If the relationship between husband and wife breaks down, both parties can agree to divorce. Real estate belongs to pre-marital purchase and should belong to personal pre-marital property. However, in the part of repayment after marriage, although the individual is repaying, the repayment funds should belong to the joint property of husband and wife, so the part of repayment after marriage belongs to the joint property of husband and wife; The deposits under the names of both parties belong to the joint property of husband and wife, and are divided by the husband and wife at the time of divorce; The debt for decoration and residence should belong to the joint debt of husband and wife, which should be shared by both husband and wife; When a husband and wife divorce, the child's custody right needs to be determined according to the factors such as the husband and wife's work, income, family support, housing, and the size and living conditions of the child. According to what you said, it is more likely that the child will be raised by you. It is suggested that both parties negotiate for divorce. If the two parties fail to reach an agreement, one party can prepare divorce litigation materials and sue for divorce in the court where the other party lives.