The first behavior: never care about the feelings of your lover, always focus on your own feelings and interests. Although many people care about personal interests, the interests of relatives around you are also closely related to you. What's more, couples and couples are close to each other. Love rat always cares about his personal thoughts and feelings, and never cares about his lover's behavior and feelings. For example, Xiao Wang and Xiao Chen are a very loving couple. After they got married, Xiao Wang criticized Xiao Chen everywhere, not only complaining that Xiao Chen brought too many things back to her family, but also asking Xiao Chen to reduce the number of visits to her family. The two often quarrel about money and goods. Although Xiao Wang always apologized after the end, he never made a huge change. What's more, Xiao Wang often gambles with money. Xiao Chen couldn't convince her, so she had to choose a divorce.
The second behavior: never take the initiative to warn your lover of your whereabouts. Some good men in the family report their whereabouts and location to their lovers at any time when they go out. On the one hand, these high-quality boys are afraid that their lovers' whimsy will affect their very loving relationship. On the other hand, these good men always want to leave the best of themselves to the people they love the most. They never go to awkward places. They let their lovers know their whereabouts. Love rat always portrays hiding his whereabouts as a secret between two people. There is not much mystery in life, and we will all return to our families. If you marry love rat, you will never know each other's behavior and whereabouts. He never tells you where he is going before he goes out. It's not that love rat didn't want to take the initiative to admit that he was dating another woman, but he was afraid that his lover at home would be sad and jealous, so he deliberately concealed his whereabouts.
The third behavior: endless abuse and domestic violence Dear female friends, will you encounter abuse and domestic violence from your lover? When a female friend encounters such behavior, don't deliberately put up with each other's behavior for the sake of family. Your patience will only encourage each other's domestic violence, not to mention that domestic violence is only zero-sum and countless times. I once met a terrible thing. My friend married his favorite boy. After five years of marriage, they went in and out together, keeping the sweet taste of love. However, the man's temperament changed greatly because of unemployment, and the woman encouraged him to find a job again. However, the man could never accept the fact that he was unemployed, which eventually led to domestic violence against the woman. The most serious time, the woman was beaten by the man with uterine bleeding. It's not that the woman's friends didn't persuade the girl to get out of her misery, but that the woman is always unwilling to believe that the man she once loved deliberately hurt herself. What's more, there is a child between two people, which becomes an endless relationship between two people. Never believe that love rat can turn over a new leaf. They are all scum.