Life will inevitably encounter setbacks and failures. Instead of washing regrets with tears, it is better to meet new challenges with a smile.
Life is a mirror, and an optimistic person sees his smile; A pessimist sees his own bitter pen.
In the most sad time, you can't lose faith; In the happiest time, you can't forget setbacks.
Let me analyze it for you:
First of all, we should change our views on our husbands (tone of voice, attitude, etc. ), and we must eliminate the grievances from the bottom of our hearts, endure for a while and calm down, and take a step back. Don't blame him even if he is wrong. Sincerity and understanding are the most precious gifts in interpersonal communication. Your husband is an only child. Anyway, he will take care of you sooner or later.
Secondly, it is often said in Buddhism that "follow the fate and don't climb." If the husband really cares about you, he will give up the idea of relying on him temporarily, and it may be better after a while. It is better to hide cleverness than to hide clumsiness, and make it clear with regret; Clear in turbidity, with flexion as extension; Don't complain about the difficulties and setbacks in life, take it as an opportunity to hone yourself. Hard work is rich, knowledge includes success, and life will not be sweeter with your own mind and hands.
I hope you can summon up courage and face life bravely.