A colleague of mine is the only daughter of the second generation and is quite wealthy. Finally married a Phoenix man. In order to prevent your family's property from being taken over by the groom's family in the future. This is what she did.
Since getting married, I insist on living alone. Property separated from parents. And she returns money to her parents every year. In name, they honor their parents. In fact, her natal family is much richer than her younger family. All the money she gave to her parents' family was saved by her mother. Just in case you need it in the future.
After many years of marriage, she has been separated from her parents. On several occasions, her mother-in-law hinted that marrying a chicken will follow the chicken, marrying a dog will follow the dog, saying that in the future, all her family’s house and property will not belong to her son. Why do you still distinguish so clearly in the morning and evening? My colleague expressed his position at that time. No matter how much money their parents have, it is theirs and they can use it freely. As a daughter, you don’t care about it. What do you, a mother-in-law, care about? At that time, my mother-in-law was so angry that she couldn't even speak.
My colleague is in her 30s this year, and her parents are only in their 50s now. For a long time to come, she is the only child, and her parents also said that all the property belongs to her, but she doesn’t want it now. It is said that no one can be relied on for a lifetime. People's hearts are unpredictable nowadays. She treats others sincerely, but there is no guarantee whether others will treat her sincerely. If you have money, you can take charge of your own business. So I insisted on letting my parents use their money themselves. This is a kind of protection for parents and yourself in the future.
The main question is: How can an only child prevent her husband’s family from annexing her natal family’s property in the future? I think the main reason is that I am worried about meeting a scumbag. Especially the kind of scumbag who cheats money and sex.
In terms of emotion, reason and law, the property before marriage is your own. You have full inheritance rights to your parents' property. In order to protect the property interests of my parents, and to protect my parents and my future property from being calculated. You should not put your parents' property into your name too early. In this way, if you meet a scumbag, at least you won't succeed in trying to get money. At the same time, when your parents make a will, you can specify that only you have the right to inherit all their parents' property.
I hope the above answer can help the questioner.
1. Do not sign loan or loan agreements casually. Before signing any signature, read the contents carefully before signing. It is essential to be on guard against others. Signing represents recognition and agreement, so signing carefully in life can avoid many problems;
2. When parents give away real estate and other property, they should write a written document to clarify the property donation. If there is one daughter, go to the notary office for notarization if necessary. House property can add parents as the third person to the house book, even if the parents only occupy 1. When disposing of a house in this way, the consent of the owner must be obtained to prevent young people from impulsively donating the property to others;
3. The parents made a will early, and the will clearly stated that the daughter would inherit the property. If there is no will, the inheritance will be regarded as the joint property of the couple;
4. A family trust fund can be established for 20 million yuan or more, and the beneficiary and the method of receipt can be designated, which is a good way to pass on wealth .
5. Purchase insurance, designate your daughter as the beneficiary, and the insurance money will be personal property.
6. It is recommended to find a lawyer to give operational suggestions based on the actual situation to nip problems in the bud.
How to prevent it? Just remember the following two situations and use corresponding methods to deal with them. 1. How to prevent the only child from getting married. Before marriage, you can buy a house with your parents. The house should be named in the name of the only daughter. It would be best if you can get a loan in the name of the only daughter.
This can prevent the only daughter from having to use her salary and provident fund to buy a house with her husband after marriage.
Don’t worry if the man doesn’t have a house, because the woman has a house and can ask him to pay for the renovation.
In the future, if the couple has savings, they can buy a house after marriage. Of course, if the husband is in good condition, there is no need to worry.
No matter how you operate, the car and house are pre-marital property and have nothing to do with the man.
When you get married and your reputation is good, you can say that this house is a dowry, and buying a car and writing your only daughter's name on it is also considered a dowry. In fact, these dowries have nothing to do with the man.
Always remember not to marry with cash, because if two people buy a house or start a business after marriage, the man is likely to offer to use the money to buy a house and start a business together, which equals at least half of the money. Send it to the man. 2. How to prevent the only child from getting married.
If you are married, just remember that when the two young people need to purchase real estate, start a business, etc., parents of an only child should not contribute money, and parents of an only child should not add their daughter's name when purchasing real estate, etc.
Anyway, the future inheritance will naturally be given to the daughter alone. There is no need to add a name. Even if you pay some taxes, don't add it, otherwise part of the assets may become the husband's. It is written above that if people with sons read it, they may complain, but it doesn't matter. Don't be angry. Families with sons can also do the same. But there is no way to save money on the betrothal gift. How can you get a wife if you don’t want to part with it at all? Don’t worry about this little money [cute].
I wrote this, I just hope everyone knows that this practice does exist, and the daughters of such families will live happier lives after they get married, because some men really don’t know how to settle accounts and think that the woman has a car and a house. It's good that they have a face, and they don't care if their names are written on it.
On the contrary, they don’t think it’s good when the woman gets married and devotes herself wholeheartedly to buying a house and starting a career with her husband, because they need to work hard. People are always very complex creatures and difficult to understand. I have a man around me whose parents spent more than one million yuan to buy a house for the two young people before and after marriage. The man hardly had to contribute any money, and the house also had his name written on it. It was equivalent to giving half of the money to the man. However, the man was not grateful, but was very envious. Daughters from families who can get the first method I mentioned in the article.
Is it interesting to be on guard before getting married?
It seems that this one-child family is superior and relatively wealthy. They have found a partner from the countryside. Her parents are farmers and own nothing except a few acres of land. There is a huge disparity in wealth among such families.
It’s obvious that the marriage is wrong. Why does this only daughter have to marry this poor boy? Although this young man was poor, he was ambitious and studied hard to get into a prestigious university. After graduation, he easily entered a state agency and became a civil servant. If you fall in love with him, not only will he have an enviable job, but he may also have a bright future. But I am worried that if I get married, I will suffer a financial loss. After raising this question, the man was put on guard before getting married. How to prevent your family property from being plundered by poor people?
1. When looking for a partner, it is best to find a wealthy family whose wealth exceeds that of the only daughter's family. Not only do you not have to worry about your own property being monopolized, but the husband’s property may also be transferred to the nuclear family.
2. If the parents give gifts to their only daughter before her marriage, whether it is a house, a car, gold and silver jewelry, or bills, make a list and write a gift contract. A gift contract is a contract in which the donor gives his property to the donee free of charge and the donee expresses his acceptance of the gift. Among them, the property needs to be registered according to law, go through the name change and transfer procedures, and realize the transfer of property rights. The property in the name of the only daughter is the property of one party before the marriage. Even if they are married, it is not the joint property of the husband and wife. It is not the joint property of the husband and wife, but the personal property of the only child.
3. The man and woman can agree in writing that the property acquired during the marriage and the property before the marriage shall be owned by each other. The property rights are clear and it is very clear who owns the property. This kind of property agreement has legal effect on both parties.
4. For daily consumption in family life, the AA system is actually implemented. Expenses are recorded in detail. The item, unit price, quantity and weight of each expenditure are clearly written, and the amount is written clearly and settled every day. Find the price difference after the monthly reconciliation is confirmed. For debts that are expressed by ***'s consent, such as the signature of *** or subsequent ratification by one party, debts borne in an individual's name for the daily needs of the family, the creditor can prove that the debt is used for the husband and wife's life together, *** If the two parties have the same production and business operations and have the same intention, the husband and wife have the same debts.
The debts will be settled in the AA system before the month is over, and their respective properties will be used to bear the debts.
5. The other party knows that the property you and your husband have agreed to belong to each other, and the debts borne by one party will be paid off with the personal property of the husband or wife. That is to say, whoever borrows the debt must repay it, and the other party will not repay the debt on his behalf.
6. Husband and wife have equal obligations to raise, educate and protect their children. If a minor causes damage, the husband and wife shall bear civil liability in accordance with the law and each shall pay from their personal property.
7. Husband and wife have the obligation to support, support and protect their parents. Each pays alimony out of his or her personal property.
8. After divorce, if the children are directly raised by one party, the other party shall bear part or all of the child support. If 2 children each raise 1 child.
9. If you find that the man has hidden, transferred, sold, damaged, or squandered his only daughter’s personal property, call the police or file a lawsuit in court, requiring the man to return the property and compensate for the loss. The man forged the debt of his wife, but the only daughter found out in time and refused to admit it. The debt was borne by the man personally.
10. The parents of an only child should write a will as soon as possible and designate the inheritance to be inherited by the only daughter.
11. The only daughter buys life and property insurance, and the beneficiaries are parents or children.
12. The only daughter writes a will and designates her personal property to be inherited by her children or her parents.
An only child is always on guard against her future husband, which can prevent him from monopolizing the property and keep it from being lost. But do couples still have feelings for each other? Can a marriage without feelings last long?
To put it bluntly, it is very important to be the right person. If our family backgrounds are similar, we may not attach too much importance to each other's property. What you have is what I have, so why bother. Also look at the quality of the other person’s parents. If you want to think about how to prevent being annexed, just keep your eyes open and find a family with a good tutor. No need to worry and be afraid all day long. People can live a more comfortable life, worry and worry all day long, worry about everything, and live a tired life, so why bother. No matter how strict the law is, it cannot sort out household affairs. If you are worried about your own family property, why bother with it. How can one be protected from thieves
In a family with only one child, sooner or later the property will be left to the daughter. If it is not absorbed by the husband’s family now, it will be left to his own children in the future. Aren’t they all the same? ?
My cousin's family is like this. The couple worked hard all their lives and bought three houses. They have only one daughter. My daughter graduated from college and fell in love with a man who couldn't afford a house. After they got married, they lived in a small square house in her family. After she gave birth to a child, her parents-in-law came to look after the child. The house was too small to live in. Conveniently, my cousin asked her daughter and her family to move into that large square house.
I sold the small apartment, but my mother-in-law was still unwilling to do so. She said that the small apartment should be kept for the couple to live in so that their grandson could live in it when he grows up. My cousin was very angry. What could she do? Even if she didn’t give it to her now, everything she had would be left to her daughter in the future. Her daughter would also be given to her own child. Wouldn’t it be an advantage to the man?
I suddenly felt so sad. I felt that I had worked hard all my life just to work for the man.
Here are two pieces of advice to ensure that you can safeguard your natal family’s property in a foolproof way, and not even a drop of water will flow into the fields of outsiders. (1) Recruit a son-in-law and use modern scientific methods to convert his genes into your genes. Only children born in this way will have 100% of your mother's genes. (2) Never marry for the rest of your life, and stay with the green lantern for the rest of your life. Before his death, Yi Zheng's daughter dissipated all her family property. Only in this way would she not leave any regrets. Choose one of the two, please do it yourself.
1. Learn the new marriage law before marriage,
2. If you have a loan to buy a wedding house, you can choose to pay off the loan first, and then have the property notarized with your parents,
3. Families with good economic conditions (more than 10 million) can open a family trust plan.
I am an only daughter and have made a will. When I die, my mother is still alive. All my pre-marital property belongs to the old lady alone, and my post-marital property belongs exclusively to my children. My mother is not present. All my pre-marital property and marital property In the end, all my parts belong to my children. Recently, my husband made a will. His part belongs to me, but not to the children. Everyone is at peace