When getting married, my mother-in-law wants to buy gold ornaments for her daughter-in-law, usually platinum or something. If the conditions at home are all right, both sides should do their own things, but important relatives should still be invited. As for what to give, it generally depends on the family circumstances. 1. Ask the matchmaker to propose marriage and ask the woman how much bride price she wants {but the bride price should be brought to the man in the dowry box, and the woman's family should put the same money as the man's bride price in the dowry box at the same time, but put the money in the four corners of the box. 2. If the woman's house is in good condition, she can also pay for the decoration. After all, after marriage, the two are one, and the debts still have to be paid, and both of them are responsible. 3. Prepare red envelopes for children and some things in the new house (quilts, things on the table, etc.).