Alcohol not only causes some physical diseases and damages the functions of various organs, but also belongs to psychoactive substances. In the case of excessive intake, it can activate the reward behaviors of the brain, thus strengthening these behaviors and generating memories.
Long-term abuse of alcohol will lead to dependence, mental and physical dependence, while sudden withdrawal will lead to obvious withdrawal reaction, especially the extreme thirst for alcohol. Physical manifestations are palpitation, shaking hands, sweating, irritability, and in severe cases, tremor and epilepsy may occur.
Alcohol-dependent patients will do whatever it takes to get alcohol, and even cheat their families. Alcohol consumption will gradually increase,
At the beginning, drinking is usually social drinking. Drinking at this time is for entertainment and communication. Alcohol sometimes plays an auxiliary role, which can increase a person's expression ability. Although drinking can make people feel uncomfortable and sometimes make people lose their temper, it is within the normal range. After waking up, a person's basic life is as usual.
With the gradual increase of drinkers' alcohol consumption, it is difficult to regain the pleasure at the beginning of social drinking. Therefore, drinkers began to gradually increase their drinking. After being drunk, he became excited and irritable, and even impulsively hit his family. When they woke up, they apologized and regretted it. In this painful cycle, they continue to sink. By this time, his family had discovered his abnormality and he became thinner. He doesn't like food, he doesn't drink and he has a bad temper.
In the end, alcohol has become everything in the hearts of drinkers. When he wakes up in the morning, he will look for alcohol at first sight. At this time, he has completely turned into a hard-working alcohol. Some people even drink from morning till night, and alcohol has become his only food. The drinker's body is getting thinner and thinner, on the verge of collapse, and his work life becomes a mess. Stomach bleeding and cirrhosis have gradually climbed onto the body of the drinker. In severe cases, he may even have delirium tremens, which is both an obstacle to consciousness and an obstacle. More likely, he died before he could get to the hospital.
Alcohol addiction is not only physical dependence, but also psychological dependence. Physical dependence can be gradually replaced by drugs, gradually reduced, and finally quit physical dependence. However, alcoholics drink a lot. Why?
Psychoanalysis believes that addiction is a desire for stable dependence and happiness, because in reality they do not have satisfactory living conditions and stable relationships, and alcohol gives them a false harbor in which they hide and seek comfort and treatment.
This is an important factor of alcohol addiction, which leads to repeated abstinence and can no longer drink. Only by solving psychological dependence can drinkers really get rid of alcohol. Addicts need to focus on him, let his changes come from the heart, and tell him that "the key to change is in their own hands."
The first step is to increase the harm of drinkers to alcohol and let drinkers write down the advantages and disadvantages of drinking; In this way, the harm of drinkers to alcohol is more intuitive, and the motivation of patients to quit drinking is stimulated.
The second step is to find the motivation of drinkers to drink. Usually, addicts hope to relieve their pressure and dissatisfaction by drinking, or cover up their shortcomings. We need to find these reasons and help patients realize that alcohol is not the only way to solve the problem. Alcohol can't control itself. Drinking is like stealing a clock. You can only deceive yourself. Only by choosing the right attitude and way to treat life can a stable relationship and happiness last for a long time.
The third step is family support. Many family members actually don't know enough about alcohol dependence, or think it is a mental problem and are ashamed to hide or ignore it. Another reason is that the personality changes of addicts after drinking gradually push their families far away, and some families may let them die. But abstinence needs the support and encouragement of family members, as well as the encouragement and support of alcohol addicts, so don't give up easily.
Drinking has now become a habit of many people, especially some elderly people. Drinking two or two glasses of wine every day makes me feel particularly comfortable.
I have a relative from the countryside who worked in a brick factory in his early years. Because of a mistake at work, his eyes were injured, so he retired. He was less than 35 years old when he retired. After returning home, I have a little pension, and my economic conditions in rural areas are not bad.
But after his eyes failed, he developed a bad habit. Drink every meal. Basically, you need a catty of white wine a day, and the staple food is very few, so you are particularly picky about food when you eat it.
Small workshops in rural areas like him very much, and they sell him the original pulp every time they make wine. According to the brewer, that kind of wine is 70 degrees puree.
This relative of mine has a specialty. He can observe the quality of animals. Anyone who wants to buy livestock in Shiliba Township there will be invited to visit him, and he often goes out to sell livestock. The most famous time I drove a mule car out of the house, fell asleep after drinking, and the mule car took him home!
Later, because of drinking for a long time, my hands shook when I saw people talking, and I had a stroke, which led to crooked mouth and crooked eyes. Moreover, the doctor gave an ultimatum. If you drink it again, it is estimated that your life will not last long.
My aunt and cousin threw away all his wine and refused to let him drink it. A few days later, he went to a small shop in the village to buy wine to drink, because he was afraid that people would basically do it in twos and threes. And go to the grocery store to drink several times a day.
Later, my aunt found that the store was selling wine to him, so she went to the door to fight with people. The small shops in the village were afraid to sell wine to him. He went to a neighboring village to drink, and then he ran farther and farther for drinking. He had a cerebral infarction when he came home, and now he has been paralyzed after being rescued!
Physiologically, alcohol can make people produce neurotransmitters such as dopamine. A sick person, the neurotransmitter in the body is unbalanced, resulting in physiological needs.
Emotionally: Dopamine can relieve mood.
Psychology: I saw someone say that they told their friends to drink, not to drink alone. Calling a friend is a confirmation of interpersonal relationship. Represents the need for recognition of a group. So maybe it's a sense of value. Prove that you are still valuable, not a patient.
If a person drinks secretly and drinks alone, it may be to alleviate the pain. Of course, there are psychological factors. Need more materials
With more materials, there may be more analysis.
Actually, I suggested that he find a counselor. Know his heart.
It shows that this person has poor self-control ability and is more willful. This person's psychology is generally like this. He will drink on the last day today, and he will not drink tomorrow. But I can't help drinking.
I'm glad to answer your question.
A person knows that he is sick and can't drink, but he drinks secretly. This man is not trying to commit suicide. What is the reason? What are the psychological reasons?
1, poor self-control. Knowing that he can't drink and steal, it can be seen that he can't resist the temptation of wine. Drinking is a habit, and you can't refuse alcohol addiction.
2, may have their own life motto: you can't do what you like, you might as well die. People can't do whatever they want when they are alive. What is the point of living? This may also be an excuse to want to drink. Who doesn't want to live? There is a good saying: life is better than death.
3, boiled frogs in warm water, can not see the danger, feel that stealing to drink once or twice, occasionally drinking a little, there will be no big problem. I don't see any danger. Slowly, slowly, when there is a big problem at last, it is too late to rebound again.
Have the courage and determination to refuse, resist bad temptations, and have a sense of crisis.
He has a deep sense of powerlessness and despair.
Knowing that you are seriously ill, you should drink if you can't. There are only two possibilities.
First, alcohol can temporarily relieve his illness pain, or temporarily forget the pain, because he is afraid that his family will be sad and his family will stop him from drinking.
The second possibility is that he drank too much and couldn't help stealing for fear that his family would see him.
Both possibilities show that he doesn't have much desire to survive. If he cherished his life, they wouldn't do it. This is a sign of muddling along, as long as he feels better today, no matter what tomorrow will be like.
What should I do as a family? If it can't be cured, let him drink well, which will reduce the pain. But if there is any hope of a cure, we should stop him. Qi Xinhui helped him recover!
My friend suffered from severe liver disease, was hospitalized for four or five times, and had a tube inserted in his back to drain water. He is thin, but he just can't give up drinking. If it's a little better, just steal it. The daughter-in-law can't control him, and neither can his parents help him. The most straightforward thing his parents said was: if you drink any more, you will die! But he wouldn't listen and drank. The whole process of drinking is a vicious circle.
Such people drink even if they know that they are seriously ill. That's because he has alcohol dependence, or alcohol addiction. If he doesn't drink for a while, he will feel uncomfortable all over. This kind of person is actually quite annoying. He often makes up all kinds of lies to trick his friends into drinking, and his family will be troubled by his drinking problem. It is also difficult for such people to be friends. He was still angry when you told him not to drink. If you don't persuade him, he still doesn't feel like a friend. In short, once such people reach this point, they will become fragrant and smelly, no matter good or bad. To say what he did it for, it is one word: "greed".
This is his life. He doesn't care about himself. He lives in the present, and his hard-won life should be cherished.
I want to die knowing that it is harmful to my health to buy wine with money. This kind of person is dead, like a dead dog, and no one will pity him or her. I know many such people. Some of them are crazy about drinking and doing nothing, and they also beat their wives and children's homes. They also hit people everywhere to make trouble. Not long ago, several lunatics died of brain congestion due to drinking, and some half-dead dragged down their families. It is best to die early.