Although money is not the whole of love, it plays an important role in marriage.
It is not impossible to get married, but you must have another economic plan.
How long does it take to get a mortgage? Do you want to have children after paying off the mortgage? And if you have children, how much do you need for milk powder, baby products, moonshine and the like? How much nutrition do you have? What's their salary? If a child is born, how much will his parents compensate? Does his brother need your husband and wife to sponsor his tuition? Wait, all these questions should be considered.
Because women are not the best childbearing age after 30 years old, it is not the general economic pressure to repay the mortgage to raise children now. With an annual salary of more than 200,000, I dare not even think about it.