At that time, the situation in China was very different from today. After graduating from university, students were assigned a guaranteed job. If they were graduate students, they could also choose to go to Beijing or Shanghai. Therefore, the pressure on people who went abroad at that time should be imaginable, and when they settled in the United States and encountered such things as being laid off or even unable to find a job after layoffs, their psychological endurance could no longer be They are facing a major test at this time, and these people are no longer young at this time. Not to mention that it is a challenge for them to start over, even if some conditions are lowered. Many people have more than one child, many people have relatively large house loans that have not been paid off, and many people are still burdened with some expenses for their family members in China. Some accounts that are usually invisible have turned into huge debts at this time. On everyone. There is a young man in the city where I live. He has always had a good job. He used to have a smaller villa that was almost paid off. In the years when everyone was buying new houses, he also changed it. A larger villa. If there were no accidents, this house would be paid off within a few years. It was nothing to say. However, not long after he bought the house, the last round of the American economic crisis came, and he was unfortunately fired by the company. There was a layoff, and his wife had just come to the United States from China and had no conditions to work at all. He didn’t even have the chance to find another job, because he had to pay the mortgage with his monthly salary. In desperation, he drove to the mountains, where he thought he was the most beautiful place. The place jumped down and stayed in the United States forever. Such an example is not this one. Those of us living in the United States will have heard of some such things, such sad but helpless things. The cruel reality is actually in front of each of us. China today is incomparable with that of the past few decades. China has risen rapidly and unknowingly. This is a fact, but what follows is also fierce competition. The level is actually no less than U.S. Changes in some domestic systems have allowed many people to give full play to their talents, and the power of interpersonal relationships is deeply rooted. Therefore, it should be quite difficult to participate in China's construction and development halfway and receive what you think is a fair treatment. Yes, maybe it's simply impossible. Many people say that Dr. Sun suffers from depression or even mental illness. So under such circumstances, which unit in China can accept him at this time? Someone wants to give him a salary of 3,800 yuan a month. This 3,800 yuan seems like a lot, but he has three children and a wife to support. If he has three children, his wife must be over 40 years old. It should be difficult to find a job at this age in China. Considering that the children need to go to school and the adults need food and accommodation, these few thousand yuan should not be rich. This is not because Dr. Sun has high requirements. Of course, when you return to China, you have to find a job in China. China does not have to support your whole family, so you cannot negotiate terms with others. This is what some returnees do not adapt to after returning home, especially Dr. Sun who was a talented person in the United States. If we just look at the series of things that happened after Dr. Sun returned from overseas, we can see that Dr. Sun's demands are a little too high, but if we can imagine Dr. Sun's experience and see that his mentality is unbearable, it also makes sense. Therefore, it is not impossible for such things to happen when the country does not understand the situation abroad and the returnees do not understand the current situation at home. The key is that those of us who still live overseas and those family members in China who have relatives overseas must understand the situation. , we must be fully mentally and spiritually prepared before returning from overseas. We still need to be prepared to start all over again if we return to China, and family members with overseas relatives in China must also be fully mentally prepared. This home for overseas returnees is not a return home in fine clothes, but Once again, relatives and friends came to visit. In my opinion, there are not many returnees who really need returnees. Many people see the bright side of people in China today but do not see their bitter side. We must know that what we see is that they have experienced hardships that are no worse than ours. What they have experienced today is what they have today, and if they want to maintain their glory, they have to keep fighting like this without being able to breathe. If they are not careful, they will lose everything.Since we had so many struggles when we first came to the United States, why not do it again? In fact, many people who were on Wall Street are now driving taxis on the streets of New York, and they are still living a good life, right? ? A computer engineer who worked in the same company as my brother now works as a taxi driver in California. When our family goes out or comes back, we always ask him to pick us up. Their family is living a good life. Therefore, it is better not to return overseas if it is unnecessary. Life is for ourselves to live, not for others to see. As long as we can rely on our own efforts to live a safe and healthy life together as a family, this is the greatest success.