One of my classmates is also my friend. His life experience is relatively poor. He lost his father when he was young, his mother remarried and grew up with his grandparents. His grandmother passed away a few years ago. So no one cares, one can play as he wants, spend as he wants to earn some money, spend with credit cards and so on. Later, I couldn't get it! I can only borrow it from all my friends. Borrowed 5000 yuan from me and haven't paid it back yet!

It doesn't matter to be alone at first. I went to Xinjiang last year, got a girlfriend and got pregnant. And insisted on giving birth to the baby. Now he is in a hurry, and there are too many places to spend money. I can't borrow it anywhere, and I'm anxious to find a job everywhere. I borrowed money from me the other day, and my hotel business just closed down, so I didn't borrow it.

It is estimated that he hit a wall everywhere and felt a lot. He sent the following passage in a circle of friends: In the past, a person had money, just the difference between eating steamed bread and eating beef. Now that I have a wife and children, I know how pitiful and humble it is to have no money.

There is a boy who lives in junior high school and senior high school and can only go home once every two weeks. His family is poor and has no money to buy food. He brought some pickles with less oil from home. Even this kind of food is often used by tall students to cook the next meal, so he often eats until he has no food.

Always worry about food after cooking. A person, lonely, very lonely. Those days without food … even caused constipation, and were finally laughed at by classmates … those unforgettable days. It is difficult for ordinary people to feel the humbleness brought by poverty.

The same boy fell in love with a girl from elementary school to junior high school. Although the boy has been studying well, he is not confident because he is poor. He never dared to say a word to his beloved girl, but he could only pay silent attention to her every move from a distance. That should be the legendary secret love.

Later, boys were admitted to famous universities, and girls were admitted to normal schools, and gradually they had exchanges. Every letter from the girl, every friendship ... The boy was ecstatic. However, the boy's family is still poor. Seeing that girls fall in love with others, boys are even less confident to confess. In fact, his heart is bleeding.

After graduating from college, both sides worked. Girls know the love of boys, but after falling in love again, they send a merciless farewell letter to boys, "Don't bother me with coquettish", which is incredible! Boys are desperate ... poor, and love is so humble.

Don't ask that boy if it's me.

Poverty can really make people ugly and humble, maybe for survival, maybe. ...

When I go to school, I borrow money from people I don't know.

I remember once at school, I lost my wallet and lost all my living expenses for one month. The friends around me are the kind of people who spend all their money very early. I was really worried at that time, because I was introverted and I didn't know anyone except a few good classmates.

So I began to borrow money from an unfamiliar fellow villager, which was really embarrassing because I had seen it once. At that time, there was really no way, so I asked, and my heart was particularly uncomfortable. One is a stranger, and the other is that I don't contact anyone at ordinary times. It is rude and snobbish for me to borrow money from others as soon as I open my mouth. I have been refused to borrow money by several classmates. This is an attitude of holding a dead horse as a living horse doctor.

I was touched that the man lent me money, because he gave me twice as much money as he borrowed. It's a little humble to borrow money this time. I'm very cautious.

Start a business and borrow money from girls

I worked outside for a year after graduation, and I didn't make any progress. I often wonder what I want at work. I feel that going to work is like wasting time and youth, repeating the same thing every day, and the company atmosphere is not good.

So I came up with the idea of starting a business. At that time, I was a moonlight clan, and my salary was simply not enough. I have no plans for the future. Starting a business definitely needs money. I knew I was popular, so I asked several people to lend me money, but it was not enough.

I don't know why, but I always feel uncomfortable to borrow money from someone I haven't contacted for a long time or I'm not familiar with. But starting a business is definitely hard money, which is one of them. I made a lot of calls and was rejected by many people. Sometimes I really feel that this humanity is untested.

I usually have a good time, but things change when it comes to money. Just like my grandson, I have moral support, advice and opposition without borrowing money, but I will go on.

Later, I asked a girl to borrow money. Maybe life will really make you grow. I told myself before that I must not borrow money from girls. I broke it that time. This is that poverty can make you humble, let you put down your dignity and face, and let you grow up.

Poverty will make you want to commit suicide.

I remember once listening to a classmate confide that he owed hundreds of thousands of debts and had no income. Everyone who can borrow money asked again, but few people helped him. The parents-in-law at home ignored their grandchildren and were desperate for a time, trying to forget all this.

Fortunately, I finally figured it out, and there is hope when I am alive. Besides, I am still young and poor, which can really make people ignore human life.

Kowtow to raise money for the school.

I heard a classmate share that I lost my parents when I was a child and grew up with my grandparents. When I was young, my grandparents could pay for school. Later, I was admitted to the university. Although not very famous, but admitted, but the tuition is not enough, I really want to go.

So his grandparents took him to borrow money from house to house in the village, and he knelt down and kowtowed at every house. At that time, when I heard this, my nose was sour and I almost couldn't hold it. Many students around him were in tears.

This is good, after all, it is a positive thing, and it is not shameful, but it is really shameful to have no money.

At the beginning of junior high school, a boy gradually emerged, studied better and better, and finally became the second in the senior high school entrance examination list, and entered the top class of provincial key middle schools with excellent results. However, no one knows that the child's family is poor, and his inner inferiority and confusion have led to some things that others cannot understand. A beautiful rich girl fell in love with him, fell in love with him, chased him madly, and was ignored and avoided by him again and again. In this way, 15 years later, we met again at a class reunion. Both of them have their own homes and their lives are quite stable. The girl suddenly laughed and asked the boy, "Why do you hate me so much and I'm not ugly?" The boy was silent for a while and said, "In fact, I fell in love with you from the beginning. You have been my goddess from beginning to end, including now. I refused you thousands of miles away because my family was poor and my father was sick. I may drop out of school at any time. I can't bear to drag my goddess into the bottomless pit of my poor life. Only when I feel sorry for you will I stay away from you. I know that letting go of love is true love ... "The boy said softly.

Poverty is a heart disease!

If you live a normal life in poverty, you can be poor or ambitious. Anyway, in Dont Ask For Help, the best I can do is to eat less and wear less!

Poverty and difficulties make it difficult for people to persist.

When I went back to my hometown last year, I heard something about marrying a daughter-in-law, which can let people know the humbleness of the poor. Just two days before I went home, my neighbor Zhang Ge died and fell into the coal pool of the coal gasification company at night. My brother Zhang is fifty years old and my son Xiao Zhang is twenty-six. He is an absolute rural elder. The object is agreed, but what people want is the car and building in the county. The garage adds up to 700,000 to 800,000. Lao Zhang and his wife have been saving for more than 20 years and have more than 200,000 in their hands. Borrowing from the east and the west for half a month can raise 40 thousand to 50 thousand Later, brother Zhang was so anxious that he couldn't sleep, his mouth was full of ulcers and he sighed all day. Then, something happened.

After Zhang Ge died, because he was an employee of the company, the company managed to get insurance. Zhang Sao got 600,000 yuan, the company gave some pensions, and the neighbors also sent some solatium, so the funeral was finished.

A few days later, people in the village whispered, "Lao Zhang's life has been exchanged for Xiao Zhang's daughter-in-law", because the water in the coal pool had been drained at that time, and I saw Lao Zhang sitting at the bottom of the pool without much trace of struggle. ...

A life!

How humble can poverty be? Speaking of this topic, I am really sad.

In fact, many people have experienced poverty, especially when they are young. When they see other people's homes, they really feel uncomfortable in their own homes.

I remember once going to a classmate's house, and her mother cooked fried hairtail, which was rare more than 20 years ago. You can only eat a little during the Chinese New Year.

Watching her bite by bite, it is no exaggeration to say that my mouth is watering, but people don't let me eat. I just pretended to watch TV.

That feeling will never be forgotten. Later, I went to school and stayed in a strange city after graduation. At that time, my salary was only 100, so I thought I could earn some money by working at night.

First, I went to a job of washing dishes, which is a popular snack bar in the local area. It costs one yuan an hour.

I was a dentist at that time, and there were always many acquaintances washing dishes at night, so I hid under it.

I work 4 hours a day, and I can't go back to the dormitory until midnight 12, and I will be exhausted in a short time.

However, people have to toss about when they are alive, so I still save 50 yuan every month. It's not much, but it's not a small sum for me.

Yes, during that time, I had no dignity at all, but after making money, I felt that labor was the most glorious and not shameful.

Yes, poverty can make a person humble to no dignity, but it doesn't mean losing dignity.

I am poor, but I am not ashamed. I created wealth with my own hands. I am still not rich, but I am happy.

As the saying goes; Happiness lies in contentment! I wish everyone happiness, nothing. I'm laughing.

Thank you for inviting me!

How humble can poverty be? This question is very confusing. Poverty will make people give up their dignity and dreams in order to survive.

I have a real case here-

A neighbor of my hometown, my father and son have a good family. Their home is the first in the village to have a color TV, a jeep and a two-story building with three homesteads. A few years ago, because the county set up a provincial-level industrial park behind our village, because the policy was better, various factories took advantage of the trend. Seeing the good situation, the boss of the Guo family listened to his friend's advice and invested more than 4 million from his family and more than 4 million borrowed from his friend in a factory. As a result, the factory was not built in less than half a year, and the promoters ran away with the money.

Brother Guo is in his forties, and he grows old overnight. In a month's time, a fat man weighing 200 kg suddenly lost weight to 120 kg. The whole person is like a lost soul, not going out to talk.

Then there was nothing I could do. Guo's father is out of the mountain. He has been eating farmland since he was a child, and Dont Ask For Help is famous for everything. In the village, that is the existence of the master. His possessions, knowledge, experience and personality are incomparable.

As soon as the old man came out of the mountain, he sold his car and all valuable things at home, mortgaged his house, and rode his bicycle around his relatives and friends for five days. Every family left empty-handed, and it took him half a month to pay back all the losses.

Last Spring Festival, I went home to pay a New Year call to Master Guo. The whole person's state is different. I am polite to anyone I meet. I'm almost 70 years old. It is said that he has two jobs at the same time, one is the supervisor of a timber factory and the other is the bookkeeping agent. He has to earn money to repay the bank loan and save money to marry his two grandchildren.

Although the state is not what it used to be, Guo's eyes are still unyielding to life and his smile is full of unyielding.

Being poor is not terrible. The terrible thing is that when you are poor, you don't know how to be flexible and make progress! Poor people can't be poor, they are heroes and can't be short of breath at any time.

A big boss has his own secretary. Although not glamorous, it is also a kind of natural beauty. The point is, girls also come from bitter backgrounds. So on weekdays, the boss will naturally take care of her more. The old man is nearly 40 years old, older than the girl 10 years old, five big and three thick, and looks like a pig. I saw that beautiful secretary and offered to be boyfriend and girlfriend with her. Hearing this, the beauty refused at that time and flatly refused. The old man couldn't help it. A few days later, he came to the office, took out 1O yuan from his bag, put it on the table and said, "I know you don't deserve it, but I have the money to support you and your family, and I can cure your father's illness." If you figure it out, call me. "

My father has been in bed 1 for many years, and my brother is married, which is not easy to make up for. Mom takes care of dad and has no income. The family is waiting for her salary every month. 100000 is her salary for several years, which is a huge sum for a poor family. She stared at the pile of money and looked at the "old man" in front of her, and her mind was full of thoughts. If you don't promise, how can you live in the future? What about father's illness? If you agree, how can you be happy with this arrogant person for a long time in the future? That night, she lost sleep. In a daze, my father was lying in the hospital bed, and after groaning in pain, my mother sat by the hospital bed and sighed again and again, especially when the nurse was holding a medicine list and asked her to pay the bill. At the sight of her parents' helpless and helpless eyes, she couldn't help crying like rain ... What a sacrifice to give birth to my old father and mother! She finally dialed the old man's cell phone …

Money is a bastard. It's ugly to have no money! At the age of 20, you can have no money because there are many opportunities. But you know, money is very important. Otherwise, at the age of 30, you will still be poor. You can't afford a house, a car or even a good restaurant for dating. At the age of 40, when there is no money, my wife will age rapidly because of stress, my children will not be able to go to a good university because of tuition, and my parents will not dare to get sick. At the age of 50, if there is no money, the child will be under great financial pressure. You're scared. What should I do if I get sick? 60 years old and 70 years old, because they are poor, they may not enjoy it. Max has taken you to heaven. When I was young, I thought money was the most important thing in the world. I didn't know until I was old. That's true. So, is money important With it, you are entitled to say that it is not important!

Poverty, being trampled on, being bullied and being cold-eyed, can be seen everywhere in this society. Look at other people's faces, even if there are more grievances, you can only submit to humiliation. This is the reason why Mashan was ridden because people were poor and bullied.

Poverty not only makes you have no status, but also has no right to speak. You have to endure great grievances. When you are poor, you can't see friendliness when you look up. You only see cold eyes, so many people can't stand it and have no place to live.

Poverty costs you a lot, but you can't lose your backbone. The more people step on you, the harder you work, the more you bully you, and the more indifferent you look. You will turn these into your motivation, and one day it will shine!

In view of this problem, I think so:

Poverty can't define people's humbleness, only people's hearts can, and people whose souls are enslaved are truly humble. In addition, the meaning of poverty should be diversified. Some people are poorer materially, some people are poorer spiritually, and some people are poorer both. Most snobbish and superficial people will only see the humility of others on the surface or in words and deeds, but it is difficult to see their hearts.

What we often say about poverty now is mostly material poverty. As the saying goes, people have endless ambitions. As long as he can be ambitious and endure what ordinary people can't stand, he will get ahead one day, and his life will only be an inspirational legend. What is tolerated here refers to things that can't be tolerated in the secular world, mostly things that lose face and may be humble in the eyes of the world. For example, Han Xin's crotch humiliation, enduring public humiliation, laughing at the cynicism of leaders or colleagues or keeping silent, living under criticism and laughing at himself.

I believe everyone has seen a movie called Happyness Chasing the Murder. When the hero's life is in an unprecedented predicament, he has no place to live, but he can only hide in the bathroom, go to the interview without suitable clothes, and try his best to please customers ... But when the hero finally succeeds, looking back at his hardships all the way, do you think his life is humble?

It can be seen that a material-poor person will lose his personality and self-esteem even if his words and deeds are humble for lofty aspirations, goals, certain beliefs or responsibilities, but wise people, time, lovers or relatives will see their noble souls under their humble appearance!

I also want to emphasize that there is no humble career in this world, only humble heart! As long as there is comparison between people, everyone will be humble, whether it is to choose inner strength or inner degeneration. ...