I once met a colleague who lived together for a short time in 1 1. She said that she was going to buy a house, and she was already optimistic, but her husband's uncle didn't want to lend them money to pay the down payment. Bala Ala complained about everything (how rich my uncle is, but he was afraid that they wouldn't pay back the money and didn't want to lend it to them), so I asked her: How much is the down payment? The elder sister said that the difference was 200,000 yuan. I asked how much was the down payment? This sister said 220 thousand. I was shocked? Elder sister explained: We have 10,000 ourselves, and my in-laws can make up 10,000, so we need to borrow 200,000 from my uncle. ...
It's really strange if someone doesn't have a few wonderful relatives these days.
My husband bought the house with 500 thousand. The developer only gave us two days from signing the contract to paying the down payment, and we have to pay more than 50% down payment. Moreover, in our whole garden, only our family is entrusted to do staging, and the rest are full. My mother-in-law and I are strongly opposed to buying this suite, and only after divorce can we qualify to buy a house, but my parents support him. Then we divorced within a day, and he borrowed 2 million from relatives and friends to pay the down payment. He also shamelessly told me that it was not a problem to cancel the debt after selling two suites. Then he took my apartment and his apartment as mortgage loans and paid 2.5 million to relatives and friends. He hung up two suites and sold them online. But after 1 year, he didn't sell any of them, and the interest returned to 50,000 to 60,000 every month. Come back every day and complain about the stress.
So I am also a miracle. When I bought a house, I was penniless and owed hundreds of thousands of foreign debts. I've only been working for a few months, so I can't help it. My daughter-in-law is pregnant and my mother-in-law forces me to buy a house. I had to bite the bullet and buy it. The day after the wedding, my daughter-in-law and I calculated that the foreign debt was 580 thousand. In a rural family, my father is still ill, so I can't do heavy work My cousin said I was too courageous. Fortunately, I am also very brave at ordinary times, and my work is OK. Many relatives and friends know that when I am in trouble, they call me to lend me money. Now one year has passed, and there is still100000 foreign debt. Friends need money badly after getting married for half a year.
My aunt's child, 30 years old, spent a lot of money to marry a wife. A month later, he was diagnosed with advanced gastric cancer, and his son borrowed money to prepare for treatment. The daughter-in-law hid the money for the treatment, and the son finally hanged himself. I don't know if it's wonderful, but it's sad.
My cousin's youngest daughter, with a general family background, graduated from junior college with a monthly salary of more than 2K. She found a postdoctoral fellow in Tsinghua, worked in a public institution, and her family is relatively rich. Her parents are both boyfriends of retired cadres, and her cousin is just showing off for everyone. As a result, the little princess was ill, and the little girl who loved to read all kinds of works was yellow, and her mother didn't cry and regret it.
When we got married, my wife's grandfather gave me a gold necklace with thick fingers. My wife was very happy. It turned out to be fake. After the old man was exposed, it was still my wife's value, and we never met again.
My uncle's brother-in-law borrowed money from him to pay the down payment on the house. There is really a down payment. Later, he couldn't afford the monthly payment, so he asked his brother-in-law and my uncle to take over, and he didn't mention the down payment. He is very uncomfortable.
Xiong Haizi is not only a child, but also an adult and even an old man. No one can stand it. Wukong, please accept the avatar.
There must be one, my uncle and my grandparents. Several of our old houses in the countryside are the kind of tile houses. Later, our family built a new house to raise chickens. Later, my brother bought a house in the city, and then we all worked outside and hardly went back to our hometown. My uncle built a new house last year. Because he didn't talk to his neighbors about buying land, they blocked his way to build a new house. Then he tore down my old house and built a road without consulting my parents. It was several days before a neighbor met my dad in the city, and then we went back to argue with him. He tried to hit my mother, and my grandparents helped him. The most important thing is that my grandparents are so justified in living in my new house, and my grandparents are even more unreasonable. When my parents and my uncle quarreled, they stood together. This year in Tomb-Sweeping Day, we went back to our hometown to visit the grave. My uncle's house was being decorated, and then he went out to work. My grandmother cooks for those workers at home. When she saw my mother coming back, she said that no one was cooking. She cooks all kinds of slow meals and asks my mother to cook them for her. We ignored her. My grandparents are the kind of people who are particularly unreasonable since childhood. When I was born, I was a girl. She told my mother to throw me away and have a new son. It's the same when you have a cousin.
My husband and sister bought a house in Shanghai. At that time, she and her husband were not married and only talked for a few years. One year before the wedding, my husband and sister wanted to buy a house in Shanghai. At that time, it seemed to be more than 10 thousand, with a down payment of more than 400 thousand However, my husband and sister have no money. The money she earned in college subsidized her family, so she didn't save any money. Fortunately, my boyfriend has 300 thousand deposits, but it is still not enough. At that time, everyone didn't have much money, so my husband and sister borrowed hundreds of thousands of usury from her father in their hometown. It seems that people's interest
Spit a word. It's so sad.
When she was young, at the age of 34, I introduced her to a divorced husband, who was quite old and well matched in all aspects. She has no children, no house and no car, and she will earn more money. After marriage, I helped her find a job, with easy income and good income. In her mouth, all her other friends are married to the second generation of rich second generation officials, or they are good at making money.
This person is possessed this year and generally wants to buy a second suite. Finally, he took a fancy to a 4-bedroom subway entrance in a relatively partial area. So he called me to borrow money. The first time I asked how much I could borrow, I thought that since I want to buy a house, you should also borrow100,000 to 200,000, so I asked you how much is the difference? She told me that there is still a down payment of 76w, and she only wants to borrow the provident fund, but she is not willing to lend a business loan. She probably wants to hear your tone, so I won't find anyone else, so I'll borrow 76w from you. I said, how long have you paid back the money? She said, don't worry, don't worry. I can repay you 10w 5% interest every year without any accident. I also have an old house that can sell for 30w. I'll pay you back when I sell it. I said that if you borrow it from someone else, I have to discuss it with my husband. She said I was expecting your call, which means I borrowed it from you. I insisted that he go out and borrow it again. That night 12 o'clock, he continued to talk to me about borrowing money to buy a house, saying that someone had borrowed it, and the remaining 50w borrowed it from me. I said, how can you return it? He said that you don't have to worry. My friend promised to help me pay my debts with my future salary. At the end of the month, some friends have the money to help me pay my debts, and some friends can help me pay my debts when my finances expire. In the end, I really can't afford the house. I said no, none of them can be paid by yourself. After grinding until 1 pm, I still refused to let her borrow it herself, and finally went to bed without results. The next afternoon, she told me that she borrowed 15w again, and it was still 35w short. If I don't agree, she can't sign up for the lucky draw. The success of buying a house depends on whether I have borrowed this 35w. As for paying back the money, I may not pay it first, because I am closest to her, so I will pay it later. Actually, I think she should know how embarrassed I am. On the one hand, as a child, I really want to see her getting better and better. On the other hand, she knows me too well and knows that I will be soft-hearted, so she will lend it to him as long as she is willing to grind. But has she considered my feelings? It is uncomfortable to be forced to help. Up to now, she may still think that those friends who are willing to help her pay back the money in the future are her real friends, and I am a cheapskate and refuse to borrow it again and again. There is no such logic. I am the closest person to you, so I am willing to owe you only one favor. You owe so much anyway. I owe you again this time. I didn't grind you at all. It doesn't matter if you don't answer me. This will not affect our friendship. I just called you again and again to borrow money until you lent it to me. Don't worry, don't worry, it's not difficult for you because you have money.
Sad, there is no place to vent, just vent here.
Speaking of wonderful relatives, I have to mention my little uncle, who has become a legend in our village!
His house lives opposite us, very close, and he is short.
He dropped out of school at an early age, was lazy, fought in a war and spent several years in prison.
After coming out, his mother found him a 4-year-old man, had three children, gave birth to a son, was honest for 2 years, and finally divorced.
After indulging in gambling, I lost 65438+ 10,000 overnight!
His mother loves her son, so she took out all her savings because she was afraid that her son would be killed and sold her property to collect enough money to repay him.
As a result, you know?
He ran away with the money, my god!
Finally, the debtor came to his house and beat his brother and his mother black and blue, and the whole street could hear their screams.
Finally, the village head was called and the foundation of their home was given to each other. The good news is that they won't be driven away, but once they are demolished, they have nothing!
Do you think this is over?
No, no, no
It's almost 10 years. Just when everyone thought my little uncle was dead outside, he came back.
The first thing he did was kidnap his son and prepare to sell it to traffickers. He also proudly said that he would sell it for 65438+ 10,000 yuan!
In the end, somehow, without success, the matter went away.
Now, when he meets people, he lets them do business with him. As long as he pays 78 thousand, he can earn millions.
Everyone is far away, and his mother doesn't blame him. Up to now, they are all eating and waiting to die.