When engaged, my mother-in-law said she bought a house. After marriage, she asked me and my boyfriend to pay the mortgage. She also said that the children would be looked after by grandma in the future. I met a mother-in-law who is similar to you, and I didn't pay a deposit anyway. You'd better choose a house far away from your mother-in-law's house, so that your life will be more peaceful. As for money, buy a car (in the name of your mother's family) so that they don't have so much to do. In other words, you can borrow what your mother bought. Of course, during your use, you have to pay for refueling and maintenance. ) If your mother-in-law doesn't pay back the house, you have to pay it yourself no matter how hard it is. She might say that the money she earned will be yours in the future. Don't believe this, she won't bring the children. That's what my mother-in-law said when I first got married. Later, she still asked her son for it. If I didn't give it to her, she would make trouble and say that her son was raised for nothing. Finally, her son gave her 3000 yuan. Don't think she will take care of it for you. What she does for them is to be stingy, to shop often, and to save more money for herself in shopping expenses. Don't let your husband find out that from this performance, she will listen to his mother in the future, so don't offend him, on the surface. Isn't it a gift from 10W? Use this money to buy a garage and rent it out if you don't need it. For your mother-in-law, if money becomes something, she will think less. Your tip is too small. You can give me 10, hehe.