When the ability can't match your inner desire for consumption.

Last year, a survey made many young people feel ashamed: nearly 60% of China's younger generation (under 35) had no savings.

China's post-90s average deposit is only 800 yuan, which is too bad, while the post-00s deposit is more than twice as much as theirs. 1840 yuan.

Since there is no savings, how did the exquisite life they shared in the circle of friends appear out of thin air?

By the end of 20 18, 22.43 million people in China had borrowed money from online lending platforms, and these online lending platforms had lent more than 800 million RMB.

A few days ago, there was a heart-wrenching news. A 2 1 year-old girl committed suicide by jumping off a building because she owed more than 100,000 yuan on the online loan platform.

Among her daughter's belongings, the father found her daughter's handwritten bill, which is the money she needs to pay back to various loan platforms every month. In the end, only 7 yuan was left in her Alipay and 1 yuan was left in her bank card.

At first, she only borrowed 3000 yuan. Because she hasn't got it yet, she can only continue to borrow it from another online lending platform.

These loans look beautiful, but the interest rate is quite high, so the more you owe her, the more you owe her. Over the years, she has paid back 80,000 yuan, and still owes more than 10 million. Finally, she was disheartened and gave up hope of life.

2 1 year is the most vigorous age. Her future was supposed to be infinite, but it suddenly came to an abrupt end.

However, this is not a case. Countless young people commit suicide every year because of online loans.

They were dragged into the swamp of fate step by step by their terrible desire for consumption.

Many people think that a new mobile phone or computer with five or six thousand dollars will cost several hundred dollars in installments every month. Buying early and enjoying early is really hard to find a reason to refuse.

But under the control of such desire, what is hidden is a huge hole in the heart.

The hole will never be filled, but the savings are still zero and the salary has not risen. Finally, I had to go to a desperate situation.

Why would anyone go to a naked loan? Will sell your body for money?

In the final analysis, the situation is urgent, and they have reached a desperate situation.

In the case of consumption in advance, it is actually an irresistible desire to show off.

Nowadays, the lifestyle of luxury petty bourgeoisie is popular, which makes many young people compete to show off their exquisite life in the circle of friends.

Even if the only tidy place in the dormitory is the sheets, show yourself a classic Ins breakfast with filter.

Even if there are no more bottles of cosmetics on the messy desktop, filters should be used to create the atmosphere of Nordic aristocratic dressing tables.

It is not things that are destroyed, but people.

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It's not that I can't quit happiness, but that I can't quit my inner addiction.

Some people say that the happiness of young people is very simple, just give them a mobile phone connected to WiFi.

I have seen several shocking news on the Internet before:

Indian boy, who died after playing chicken-eating games for six hours in a row at home, cried and begged to ban such games.

Xiao Wang, a 28-year-old Chongqing guy, resigned at home and played mobile phone day and night every day. For more than a year, he often stayed up until five in the morning.

Irregular work and rest warned his body, and he began to feel chest tightness and kept sweating, but he didn't care, still went his own way and didn't take these problems seriously at all.

The price will come soon, and the sudden myocardial infarction almost killed him.

The doctor said that this terrible situation will only happen to middle-aged and elderly people over 45 years old.

In China, every year, 550,000 people stay up all night and die suddenly, and more than 90% of them are young people.

Many times we always say that staying up late and working overtime will lead to sudden death, but the reality is that according to big data, most of these people are simply addicted to playing mobile phones and games, and staying up late night after night can't stop for the longest time.

Forwarding the news that someone died suddenly in a distant city at 3 am, but I didn't know that I was on the verge of danger. This is the living condition of many people.

There is a saying in Attachment Psychology that there are high and low tastes, but there must be two kinds of consumption and supplement.

The complementary fun may sometimes be just some small things around you, such as insisting on running in the morning, or reading a whole book and a study plan.

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This generation of young people are eating with their lives.

Among them, he was impressed by a patient who ate 30 pieces of glutinous rice cakes and his intestines were completely blocked.

So he decided to use this case to educate other patients not to overeat. As a result, the first question he often hears is: "What brand of glutinous rice cake is so delicious?"

I have to say that this young man is really taking his life to eat.

You must have seen the long line in front of Mr. Xi Cha and Mr. Bao's shop. Driven by online celebrity marketing and herd mentality, young people have no resistance to "hot bombs" such as milk tea and fluffy bread.