Since the launch of the TV series "Only Thirty", stay-at-home mother Gu Jia has unexpectedly become popular, and she has become the most admired role model for many women. Gu Jia, as her name suggests, gets the best in everything. I have a career, I have a family, I can go to school and I can take care of my children. In the TV series, Gu Jia took on a huge loan and moved into a big house so that her son could attend a noble kindergarten. Gu Jia only hopes that her son will receive an elite education from an early age. Unfortunately, my son failed the interview. Helpless, Gu Jia had to think of other ways.
In order to send her son to the ideal school, Gu Jia did not hesitate to please Mrs. Wang in the circle of wealthy women, hoping to get her recommendation letter so that her son could enter the kindergarten smoothly.
In order to realize her wish, Gu Jia resigned herself to humiliation. She took the initiative to endure the cynicism of others, carried and put on Mrs. Wang's shoes, and made fun of her feet.
When my best friends saw Gu Jia's gesture, they all cried for her and felt sorry for her.
In the end, Gu Jia said: "It's okay, everything is for the sake of the children. These are the practices of being a mother."
In Gu Jia's eyes, carrying someone's shoes is not a good thing. If the child suffers a little injustice, it is the responsibility of the mother. This is not worth the injustice. Later, in order to allow her son to attend equestrian classes, Gu Jia did not hesitate to sell her jewelry and send her children to learn equestrian. She did not want her children to lose at the starting line.
Indeed, Gu Jia’s sincere dedication as a mother is truly touching. Her behavior is just like ordinary mothers in life. In Gu Jia, too many women have seen the epitome of themselves and felt the hardship and difficulty of being a mother. A pure heart, all for the good future of the children. Children should be so lucky to have a good mother who is willing to give.
However, this matter is also worthy of our reflection. Should mothers really put their children into aristocratic kindergartens with low self-esteem for the sake of their children's future?
Aristocratic kindergarten, expensive does not necessarily mean it is good
In the concept of some mothers, children in aristocratic kindergartens enjoy good welfare benefits and receive a higher level of education. Moreover, Noble Kindergarten can educate children to develop good habits and rules, pay attention to children's growth and physical and mental health, tap children's potential, and cultivate children in a personalized way.
In addition, because the number of children in the class of Noble Kindergarten is limited, children can be well taken care of and parents can feel more at ease.
However, what the author still wants to say is that expensive kindergartens do not necessarily mean they are good. At the same time, what parents think is good may not necessarily be considered good by their children.
Take the TV series "Thirty Only" as an example. The mother, Gu Jia, sold her jewelry to enroll her child in an equestrian class, but the child did not want to learn at all. For this "interest class", the mother tried her best, but her son was not interested at all and his behavior seemed ungrateful.
It can be seen that when it comes to preventing children from going to aristocratic kindergartens, we should respect the children's ideas and comprehensively measure their own economic level. You can neither let your children lose at the starting line, nor make a fool of yourself by being fat. There is no condition for you to force yourself to "kneel down" to create conditions.
Otherwise, if the child knows that his learning opportunities are obtained in this way, it will be difficult to heal the inner wounds. Once other children laugh at him, the child will not be able to "be a human being".
How to choose a suitable kindergarten for your child?
First of all, whether it is a public kindergarten or a private kindergarten, it must be registered and qualified
Only kindergartens registered with the Ministry of Education can send children to attend with confidence. It is best to ask around among parents first. Kindergartens with good reputations may be more suitable for children to study in.
Secondly, choosing a kindergarten that is convenient for picking up and dropping off children is more suitable and convenient for parents.
After all, when picking up children, you need to consider the time cost and the convenience of transportation. If the children need to call parents urgently at school, it will also be convenient for parents to rush there as soon as possible.
Furthermore, finding a responsible kindergarten teacher is as important to a child as choosing which kindergarten to go to.
A teacher who is responsible, good at communicating, has a great personality, and is willing to encourage and care for children will have a profound impact on the children.
In short, choosing a kindergarten is not a simple matter, and it is best to solicit your children’s ideas. At the very least, after choosing a kindergarten, you can take your children to visit first so that they can feel the atmosphere of the kindergarten they are about to attend. In this way, children will be more obedient, integrate into collective life more quickly, and coordinate with future curriculum and activity arrangements.
Also, nowadays, public kindergartens have good hardware conditions. Children’s regional activities, nutritious food, physical exercises, outdoor games and other program arrangements are all in line with the age characteristics of the children. Parents There is really no need to be discriminatory towards ordinary kindergartens just because they are "non-aristocratic".