As a boyfriend and girlfriend, if your boyfriend is in trouble, you can lend him money once or twice for an emergency, as long as it is within your tolerance. Appropriate encouragement is necessary. Encourage him, give him some trust, help him analyze the reasons why he can't find a job, whether it is because he is ambitious or incompetent, and then find a solution by making a correct assessment of his ability. If he doesn't return it, you can sue.