Two years ago, it was quite advantageous for young people to have a house and a car, but the development of society was overwhelming. Now, having a house and a car has changed from an advantage condition to a necessity condition, and having a house without a loan has become a new standard for Linyi people to choose a spouse. Recently, the reporter combed the information of blind date members and found that some members who signed up two years ago did not have houses. From the second half of 20 15 to the present, almost all male members who signed up have houses and cars. In addition to male members, some female members with better family conditions also have houses under their names, but they tend to keep a low profile when dating and generally do not show them to the public. This shows that people's income is going up, or buying a house for their son and helping the whole family. "A house down payment of one million two hundred thousand, marry a daughter-in-law, son how still don't want to. Even if you don't have money, you should get everyone to help you pay together. After all, you have to buy a house. You can't cut prices because you don't have a house. " Aunt Xu, who signed up her son for a blind date, said. However, with the improvement of material conditions, people's mate selection standards are also advancing with the times. Having a house and a car is nothing. After learning that there is a house, we have to ask: Is there a mortgage? This question may have stumped many people. "If the man only pays the down payment and the remaining 20 or 30 years of loans have to be paid back, then life will be too tired. This is not a real house. In the end, he still has to bear a heavy mortgage together. If there is a house without a loan, life will be much easier in the future. " Female member Xiao Qiao said. With the development of the times and the renewal of ideas, the standard of mate selection reflects the degree of social development from one side, and also encourages and spurs people to work hard at a higher level.