1. If you have a belief that you don't deserve to be loved, you will attract people who reflect your belief by treating you badly into your life. 2. if you firmly believe that you can't do it and have no ability, your body will carry out your orders and close its potential to realize it? Can't do it, no ability? . I'll never find the perfect partner. ? Resist the idea of a perfect partner; ? Am I not a difficult person to get along with? If this sentence is repeated enough, it will make you have a difficult personality. If you criticize yourself and constantly attack yourself with your own thoughts, you will attract people who reflect this trait, and they will belittle you and even physically attack you. 5. People who live in the applause of others can't stand the test; Living in the eyes of others will always be their slave; People who rely on others are equivalent to breaking their wings and not feeling the joy of flying. Before you get serious, you must try to aim at the direction with wisdom. Going to the north and the south will only waste time. 7. Wisdom must serve conscience. Science must serve morality. Emotion must be inspired by wisdom to turn into true love, and wisdom must inject emotion to turn into great wisdom. The level of evolution is the level of wisdom and love, which is the combination of wisdom and emotion. The correct evolution must be? The balance between love and wisdom, morality and science, spirit and matter? 8. One of the laws of the universe: what you give others will be rewarded twice, and what you give others is a smile, help, money, wisdom, health, deception, bad words and harm. Everything is like this, and the result will only be different because of the different hearts. Great wisdom and goodness, obscurity, fruitful; Wisdom is gained and lost by doing good deeds, waiting for the result; Xiao Zhi lost a lot by doing good deeds and paying off debts. 9. The Book of Changes talked about the house of goodness, so there must be Qing Yu; If you accumulate a bad house, there will be more disasters. 10. Buddhists want to know the cause of past lives, and the recipients of this life are; If you want to know the afterlife, the author of this life is. 1 1. Taoism says that there is no way for good and evil, people call themselves, and the report of good and evil is like a shadow. People should not be guilty, and there are gods holding their heads three feet high; Good and evil are rewarded, but they come early and come late. 12. The first point of success is to think about how to get benefits from others, not how to get benefits from others. If you benefit others, you won't fail. Long-term success is not calculated by the authorities, but natural.

13. Learning skills is small wisdom, and learning to be a person is great wisdom; Look down on fame and fortune and pay attention to the soul. Mind is the master, fame and fortune is the ornament. 14. Some rich people have mountains of wealth but no wisdom. They sleep on high beds and soft pillows and eat delicious food, but their hearts are full of longing, fear and pain. If one day, wealth, fame and fortune suddenly leave them, everything in life suddenly falls apart, or they can no longer bear the invisible pressure and can't fill their desires and emptiness with material and vanity, they may choose to commit suicide. Therefore, we should learn to improve our wisdom and realm, not be influenced by external things, learn to see through and let go of wisdom, and know that it is not from material and fame that our hearts are truly rich and happy. 15. Don't do it with small evils, don't do it with small goodness; The most precious wealth in the world is human kindness, and the smallest kindness is higher than the greatest kindness. 16. People should not completely ignore the source of food just for their own appetite. It is the best behavior to sublimate your mind to stipulate a few days a month or spend half your time vegetarian. 17. We are all pursuing happiness. Ordinary people try to fill their desires with materials to get satisfaction, but these things can never be filled. Limited things can never fill infinite space. Our desires are infinite, and the feelings brought by material things are limited. Whether we can live happily depends on our hearts, not whether the environment is comfortable. If our happiness is based on material things, then material desires. The exile of desire is the root of all pain and depravity. All happiness is based on satisfaction. Learn to be satisfied and happiness will follow. 18. Sincere repentance is the best way for human beings to clean up the dirt of their hearts. At the same time, it is also a good way to eliminate chronic diseases, terminal diseases and disasters. Gratitude and blessing are the deepest and fastest energy that can stimulate positive emotions in human hearts! Forgiveness is the best way for human beings to get rid of internal and external obstacles. 19. Thank the person who hurt you, because he honed your mood; Thank the person who cheated you, because he improved your knowledge; Thank the person who abandoned you, because he taught you to stand on your own feet; Thank the person who tripped you, because he strengthened your ability; Be grateful to the person who blames you, because he has increased your wisdom. 20. To be a great man, a saint and a saint, there is no other way but to make yourself pure and profound. The only way is to keep that person in your heart and know yourself. 2 1. Even if you read thousands of books, no matter how much knowledge you have accumulated, even if you are called a walking dictionary, even if you have traveled all over the world, you don't know your own heart and nature, and you are not called a wise man. On the contrary, those who know their own hearts well, treat their hearts deeply, know themselves clearly and surrender to their hearts are called wise men, even if they are ignorant, narrow-minded and ignorant. 22. Life has not failed. Those seemingly failures, setbacks and misfortunes are actually things that make your soul shine, and they are grindstones that make your soul shine. It is not that there is no pain and difficulty in this world, but that there is no pain for the sake of pain. Only pain and suffering are allowed to exist as grindstones. Pain and difficulties are grindstones, sandpapers and files, which can polish the soul and make it shine. Through these tempering, our souls will shine like diamonds. 23. Most people worry too much about their appearance. I am troubled by the topic of being tall, thin and ugly every day. People should worry that their hearts are not beautiful and pure enough. If the heart is beautiful and natural. If the heart is not beautiful, the eyes will not be beautiful. If the heart is chaotic, if the heart is turbid, the eyes will become dim and full of evil. Eyes can also say sinister thoughts. If the heart is not right, the corners of the mouth will be distorted. Those who often satirize, laugh at and criticize others will become sharp and distorted. Become such a nasty mouth corner. A man with inner anxiety is manifested in his behavior. Those who often accuse and torture others will also have corresponding postures and behaviors. 24. How to treat strangers and friends You can't know a person's true face, but only how to treat benefactors and elders can the country see his profound character and personality.

25. People are not a family, they don't enter a house, where they are reincarnated, and what family they are, all for a reason. If you want to have children who are kind, filial and easy to take care of, then turn yourself into a cultured and moral person. How often do parents attract their children to be born? What kind of family do children go to because of good news? Don't blame their parents for their misfortune. Many people don't know the truth. 26. People who can't be cured have something in common: they don't believe that the world has the power to cure them, but they actually prevent the sun from entering; God helps those who help themselves. 27. Before arguing with others or having a passive debate, I must first ask myself what my original intention is. Will this help me improve my life value? If you just want to impose your ideas on others, or just because of one breath, it's just a waste of time and make yourself more ignorant. 28. A big fight must mean that both of them are fools, because at least one smart person won't quarrel. Some things need two hands to make a sound. 29. We should know how to put ourselves in others' shoes and think from others' point of view, whether for family, friends or customers. This is the basis for making your life better. 30. A thousand dollars of wealth must be a thousand dollars figure. If you don't have the mind and measure to carry things, it's not for you. 3 1. If you feel guilty, you will try to make yourself have nothing (destroy what you have, or make things unsuccessful in the future). The biggest way to overcome guilt is to forgive me and forgive myself. I was a child then! Don't hate yourself, don't look down on yourself. Try to admit and accept your dark side. Accept each side of yourself, embrace your dark side like light, and then integrate your two sides. What you resist, what you will insist on; What you are waiting to see will disappear. You can't love others if you don't love yourself. 32. Three words of conscience: Be good to your parents, because they are your Buddha; Cultivate your children well, because they are your hope; Get along well with others, because you eat fireworks. 33. Five words of self-confidence: Don't care about trifles; Don't worry about money; Don't be shrouded in greed; Don't be troubled by emotions; Don't compare with others. 34. Don't be deceived by your eyes, and don't be deceived by your ears. Seeing is not necessarily true, and hearing is not necessarily true. We live in appearances, and this appearance is only a small part of the world. Behind the world of mortals and the hustle and bustle of Vientiane, there is a bigger, more real and more wonderful world, which needs us to see, understand, experience and share with our hearts. The so-called intention is to calm down. As long as you are calm, you will see a different world. 35. It is wisdom to keep a low profile. Those who rely on talent and pride will destroy themselves, and those who are open-minded will benefit; Showing off your tongue is not much, but thinking carefully is less risky; Arrogance leads to disaster, and low-key can make you famous; Pursue fame and fortune, be impetuous, stay away from right and wrong, and cultivate yourself; Going straight is easy to hurt people, and protecting yourself for your own sake; Be criticized in big strides and win people's hearts by retreating; If you can't let go, it's hard for you to do anything, but you can bend, stretch and twist. If your fingers are dirty, you don't need to cut them off. If the hat is small, there is no need to cut the head small; Prove whether the eggs have gone bad, you don't have to eat them all; Tomorrow's sun will not rise because of your disappointment; The moon will not stop coming tonight because of your complaints; Blindfold your eyes doesn't mean the world is dark, and blindfold others doesn't mean the light belongs to you. See the world clearly, but also see yourself clearly.

37. Peace-loving people live long. They live in peace and let others live in peace. Those who are calm not only live long, but also live well. One life is equal to two lives. This is the greatest advantage of being calm. Listen more, watch more and be more careful. If you don't struggle during the day, you can sleep peacefully at night. If you don't care about trivial things, you will have everything. The stupidest thing is to take everything seriously. When it's none of your business, leave it alone; It's about yourself, don't haggle over every ounce. Everything goes well, and everything goes well. 38. True friendship is not rhetoric, but a hand that holds your hand at a critical moment. Friends who walk around you all day and make you a little happy are not necessarily real friends. And those who seem far away, but actually pay attention to you all the time, will not flatter you when you are happy; A true friend is someone who silently pays for you and cares for you when you need it. 39. Knowing a person depends on fate, understanding a person depends on patience, conquering a person depends on wisdom, and living in harmony depends on tolerance. When you are in trouble, never leaving is a timely help. When you are stable, it is a pity not to leave. When you are proud, never giving up is the icing on the cake. 40. Life is just a math problem where one plus one equals one. A dream plus an effort equals a harvest, a friend plus a care equals a happiness, a lesson plus an experience equals a growth, and a confidence plus a journey equals a success. 4 1. Girls don't care if you have money, what she cares about is whether you will try to change the status quo; A girl doesn't care that you will encounter difficulties when you live with her. What she cares about is whether you will meet the difficulties. A girl doesn't care how romantic you are, what she cares about is whether she can feel your love from every bit of life; Girls don't care about your present situation, what she cares about is whether you can let her see your future. 42. People who have no sense of urgency muddle along. When they encounter twists and turns in life, the blows they encounter are often devastating. The so-called ignorant people are helpless, sad and pitiful. If it is understandable that a girl of 15 or 16 is young and ignorant, then it is your fault if you are twice as old as a teenage girl and as naive as a decade ago, and your emotional intelligence has not improved significantly. 43. "Without this world, is there another world?" And "if you escape from this life, how can there be an afterlife?" Watching the world turn, people only have one life, and it will soon become a thing of the past. Draw a leaf for life, seize the moment of life, dispel the fog of life, learn to appreciate the barren wilderness along the way, and let the hidden love and wisdom reflect warmth and beauty. -Ye Han Rui 44. You must have a root in your heart to blossom and bear fruit; If you have a wish in your heart, you can achieve your career; You must have inner reason to travel around the world; If you have a Lord in your heart, you can be real; There must be virtue in the heart to accommodate everything; You have to have a way in your heart to have everything. 45. The more desires a person has, the narrower his mind becomes; The less desire, the broader the mind. People's mentality, more desire is busy, less desire is idle. Too many thoughts and desires are risky, and too few desires are dull. People's troubles, if they want more, they will be worried, and if they want less, they will be happy. A person's heart is full of desire, but he is timid, but he just lacks desire. 46. True love is used to inspire. How wide is the space you create, how wide is the space for love. True love is driven. The longer you run, the longer love will last. True love is for burning. How brilliant life is, how brilliant love is. True love needs bedding. How far you can go, love will pave the way for you. 47. Get up every morning and tell yourself to work hard. Even if you can't see the future, even if you can't see the hope, you still believe in yourself. Forget all your troubles and spend every day happily. No, all of it, now or never. From now on, I will no longer expect anything but cherish what I have. 48. Being alive is a state of mind. If you feel happy, happiness is everywhere. If you lament for yourself, the world will be gloomy. Very, don't listen; Unfortunately, interdependence, let nature take its course. Do more good deeds, and happiness will come near; Most of them are evil, but disasters are far away. Not extravagant, the heart is easy to settle down; If you don't hurry, it's all over. A small heart can't hold ants, but a broad chest can hold hundreds of rivers. Prosperity is indifferent, adversity is calm. Those who belittle themselves are humiliated, those who are self-reliant and self-reliant are knowledgeable and versatile, and those who are humble benefit. 49. The heart of conscience is the heart of a gentleman, the heart of elegance and integrity, and the heart of keeping calm in times of crisis. The politics of a gentleman is a superb and practical art, while the politics of a villain is a ridiculous performance. How to be a gentleman? Have a bright heart. How to have a bright heart? Think deeply, grasp comprehensively, convince yourself, and have a peaceful mind. 50. Hidden intentions can be used, but they cannot be abused, especially not revealed. All intelligent cutting techniques must be covered up, because they will arouse suspicion; This is especially true for hidden intentions, because they are annoying. Fraud is common, so be careful. But you can't let people know your defensive mentality, otherwise people may not trust you. People will feel hurt if they know you are on guard, but they will seek revenge and cause unexpected disasters. Think twice before you do anything, and you will always benefit a lot. It is best to reflect deeply on this matter. Whether a plan can achieve satisfactory results depends on the means to realize the action.