In marriage, the longest confession is companionship. When I need you, you will always be by my side. I'm afraid this is the hope of all women in marriage.
However, marriage is inseparable from daily necessities, soy sauce, vinegar and tea, in order to make this family richer and better living conditions. Many couples start to separate, men go out to earn money, and women do housework at home.
Some people say that parting is better than getting married, but the husband and wife have been separated for a long time, so they have to endure the pain of lovesickness and accept the cruelty of reality. Will people really become strangers when their feelings slowly fade in this waiting?
can a woman stand loneliness after a long separation between husband and wife? These three women spoke from their hearts, so warm
@ Celery Blossoms Married for 8 years, separated for 7 years
We are free to fall in love, and have a good emotional foundation, but his family condition is not good. After we get married, we have no money to use, so he went to work outside. After I have children, I will take care of them at home, not because I don't want to be around him, but because the expenses at home are smaller, which can save a little money.
after he gets paid every month, he will transfer money to me, leaving only a few hundred yuan for himself. He always tells me that he is sorry for me, and it is because he is useless that he makes me suffer with him. But my heart is warm. He loves me, which is more real than money.
This year, we finally got a loan to buy a house, and we can end our separation days in a few days. He told me something that moved me when he was happy. He once ran out of money and only ate two white steamed buns at night. I said he had worked hard, but he said I worked harder than him. I took care of the children at home alone, so he wanted to give me what other women had, so that I wouldn't regret marrying him.
In fact, as long as the relationship between husband and wife is good, separation is not a problem. If you marry the right person, you are not afraid of hardships.
@ Thumbelina has been married for three years and separated for two years
Separation is always noisy. At first, I was really not used to him leaving me and secretly crying at home, but he could tell by phone whether I was unhappy or not, always telling me that this hard life was only temporary, and I would go to his side when the child was older.
In the past two years, he only came back once a year for half a month at a time. He always helped me clean the house and took me and my children out to play.
I asked him if he was not tired? He said that men are afraid of something when they are tired. Men are women's days, and they should hold up a sky for women.
Later, he went out to work and called me every day. It has been a year, rain or shine.
He gave me all the money and said that it was up to me. I saved everything for him except the living expenses. I hope we can end our separation days as soon as possible. The more we love him, the more we want to be with him.
@ 亵亵亵亵亵 has been married for 15 years and separated for 5 years
It's a separation, but it shouldn't be a separation. He comes back once a month.
when you get older, the relationship between husband and wife is also flat. All these years, we were together, but his business failed five years ago, and then he went to other places to make money with others, but he was not used to it at first half a year, and then he gradually got used to the day of separation.
All the money I earned was given to me. I looked after my child at home, and he will come home in a few years to start a small business, so that the whole family can get together.
Life is not easy. We must make appropriate sacrifices for the immediate difficulties, but this is to be better together in the future. It is not easy to measure each other's difficulties, and at the same time, we must understand our own responsibilities, and * * * together to safeguard the marriage, in order to get the happiness we want.