Boyfriend's family conditions are ok. He has two buildings, a car and no room. He has to pay the car loan, rent, eat and drink, smoke and drink, and there is not much left.
If you are not satisfied with the conditions at your boyfriend's home, don't choose. You also said you could have two houses. Now I borrow money to buy a car, and I can only rent a house when I work outside. You already have two houses at home, but your boyfriend earns little money by eating, drinking and smoking. If you don't think he is very good, don't choose.