If a man really likes you, he will be happy to give you money. If she really treats you as a wife, she will marry you home. It must be that you are in charge of money, which shows that this man especially trusts you and regards you as his life's support. In other words, a man who doesn't give you a penny certainly doesn't love you, and a man who gives you a lot of money doesn't necessarily love you. So whether he really likes you or not, you can see from his actions. For example, he said whether he would give you a red envelope or buy you some gifts on holidays or special days. In short, if he cares about you, he will do these things. Will men give you money to spend when they love you? Even children know how to give candy to people they like. Why can't we pack anything in the adult world? When you really like someone, you feel poor, not materialistic. If a man can afford it, he is with you, but he is unwilling to spend money for you. There is only one reason. He just doesn't love you. A friend of mine has chased many girls and he only spends a little money. If he spends a lot of money on a girl, it must be worth it. After all, no one's money is blown by the wind, and it will be left to the most worthwhile person. What is worth it? It is worthwhile for you to love her and want her to be good. I suggest you ignore the man who is always crying in front of you. Many people always say that there is no reason to like someone, just pursuing the process without looking at the result. And I only look at the results. There is still a three-month assessment period for entry. During this period, if your work does not meet the standard, you will not be able to become a regular employee smoothly. Didn't you say the result is not important? No one in the workplace will care about your hard work. So is love. You said you worked hard to create a happy future for her. Others can give her a future without effort. Finally, she left with someone else. You can't say she is realistic, but you can't afford the happiness she wants. Don't transfer money, don't want to spend money for her, just don't love her. Any excuse is feeble. If you give, it is true love. If you don't give it, there must be something wrong. Stay together every day and talk about love without any actual performance. What kind of love is this? Primitive people chase girls with bones and meat on their backs and say love empty-handed. Are you sure you found true love? Love can't be hidden. The man who really loves you, even if there is only 100 yuan left in his pocket, is still willing to give everything for you. The man who doesn't love you, even if his assets are tens of millions, is not willing to buy a bag with 1000 yuan for you. The difference is definitely not money, but love or not. If you love me, you should not talk about money. How many people have been hurt by this statement? Love lessons with empty gloves and white wolves can be seen everywhere. You will say that the woman who really loves you is not willing to let you spend money. The kind of woman who doesn't spend your money is because she doesn't want anything to do with you. In fact, if a man doesn't spend any money and thoughts on you, he will easily forget you. The more money a man spends on a person, the less likely he is to leave this woman. The greater the sunk cost, even when we are bound by it, we will sincerely think that the sunk cost is scarce and unwilling to give up. People who have given you money are less likely to leave you than those who only talk sweet words to you. Just as we were so dependent on our parents when we were young, we felt that we could not live without our parents. So is love. In this relationship, whoever depends on who pays more is more difficult to give up. I hope you become a person who creates beauty and makes others depend on you. After all, relying on others is also an achievement and happiness. If that person is worth it. Why are many men willing to spend money for the anchor, but not for their own women? Will men love you and give you money to spend? Money can't be the only criterion to judge feelings. Luo Zijun in the domestic drama "My First Half Life" bought a pair of 80,000 customized shoes without blinking. Every day, besides being beautiful at home, he also dragged buy buy, the nanny, to buy them. And Chen's behavior to his wife has always been in favor of both hands. He doesn't know what Luo Zijun is thinking every day, and he doesn't want to know. All he knows is that Luo Zijun wants to buy something, and he just has to pay for it himself. Of course, he accepted Lingling's initiative without much hesitation. To some extent, Chen gave Luo Zijun money just to buy a sense of peace. A man is stingy, but he can spend money for her. This is a sign of love. But for a man who spends money like water and doesn't care much about money, he won't feel bad if he spends 10 thousand for you, which may not reflect his love. Therefore, whether a man loves you or not depends on whether he pays what he cares about. For the rich, money is worthless. You have to see if he is willing to spend time with you and do some boring little things with you. For a person who has just entered the society and has little money, he has time and no money. If he is willing to spend money for you, it is also love. Everyone is different, so we can't measure everyone by one standard. Love needs your heart. Feel how much he cares about you, not just judge by money. This is a mature view of emotion. What are the criteria for judging feelings? I believe that many girls actually want to confirm whether they love themselves by spending money on gifts. In fact, in addition to spending money, many details are enough to prove it. Colleagues and boyfriends take her to and from work every day. There was a company dinner that ended at eleven o'clock. I saw him waiting downstairs. There are many such crazy wives. A friend of mine, whose husband is worried that her hands will get rough, never lets her wash dishes, and his friend can't cook. Her husband cooks three meals a day. In fact, judging whether a boy cares about you can be judged from countless details. It's not how much money he spent on you, but how much thought and time he invested in you. There are many young boys with average financial conditions who can't afford expensive gifts, but there are still many ways to express their love and pamper their girlfriends. One of my college roommates has a phobia of choice and often can't decide which to buy when buying clothes. Since I had a boyfriend, he often accompanied her shopping, accompanied her to choose clothes, and finally picked out the most suitable clothes from a lot of clothes. We are all envious. To put it bluntly, we can judge his attitude towards feelings in the process of getting along with him. If you think he cares about you, the only thing that makes you doubt whether he really loves you is hesitation. You can think about it. Do you have any other concerns except that he can't do this? Can you feel that he really cares about you and cares about you at ordinary times? If you think he is still very attentive to you at ordinary times, this is the only place that makes you uncomfortable. You can try to communicate with him and listen to his voice. After all, you know your feelings best. In fact, you don't need to care so much about whether he spends money for you. Wen Jiajia in the movie "Beijing meets Seattle", after returning to Beijing after giving birth from the United States, is still obsessed with Frank. Wen Jiajia said, "He is the best man in the world. He may not take me on a yacht or eat French food, but he can run a few streets for me every morning to buy my favorite soybean milk fritters. In contrast, the rich old clock will only be bought for Wen Jiajia buy buy, which is either luxurious or extravagant, but it has never really entered Wen Jiajia's heart to understand her emotions and feelings. And the old clock's reason is also very reluctant: which man who stays at home every day has a future? Which man who does great things outside can chat with his wife and children every night? Later, Wen Jiajia left Laozhong to take care of the children and made a website by herself. She told Lao Zhong that it had nothing to do with money. Wen Jiajia chose a more independent life instead of relying on addiction and losing her life. Wen Jiajia said something that moved me very much. She said, "I'm trying to make my shoulders strong. I may be a little bitter and tired, but I earned every penny and spent it steadily." I think on that day, I am qualified to say to the person I love: Hey, I am ready for love to fall from the sky. What about you? In fact, she made the right choice. At the end of the film, Wen Jiajia and Frank meet again in America and start a brand-new love. Why did Wen Jiajia wait for the old clock, but still left? Because at that time, Wen Jiajia was no longer a gold digger sitting at the gate of Seattle airport with Balenciaga behind her back because the driver was 30 minutes late, nor was she a rich woman who paid double rent to live in a bigger room. She has learned to wash diapers, brush toilets, dry clothes and earn rent by working. I think this change is not only because she met Frank, but more importantly because she experienced the fun of independence and the security of not being attached to anyone. So after breaking up with Lao Zhong, she didn't go to Frank immediately, but opened a website and raised a child by herself. She said: "love is not attachment, love is independence and strength, and then try to come together." "This story is of great reference value. You don't have to care so much about whether he spends money for you. You can become an independent and strong person, and then decide whether to meet the ups and downs of life with this person in front of you. Of course, love is a matter for two people. If you want a man to have both the ability to earn money and plenty of time, you should understand his hard work and difficulty. At the same time, we should also ask ourselves to do better and better, and take good care of others, so that your's feelings can go further. By the way, do you want to buy anything recently? This time, buy it for yourself.