When people reach middle age, they are old and young, and the economy of the whole family depends on your work income. What will happen if you suddenly lose your job? Have you thought about what your wife will do to you?
When people reach middle age, if one day they are unemployed and down and out, what should they do to "turn over"?
Why are we worried about unemployment?
I think the work of modern people is more and more subdivided, and each of us is often just in our own exclusive field. If one day this field is no longer popular and the requirements for staff are less and less, a large number of people will face unemployment. We have no other experience, so it is really difficult to find a decent job.
Middle-aged people are the pillars of the family and bear all the responsibilities. When they suddenly lose the ability to make money, they will fall into the trough of life.
After unemployment, the economic income is gone, but the monthly bill will not be missing a penny. If there is still a loan at home, the anxiety can only be understood by those who have experienced it.
What will your wife do to you after you lose your job?
Bian Xiao believes that the meaning of husband and wife is to help each other in the same boat, suffer hardships together and enjoy wealth together. Couples who really love each other will definitely encourage each other and tide over the difficulties together.
The wife may have these two reactions:
One: the wife can't make money herself, and she depends on her husband to support her. Now her husband is unemployed. On the contrary, she is full of sarcasm and resentment, complaining that her husband can't make money and is useless, and saying that people are more capable! Such a wife is really rude. When she said these words, she had made up her mind to leave this man. So a friend in need is a friend indeed, even husband and wife are no exception. Such a woman believes that "husband and wife are birds in the same forest, and when disaster strikes, they will fly separately". If she has such a wife, it is better to be single. If you don't mention the divorce, she will sooner or later.
Second: the wife is working herself. Although she doesn't earn much money, it is enough to support the daily expenses of her family. A wife with high emotional intelligence will understand her husband's depressed mood and say to him, "Never mind, take a rest, I will support you!" " "A good wife will silently give her husband full spiritual and economic support. With her support, men will rally, cheer up and start a second career in life.
That is the reality. What can I do to "turn over the salted fish"?
Men had better have a sense of crisis. Take precautions, nip in the bud. When our life is comfortable, we must think about it. What should I do if I lose my job and this industry can't do it?
Eggs can't be put in one basket, and our income should be two-pronged. It's best to make a backup plan that can make money.
After work, some people learned how to stock and invest, how to manage money, and put their savings for many years to make money. Now the income from financial management gradually exceeds the income from my work, so I don't worry about losing my job!
There are also self-study how to do e-commerce after work. If they earn some pocket money through the internet, with the deepening of their studies, their careers will get bigger and bigger, and even they can't imagine the money they finally earn. I believe there are people around us who make money through the internet.
With the ability to make money through multiple channels, we are confident and not afraid of unemployment at all! This is the best plan.
What should we do if we are unemployed now and have not developed the second ability to make money?
1998, many enterprises were dissolved or reorganized, and those who were laid off had to choose middle age to start their own businesses again. At this time, a song "Starting from scratch" inspired many people's fighting spirit. "If the heart is in a dream, it will be bitter and strong!" How many people sang the mood at that time.
If we are unemployed, our family is in urgent need of money. If there is no better choice, don't be picky about our work. As long as you are in good health, you can make money anyway. Put down your face, as long as you can make money. Take-out by electric car and express by tricycle. As long as you are diligent, your salary is enough to make a living. No matter what kind of work, as long as it can pay and support the family, do it first.
But gold will always shine, and talents will not be buried by this era. Work hard, and one day the salted fish will turn over!