The biggest difficulty in middle age. It means that you have an old one and a young one below. The old ones need you to take care of them, and the younger ones need you to raise them. If your career is still in the rising stage of hard work. Then your difficulties will be even greater. In other words, your pressure is even greater. If it's already done. The top management of the company. The difficulty is relatively small. After all, he is already a senior executive of the company. The income is relatively much higher. This way you will be less stressed. Otherwise it would be really stressful.

Middle-aged. That is, those over 40 years old. So professionally. Basically positioned. There is not much room for improvement anymore. This time. The corresponding parents are old. Especially the generation born in the 1980s. They are basically only children. Two young people. There are four old people to take care of. At the same time, he has to raise his own children. A child's is better. What if I have a second or third child? Then the pressure is even greater.

There are definitely difficulties. But how to overcome these difficulties. This is a question facing every middle-aged person. Especially those living in first-tier cities. The difficulty is even greater. Bring your parents close to you. Housing prices in first-tier cities are ridiculously high. Therefore it cannot be realized. In other words, it is quite difficult to implement. If you don't pick it up by your side. It’s inconvenient to take care of. So I think. If a person reaches middle age. You work hard in first-tier cities. There is no better harvest. That is to say, you have not yet entered the senior level of a company. If the income is still relatively low. Then I will suggest you. Go directly back to second and third tier cities. Take care of your parents this way. It's more convenient. After all, housing prices in third- and fourth-tier cities are high. Relatively much lower. Find a job with a comparable position. Then stabilize yourself first. This way we can only take care of our parents. And I can raise my children well. In fact, living in third- and fourth-tier cities is quite good. The income may not be too high but every month. It is basically achievable for the couple's income to reach 15,000 to 20,000. In this case, the price is not very high. The overall cost of living is not too high either. In fact, both parents now have pensions. Life is good, but they are old and unable to do many things. We just need help to do it. Therefore, taking care of your parents does not require much financial pressure. After all, parents have pension insurance. All have medical insurance. I just need someone to take care of me.