My name is Pan Xiao, my family is in the countryside, my parents are engaged in farm work, and I have a younger brother. Although the conditions in our family are not particularly good, my brother and I are very obedient and sensible. I remember that my parents said that only my brother and I could go to college. I thought my brother was young and I would let him go, but my brother gave me this chance. He said, brother, your academic performance is better than mine. Go ahead. In this way, I went to college and my brother went to work in other places to make money.

Later, every time I think about it, my heart is full of guilt. My brother is four years younger than me, but he looks ten years older than me because of his premature contact with society, so that my brother got married at the age of 30. Many girls look down on him because of his lack of education, low salary and bad looks. I think if it was me who gave up studying at that time, maybe my brother would live a happy life. I think my brother gave me everything today. So, my brother came to see me that day. He said he wanted to buy a car and run a taxi, and he was 50 thousand short, so I lent it to him without hesitation. I didn't tell my wife about it, because all I know is that she didn't agree with 10 thousand.

02.

My wife and I met in college and got married as soon as we graduated. When I got married, my parents gave me 50 thousand bride price, but my parents-in-law didn't give us a penny. Although my wife's family is from the city, she still has a brother. Her brother is very bad and has been very good since he was a child. He was admitted to a famous university, but he didn't expect to do well in it. Instead, I frequently associate with people in society, indulge in games all day, and be lazy. He wanted to make money by opportunism, and then he became addicted to gambling.

03.

One day, my wife called me in tears and asked me to borrow 80 thousand yuan. I asked her, "What's going on?" She told me that my brother-in-law's creditors came to ask for money and killed him if the money was not enough. I heard that my brother-in-law was in debt, and I refused to borrow anything, regardless of whether my brother-in-law would pay back the money. If I lend it to him, he will continue to pay his debts. I want him to learn to take it on his own. Hearing this, the wife nu way, "life is gone, still bear what? Do you still treat me like family? Forget it, don't lend me to find someone else. " Later, my parents-in-law called, and I didn't borrow it. I said, "I have no money in my hand now, so I borrowed it all." Later, my parents-in-law finally borrowed 80 thousand yuan, but their family, including my daughter-in-law, thought I was a cruel person.

04.

I didn't intend to tell my daughter-in-law about lending money to my brother to buy a car, for fear that she would feel uncomfortable. I didn't expect her to know about it later. I came home from work that day and saw my luggage at the door. I have some unknown so. At this time, my wife came out. She handed me a divorce agreement. She said, "I understand you. You will only help your family. The life and death of my family has nothing to do with you. " I said, "I don't think so. If your brother borrows money to buy other things, I will definitely take the money without hesitation, but he is ... "

"That's enough, don't say anything, let's get a divorce! You make me too chilling. " The wife said this sentence and went back to her parents' house.

No matter how I explain it, my wife will never forgive me. She also said, "Nothing will happen unless you get the money you lent your brother back." But I feel sorry for my brother. Do I really want my money back?

Friends, after reading what happened in Pan Xiao's family, do you think Pan Xiao's behavior is right or wrong? Should he get a divorce or get his money back? What would you do if such a thing happened to you?