. Friends are also very particular about three views. If they have the same idea about money, they will hit it off and get along well with this friend.

Third, help friends when possible, and the feelings between the two sides will further heat up.

Friends need to borrow money from me, which shows that they are really desperate, but if they have a choice, it is estimated that my friends will ignore me. Since I am my most trusted friend, I will do my best to help. In the future, when my friends are developed, I will definitely remember my favor. With more friends, the road will be wider.

Therefore, I will definitely lend money to my most trusted friend. Although human nature is greedy, from the moment I borrowed money, I was ready for her not to pay me back, so there would be no resentment. If my friends don't pay me back, I won't be too angry, which only shows that I don't know enough about human nature. In many things, to succeed, we must first learn to be altruistic. Do more things that are beneficial to others. When you encounter difficulties in the future, your friends will step forward, which is definitely good for you.