Of course not. Break up quickly. You know, when two people are together, apart from falling in love, the most important thing is to agree. From your introduction, you two obviously have different views. First of all, two people are together mainly because of love, not because of the house or other money. He just said what he thought and felt sorry for his parents, which also proved that he didn't love you so much, at least not as much as his parents. If you get married, if you have a conflict with his parents in the future, then he will definitely not understand your difficulties, and it will be you who will be hurt.
Secondly, he said it was easy to have a daughter's home, so why not say that he wanted to have a child with his mother's surname in the future? Many times we still follow this traditional culture, and we don't have to buy a house at the man's house. You can feel sorry for your parents, but ignore the hard work of your wife and her parents. This is selfishness. What's the point of marrying such a person?
Finally, marriage can't just look at money. Talking about money can best see the essence of a person.