You should have your own house when you get married, but your wife married you before marriage because you didn't have a house. I don't think she likes your house, but your people have more potential for her. Now, if I were you, I would borrow some money from my relatives and friends to pay the down payment and solve the house. If you can't save money to buy a house, if you borrow money to buy a house, your wife will be just like you. This is also your motivation to live a good life. I wish you happiness.