Your family is right to be cautious. Your boyfriend asked you to borrow money to buy a house. First of all, you can only write your own name on the real estate license, and you can't add a boyfriend. After all, to be safe, you can only write your name. In addition, if you want to add your boyfriend's name, you should figure out how to divide the house in case you break up. You may go to court and consider the problem comprehensively. Even if the relationship is good, it will not be as low as the years have changed.