Born to catch up with family planning, there were no brothers and sisters since childhood;
When I was at school, because of the large population and crowded classrooms, the competition for exams was unprecedentedly fierce;
After graduation, I went to work, got married and bought a house, and found that the house price had gone up in the sky, so I couldn't afford it myself.
After years of struggle, I finally got a daughter-in-law and a baby. I feel a little hopeful in life, and my retirement is delayed until I am 65.
After settling down, I emptied my wallet and finally bought a house, opening up the two-child policy. I really don't want to be born, and I dare not.
What brought down the post-90s generation?
house
Nowadays, the post-90s generation (their parents) has become the main force to buy a house. Faced with tens of thousands of housing prices in any city, most people need their parents to pay the down payment of the house and then bear the subsequent loans themselves. After the 90 s, whose salary is not high, do you still have to take out three or four thousand from your salary every month? Filial piety? Give it to the bank, and only mortgage slaves with debts of more than one million will understand.
mood
A survey report on divorce shows that the first batch of post-90s generation has entered the divorce tide, and the divorce rate has risen from 30% to 80%. Among the people who divorced for half a year, the post-90s generation accounted for 1/3.
Maybe this figure has been exaggerated on the internet, and I don't want to believe it, but the reality is that this is really a very serious problem.
I was spoiled by my family since I was a child, and I was still self-centered in many cases. Boys don't like girls to be too melodramatic, because they break up in anger at a little thing (even for unknown reasons); Girls hate boys being too straight and not knowing what they want. But nobody wants to think about it. Obviously, a person can live more easily. Why did TA choose to be with you? The other person's occasional negligence really doesn't love you?
Love is the mutual support after the storm, and it is the heart that will not be defeated by ordinary life after the sweet period. Don't give up the person who loves you easily, or you will regret it all your life.
undertaking
Every graduation season is said to be the most difficult season for employment. Coupled with economic development in recent years, the unemployment rate is as high as the divorce rate. It's easy to hear that a company has laid off employees. Not surprisingly, it was the post-90 s newcomers who laid off employees. We should work calmly, but we still have to bear the burden all the time? Capitalist? The broadsword of layoffs.
parents
After 90, it will gradually become the pillar of the family, and it will also urge parents to grow old day by day. They are getting worse and worse, but they still refuse to rest, because they still want to help you as much as possible, save money to buy a house for you, marry a daughter-in-law, and help you take care of the baby in the future. There is no doubt that your baby can't really enjoy life until he grows up. We are worried about their health, but we are defeated by reality, because you know, it is still very difficult for you to live alone without their support.
No chance after 70/80, no comfort after 00. Many of them need to bear by themselves, and they are the most bitter people in the society now.
Will collapse, cry, even want to die, but in the end will not give up, this is attitude.
In this world, there are still many people and things worthy of nostalgia. If you are tired, take a little vacation for yourself and get back on track. Don't be overwhelmed by the mortgage, don't continue to feel sorry for people who don't love you, don't be afraid of losing your job, and don't feel sorry for your parents, but you will still just lie in bed and brush this video and play games.