She said that she had told stories to her children since she was a child.

She also said that her children loved listening to stories when they were young, and they would pester him to tell stories before going to bed or after waking up every day. Her children were only two or three years old at that time.

What do two or three-year-olds know?

Tell him a story, can you understand it?

This is my idea, and most parents must also think so.

She said, you should tell your child in your own language. Don't think that because your child is young and doesn't understand something, you won't tell him or communicate with him. You know, you are sowing seeds.

Children don't plant deep-rooted seeds when they are young. How can there be towering trees in the future?

Most parents have this experience, especially in high school. Don't worry if your child gets good grades in Chinese. If their grades are not good, it will be difficult to improve in a short time.

One,

Some young parents are not ready to be parents and think they haven't had enough fun. They play games with their mobile phones or tablets all day, and give their children to their parents, or to their mobile phones and televisions.

Once I went out to eat, I saw a young mother whose children were very noisy. In order to appease the children, she took out her tablet computer and found an cartoon. So during the whole meal, the children are watching their mobile phones and eating the dishes cooked by their mothers. Her mother is also watching her mobile phone while eating rice.

Is this kind of eating scene familiar to us?

Is there a problem?

Do we dominate the mobile phone or does the mobile phone dominate us?

You can't rely on mobile phones to solve problems everywhere.

Eat a meal, but also need to watch the mobile phone to eat.

Eating, originally a warm time to relax and interact with family, is now such a picture. Are you watching your mobile phone or eating? Can you taste the rice when you eat? Can I concentrate on my mobile phone? Is this training children to do both?

This kind of eating scene reflects too many problems.

You know, children's learning is everywhere, and children's learning also needs to learn from life. His first teacher is his parents.

We can't wait for the child to have a problem before we find the reason.

It's late

There is no turning back in children's education. If you miss it, you miss it. It's gone forever.

Second,

There are too many such examples.

Sometimes in kindergarten, teachers ask children to perform programs, and some children will sing some online songs that are not suitable for them.

Teachers know how long children spend in the garden and how long it takes them to learn to sing a song. How long does it take children to learn such online songs on their mobile phones?

If you just listen, that's another matter.

Mobile phones take up too much of our time, as if we are not the owners of mobile phones, but slaves of mobile phones.

Can't you put down your cell phone and tell stories and talk with your children?

Third,

Fang Suzhen, a writer of children's literature, once said: "Storytelling is to sow a seed in every child's heart and live in an elf. You told a humorous story today, and a funny elf lived in the child's heart; You told a sad story today, and he has a sad spirit in his heart; You told an imaginative story today, and his heart was full of an imaginative elf. After all, these elves are actually the word "wisdom".

Parents should not be lazy with their children. You know, the laziness you stole from your children today will make them pay for you in the future.

You know, the most important job in life is to cultivate your own children.

There is a child in a relative's house. Born less than one year old, parents go out to work, and children are taken care of by grandparents.

I earned a lot of money by working and bought a house in the city, but the children who grew up didn't learn a skill. They do nothing all day, loaf about and live a life of gnawing at old bones.

Who caused this result?

Now that you are a parent, you should make a good plan and take care of your child's growth and education. If you work blindly to make money, no matter how much money you earn, you may be defeated by your children.

There is an old saying in China that it is better to teach people to fish than to teach them to fish. What I mean by this sentence is that it is better to give more money to children than to let them earn their own money.

Not only that, but I also feel comfortable looking at those timid children who don't make progress all day?

The most important thing for parents is to accompany their children effectively and open the door to their wisdom.