So you don't know the pressure of men. Few mortgages have been paid off in recent years, let alone mortgages. Many car loans also take a long time. People are getting married (don't say it's for you, or you'll say it again, it's not what you asked), so you're worried about your future life. Really can't. You can ask the house not to write your name and not to repay the loan. You can even directly say that you want a person with a house and no loans, and divorce.

Secondly, life is not a vast continent, with ups and downs. You haven't heard the stories of those billionaires. When starting a business, it is not difficult, how much debt you owe, and finally. If you go to work as safely as you think, you will only pay the mortgage for life.

You just got married. To tell the truth, few people even buy a house with their families in full and always borrow money. This is the initial difficulty. However, people can also work, and work can change their lives. How do you know he will never move forward?

You are not required to create income and improve your living environment like him. At least, you're not thinking about saving. The accumulation of wealth depends on creation. Look at the multimillionaires who tell you how much you saved today and how much you saved tomorrow.

On the other hand, you can see that you don't like him very much. The purpose of your marriage is to find someone who can take care of your food and clothing, or rely on it. You can even think that if someone gives you a wink one day, you will go with him and be desperate.

If life is not for two people, then end it before it begins. Don't worry about such a thing. I believe there are many people in this world who don't have to consider loans. Efforts can still be found. It's just, at that time, were you, once again, unable to be together all day, not gentle at all, bored alone, and so on.