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This raiders starts with how you lay the position of the second child in the whole bedroom, how to play during the eleventh year, how to join the student union's general class committee and get promoted step by step, how to apply for a poor student loan with a scholarship, what brand of mobile phone to buy or when Unicom should buy a computer, how to get close to teachers and deal with students, how to write an application for joining the party and get various awards, How to pick up a handsome guy with MM doesn't delay you from getting a scholarship, and it doesn't affect your image as a gentleman and a beautiful girl in the eyes of teachers and classmates ... < P > First, dormitory politics < P > There are four people in a dormitory with good conditions, six in the second place and eight in the second place.

Now, please note that these three people except you will accompany you for four years in college. So, please don't make trouble with your roommates, at least don't have a cold war. Four years of the cold war is a very painful thing, and it is no exaggeration to say that you will die. So when you first come to the dormitory and see someone here (excluding thieves first), please open your mouth and greet first. The content of greeting is usually as follows:

Coming?

here we go.

where?

Urumqi.

oh, do you make mutton kebabs?

hmm. What about you?

Hohhot.

do you have yurts?

not really. now a tall building is built.

...

In a word, it's all nonsense. But the problem is that such nonsense can build feelings. After a while, you will get to know each other. If the other person's parents are here, remember to call them uncles and aunts (if they are the other person's brothers and sisters, please call them brothers and sisters, and so on).

when we first met, the biggest topic was each other's hometown. You can show great interest in his hometown when chatting, and fully show your love and yearning for his hometown, which can fully stimulate his pride and thus produce a good impression on you (please consciously detour).

Take a four-person dormitory as an example, a "boss" usually comes naturally. Note that this boss is not for everyone. Generally speaking, the ways are as follows:

1. The oldest person.

2. The one with the best temper.

3. The person with the simplest personality.

4. others. For example, according to the stroke ranking of surnames, the decision is made by lot, and so on. The landlord has seen the first day of school go to the playground to compare 1 meters to decide who is the boss.

The boss usually becomes the head of the dormitory naturally later, and readers can check the student handbook of your school by themselves. In addition, the boss also has the obligation to be physically attacked and teased by other members of the dormitory unconditionally (of course, all in good faith). Who told you to have a good temper?

so, being a boss is not a good thing. Of course, male bosses are basically new and good men, but there is no market for female bosses.

So, you can strive to be a second child. Take the initiative to chat with other roommates, and don't give people the feeling of indifference. This is the least we can do. When dealing with people from all over the country, we should be familiar with their personalities. Basically as follows:

1. Northeasters. If there is a northeast person in your dormitory, he will be the boss if there is no accident. Northeasters are the easiest people to deal with, and the only way to deal with them is sincerity. Never lie to them, even if it's a joke. Northeasters can be your best friends. 2. Beijingers. Beijingers are basically very talkative. As for personality, it is more elusive, and there is often no certain formula, probably because not all Beijingers are born and bred, but emigrate. So with them, I am not afraid of silence and have nothing to say. As for how to deal with it, it depends on your ability.

3. Other northerners. Take out your high school geography book, which defines the "north": north of Qinling Mountains and Huaihe River, in my place, including Shandong, Shanxi, Shaanxi, Hebei and so on. Their personalities are relatively straightforward and determined, and they are relatively easy to get along with. And generally speaking, they are more mature than southerners. As for Henan and Anhui, they are far south, and their personalities are between the north and the south.

4. Jiangnan people. Including Jiangsu, Zhejiang and Shanghai. The people here are relatively stingy, generally speaking, their families are relatively good, they are relatively indifferent to people, they have their own inviolable fields, and they have things to hold back. So for them, we should pay attention to the details, and never lose big because of small things.

5. Fujian and Guangdong. Fujian and Guangdong are cute, so they don't need any skills to get along with each other.

6. Other southerners, including Hunan, Hubei, Sichuan, Chongqing, Yunnan and Guizhou. Among them, Chongqing people are thicker and straighter, and Sichuan people are relatively soft. I'm not familiar with other areas either. If you are interested, go online and check for yourself.

7. Ethnic minority compatriots. What national beliefs or religious beliefs they have, we must slowly find out in our daily life. In addition, don't talk about nationality when quarreling.

8. others. For example, aliens who are returned from Hong Kong, Macao and Taiwan compatriots, overseas Chinese students ... encounter relatively small chances, so the landlord will not elaborate them here.

In a word, go to the canteen with your roommate to get a new meal card and have a good meal, and then you will be taught all kinds of guests who come to the dormitory and uninvited guests.

second, uninvited guests who come to the dormitory

when you basically solve the problem of moving in, there will be all kinds of uninvited guests and uninvited guests visiting your house. The composition of these guests is as follows:

1. Student cadres and above. They generally come to show their love for freshmen, and there may be students' union cadres, general class committee cadres, grade counselors, teachers, vice presidents, deans, deputy secretaries of hospital party committees, school party secretaries, school leaders, even city leaders, and ministers and deputy prime ministers in charge of education in the State Council. If a UNESCO official comes, please be sure to protect the image of the Chinese people.

2. Salesman. No matter how well prepared you are, there is always something missing in dormitory life. At this time, all kinds of salesmen came into being. They sell everything, such as toothbrushes, towels, bedding, washbasins, electric plug boards, toilets, sanitary appliances, decorations, stationery, televisions, computers, refrigerators and washing machines ... There are two components of the salesman himself, one is the off-campus staff, and the other is the on-campus students. When I was a freshman, I was educated by my brothers and sisters: all the people outside the school were expelled, and the students in the school were warmly received and rationally chosen. These promotional items are all sold by senior students in the small commodity market (it is not excluded that you are a freshman with a particularly business mind, and a classmate of the landlord has just approved a batch of goods when he arrived at the university, earning more than 2, yuan a week), so it is also very hard. Generally speaking, their goods are cheaper than those in supermarkets outside, but the quality is uneven. You should appraise them yourself. If you really don't want it, please kindly say that you don't need it. After all, they are all your brothers and sisters, and they will not look up at a school in the future. Reject the conversation as follows:

Do you smoke?

no.

drink water?

bring your own.

eat fruit?

nausea.

In a word, no matter what you ask, you always say, "Sorry, I already have it, thank you!" When I was a sophomore, a sign hung at the entrance of a freshman dormitory: "Salesmen and dogs are not allowed in." This is too much. Of course, it is also true that salesmen are bored during the orientation period.

3. Students organize propagandists. They are promoting their respective student organizations and bringing you in. Then, it is necessary for you to know what student organizations there are in the school and how their development prospects are, so as to decide your career as an official on campus

Third, one of the official careers on campus-know the student organizations

The student organizations on campus are usually as follows:

1. Including the school students' union and the college students' union at all levels, they are generally directly affiliated to the school youth league Committee or the college youth league Committee.

2. associations. All kinds of associations organized with interest as the starting point usually have a "Association Alliance" (referred to as the Association) above them. In theory, the relationship between the CSU and the societies is equivalent to the relationship between * * * producing countries and countries. Generally speaking, the Social Union and the mass organizations are directly affiliated to the Youth League Committee and are school-level organizations.

There are also associations affiliated to various colleges.

3. Class committee meeting. There are general class committees and small class committees. The general class committee is a college (department) grade student organization, and the small class committee is a class student organization.

4. Students' self-discipline organization. Generally called "Student Self-management Committee" (Student Management Committee), or self-discipline committee, etc. In some schools, the organizational function is replaced by the life department under the student union.

5. others. For example, the school student news center, the school choir, the school martial arts team, the school debate team, the football team, the basketball team and so on.

First of all, we should know the advantages and disadvantages of various student organizations:

Student Union is the ace student organization of universities, the only student organization recognized by any employer, and the first choice for you to join a student organization.

The class committee is the most affordable student organization, always surrounding your immediate boss-grade counselor, joining the Party in grade, and getting outstanding student cadres ... However, all members of the class committee can get the advantage of the grade. To make an inappropriate analogy: the president of the student union of our school is president, and your monitor is the director of the street office where president is located. As the saying goes, you are not afraid of officials, but you are afraid of management. The weight of the general monitor can be imagined.

Associations are the freest student organizations. Small and medium-sized associations are generally semi-independent. If you want to engage in activities, several students can start them together (of course, they have to pass the examination of their superiors, but generally they don't give specific guidance). The head of a big club is no less important than the vice chairman of the student union. The Social Union is a new student organization in recent years, which is juxtaposed with the school student union and directly under the school youth league Committee.

Self-regulatory organizations are the most reviled student organizations. Its work is basically to check the dormitory, check the hygiene and so on. However, some schools' self-regulatory organizations will provide subsidies. Most college students are biased against this kind of organization, and the landlord can't avoid it. My good friend who has the right to speak can come out and supplement it.

other organizations generally don't recruit staff at this time, so you can shine in future activities and try to join, so we won't mention it for the time being, and there will be a special chapter to mention it later.

The student organization structure is as follows:

The student organization structure at the school level and college (department) level is usually like this-

Presidium (including a chairman and several vice-chairmen; Some also include an assistant to the chairman)

Minister (the chief executive of various functional departments, such as the Propaganda Department, the Office, the Practice Department, the International Liaison Department, etc.)

Deputy Minister (the deputy chief executive of various functional departments)

Officer (the bottom staff of various functional departments)

The student organization is relatively simple in structure, just like primary schools, junior high schools and senior high schools: < p

Small class leader, small class secretary

Small classes with various functions

There are hundreds of student cadres in a school. Walking on campus, you can pick up a brick and throw it out, and you can kill a student cadre. In such a dime a dozen positions, you should polish your eyes, choose the position that suits you and start your career on campus.

fourth, the second campus career-choose a student organization that suits you

to choose a student organization that suits you, please make a comprehensive evaluation of yourself first. Try to answer two questions by yourself:

1. Should I join a student organization?

2. Why should I join a student organization?

to answer the first question, we have to start with the benefits of joining a student organization. Joining a student organization has at least the following advantages:

1. Take the opportunity to get laid. For example, if you have a girl you like very much and happen to be in a student organization, you might as well join, and the two of them will suddenly become colleagues from ordinary classmates, and it will naturally become a good thing to get along with each other. If the girl didn't participate in any student organization and usually stayed in the dormitory all day to study how to attack the Empire State Building, you can also join the school management committee and organize several dormitory hygiene inspections to patronize the girl's dormitory. After a while, she will definitely remember you deeply, and then love will be born from hate, which is also very romantic.

2. The advantage of being close to the water gives the moon first. There are many opportunities to win honors by joining student organizations. For example, every college student organization allocates a number of "promotion" places every semester (recommending outstanding league members as the development target of the party). Suppose there are 4 students in a class and 4 outstanding league members are elected each semester, and the probability of winning is only 1%; And if you are a student union minister, and eight ministers get two promotion places, your chances of winning are as high as 25%. The biggest advantage is that you can push it in class first; If you can't push it, you can walk from the student union. If you learn probability well in high school, you can calculate the probability. The landlord has already returned it to the teacher.

3. You can get some awards organized by students. If you plan to take part in some competitions in your school-for example, when you go to the toilet on the fourth floor of the third teaching building in your school, you see a yellowed notice posted on the wall:

4. Get acquainted. I think this is the biggest benefit of joining a student organization. After four years in college, don't be naive enough to think that every teacher can call out your name. It's impossible. Thank God that your counselor can recognize every student in four years. Therefore, if you join a student organization, you will have the opportunity to get acquainted with the teachers and students in our college and establish your own interpersonal network. In college, many things are decided by democratic voting, such as joining the party. If your classmates don't know who you are, how can they vote for you? After the democratic vote, the teacher has to make the final decision. If your teacher knows you, things will be much smoother.

5. Exercise your ability and broaden your horizons. Never think that this is empty talk. The student organization in the university is highly independent, so it will exercise your ability to do things. Plus, most of the prominent figures in the student organization are dragons and phoenixes among the people, so it won't do you any harm to know them more. In addition, if you don't want to limit your communication to your own class and want to go out of college to the whole school, joining a student organization is undoubtedly the best way.

the second question is about your ability. To join a student organization, the most basic requirement is dedication-being practical and willing to work. The second is to have certain ability. The functional departments of student organizations require different abilities. Some are technical jobs, such as: Sports Department, Propaganda Department, Network Department, Editorial Department … Others can do everything, such as: Activities Department, Practice Department, External Relations Department, Office … Will joining these departments have different effects on your future promotion? Generally speaking, it is not.

Technical departments require you to have practical skills, such as painting or calligraphy from the Propaganda Department, computer operation from the Network Department, writing from the Editorial Department, and being covered in pimples from the Sports Department ... There are exceptions, of course. Carrying exhibition boards and putting up posters from the Propaganda Department is a relatively low-tech job.

Non-technical departments require some virtual abilities, such as organization and coordination ability, public relations ability, etc., which are popular with people for a long time. If you don't have special talents, you can join these departments.

the question is, although there are many student organizations, how can I join them? Five, the third campus career-how to join a student organization

Now you should have a student organization you want to join, right? If not, the suggestions are as follows:

Join a student union (school student union or college student union), join a class committee, and join a society (or social association). Don't add more, there was a brother who got talent,